my Father died

mike77
mike77 Member Posts: 879
edited 11. Feb 2009, 05:02 in Living with Arthritis archive
Hi,

I got a call last night at 03.00am that my father had a masvie heart attack, he has been in Hospital due to a fall causeing him to break his hip, he had his surgery on his hip , but since my mum died 2007 he was lost with out her . still waiting for the funeral arrangements

MikeR&Hazel&MikeJR
Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
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  • shelleymogui
    shelleymogui Member Posts: 88
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Im so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Shelley xx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike JR

    I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I am also sad that your dad lost the will to live after your mum died. That must have been difficult for you all. It will be a busy time, with very mixed emotions, for you in the coming weeks. I shall be thinking of you. It is something we dread happening - losing our parents.
    My heart goes out to you.

    Elna xxx
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • oneday
    oneday Member Posts: 1,434
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    To Mike,Hazel,Mike jnr and family
    I am sorry to hear about your father and send my sincere condolences.
    take care
  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    my thoughts are with you and your loved ones at this very sad time ,xxx
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • nearlybionic
    nearlybionic Member Posts: 1,899
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you over the coming days.
    Nicola
  • suncatcher
    suncatcher Member Posts: 2,174
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Im sorry to hear your news my thoughts and orayers go out to you at this sad time from Joanne price
    Joanne
  • michelle22
    michelle22 Member Posts: 93
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike

    I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this sad time.

    Michelle

    xxxx
  • josiec
    josiec Member Posts: 386
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm very sorry to hear of your loss and send my condolences to you and your family. You shall be in all our thoughts. Josie
  • greyheron
    greyheron Member Posts: 167
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Very sorry to hear your sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Something similar happened in my family. My mum died first and of course left a big gap in my dad's life. He was very brave and managed well but life was never the same for him. He was a religious man and believed that he would be reunited with Mum in heaven, so he passed away with hope in his heart.

    I don't know whether your dad had any religious beliefs but they can sometimes be a comfort to those of us who are left behind even if we don't believe ourselves (which I don't).

    Anyway, enough about me and my family. Again I send you my condolences and hopes that these coming days will not be too difficult for you.

    Take care

    Wendy
  • eckstardeluxe
    eckstardeluxe Member Posts: 1,192
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm really sorry. I send you my heartfelt condolences. xxx
  • avalon
    avalon Member Posts: 13
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm so sorry to hear your sad news Mike. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Take care

    Janetx
  • sueandted
    sueandted Member Posts: 40
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to read your awful news :( , my thoughts are with you x
  • bluesky05
    bluesky05 Member Posts: 39
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike Junior,

    I am so sorry to hear your sad news, my deepest condolences to you all. I will thinking of you all at this sad time. x
  • jaspercat
    jaspercat Member Posts: 1,238
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike Hazel and Mike Junior

    Just letting you know that I am thinking of you all love Jaspercatxx
  • petmad
    petmad Member Posts: 252
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I will be thinking of you at this sad time.
  • magenta
    magenta Member Posts: 1,604
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike Jr.
    I'm very sad to hear about your father. My thoughts are with you and your family.
    Magenta x
  • mash65
    mash65 Bots Posts: 834
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    so sorry to hear that.our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
    deb
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sorry to hear your sad news.

    Will be thinking about you all.

    Be kind to yourselves and don't push yourselves too hard ......... you need time to reflect too.

    love and hugs to you all
    XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
  • Jeannie
    Jeannie Member Posts: 29
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike junior,

    Bob,Jeannie2 and the rest of the Arthritis Care moderating team would like to send you our condolences on the loss of your father.
  • redpoppy
    redpoppy Member Posts: 108
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    sorry to hear about your loss.my thoughts are with you.
  • springs65
    springs65 Member Posts: 22
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike Hazel and Mike Jn so sorry to hear about the loss of your father, my thoughts and prayers will be with you at this sad time. You must try to take care of yourselves as well and not to stretch
    yourselves too far. Wont help your sister either who I know is quite ill

    Take care Mike

    Cindy X
  • pluggathome
    pluggathome Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

    Take care.

    Pluggxx
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike I know just how your feeling at the moment because my Mum died just before Christmas - I'm so sorry for your loss, try to think about the happy days with your Dad.

    Luv Legs :(
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,087
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike
    Oh I am so sorry :(
    Can i wish you and your family all the very best at this sad time :(
    I will be thinking of you all
    Love
    Toni x
  • colinone
    colinone Member Posts: 1,039
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi mike i'm so sorry to hear your sad news
    Thinking of you
    Colin

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