Why do I always feel gloomy after talking to a doc?
Ladybrown
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Found a new GP today - seems ok so far (at least I didn't get told to 'man up' and find a different job anyway!!). Still can't help but feel miserable afterwards (although the dog is doing her best to distract me - I've remembered not to cry this time because last time I got that upset she was confused, jumped on my back and, well, made some unexpected pelvic movements :shock: :shock: 
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So, a better chat, but I was told that yes, if the surgeon thinks a TKR is the right thing then it would be easy enough to refer me back to him. So I asked what would be the prompt, when would be the right time? I was given three options:
1 - when you can't walk down the street or stand in the classroom
2- it puts serious pressure on your marriage
3 - depression (again)
In the meantime, we could try stronger painkillers (tramadol I've had before but morphine?) which I am not keen to do yet. I'll make do with the cody and the latest anti-inflammatory (so long as it's ok to keep taking).
So I am wondering, should I boot out the OH?! He has disappeared on a Christmas 'event' - been gone since yesterday (I married a musician - periodically they do this - disappear into a 'studio' at someone's house and emerge days later after 'recording'. I shudder to think what they record, but I learned early it's dull to be there...) :carolers:
Feet up, end of term style and I might just get myself a takeaway and find something cheerful to watch on tv until he shambles home.
)So, a better chat, but I was told that yes, if the surgeon thinks a TKR is the right thing then it would be easy enough to refer me back to him. So I asked what would be the prompt, when would be the right time? I was given three options:
1 - when you can't walk down the street or stand in the classroom
2- it puts serious pressure on your marriage
3 - depression (again)
In the meantime, we could try stronger painkillers (tramadol I've had before but morphine?) which I am not keen to do yet. I'll make do with the cody and the latest anti-inflammatory (so long as it's ok to keep taking).
So I am wondering, should I boot out the OH?! He has disappeared on a Christmas 'event' - been gone since yesterday (I married a musician - periodically they do this - disappear into a 'studio' at someone's house and emerge days later after 'recording'. I shudder to think what they record, but I learned early it's dull to be there...) :carolers:
Feet up, end of term style and I might just get myself a takeaway and find something cheerful to watch on tv until he shambles home.
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In terms of the GP, firstly I'm glad you've found one who is more approachable, I have a great one, some appointments are brief, (the give me more drugs ones), some we have a bit of a joke/talk politics /family, and others I get tearful. The tearful ones are usually those when I have to be honest about something being difficult and those are the ones where I feel down after. However it is important to be honest with our GPs if we are to get the best from them as how ever skilled they are we can't expect them to be mindreaders!
One other thing to factor in, it has been a very long term, so it's natural to be tired and for me this is also something that can make me tearful.
So turn off the alarm, have a duvet day, relax, eat chocolates and watch TV.
And I wouldn't boot out the OH.
Julian of Norwich
It has been a long old term, hasn't it?
Only joking about the OH although it's been tough on me, so he's having a hard time too. I expect I won't see him until tomorrow now so it's some rubbish tv and sharing the sofa with the dog for me.
Thank heavens it's time for the hols
:santa2:
I'm planning a day of R and R, feet up, chocolates and the TV, planning to watch It's a Wonderful Life later and then it's the Strictly Final!
Take care and have a good Christmas and New Year.
Julian of Norwich
A replacement will be carried out when the damage is sufficient to merit it. Our thoughts and feelings about that are often at odds with the professionals' because we are living with the ongoing deterioration in movement and the increasing level of pain as other joints become affected. They are living with the increasing demand for this operation as the population ages but with generally good health. Like us the NHS is creaking under the pressure of the demands being placed upon it. Frustrating, yes? DD