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  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am so sorry to hear of your sad loss. You are in my thoughts. Love Sue xxx
  • denpen
    denpen Member Posts: 389
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi
    Sorry to hear of your loss, the only consolation you can have is that he is with your mum now which is where he would want to be and he is happy and in no pain or discomfort.
    God Bless
    Denise.x
  • suepollard
    suepollard Member Posts: 28
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike and Hazel,
    I am so sorry to hear about your father, I have just lost mine too. My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.
    God Bless
    Sue
    xxxx
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi mike and Hazel I am sorry to hear of your loss Chrisov
  • mike77
    mike77 Member Posts: 879
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi all,

    We would like to all for your kind words , the burial is tomorrow , it is such a comfort to come to this site and see the kind and very very thoutfull words each person has taken to write thank you all


    Mike R & Hazel & mike JR
    Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
  • scorpiojackie
    scorpiojackie Member Posts: 38
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello,

    So sorry to read of the sad loss of your Dad. My thoughts are with you and your family, especially tomorrow. Sending you strength & hugs

    Jackie
  • katekelly
    katekelly Member Posts: 975
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

    God bless

    Kate xx
  • mike77
    mike77 Member Posts: 879
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    well my father was laid to rest , the service was lovely my sister and brother- in - law had arranged it .

    I tried to walk as far behind my fathers hears as long as i could, but my pain in the hip was getting worse and to make matters worse, I was getting pains in my chest ith using the crutches ( my mobility scooter had stalled due to the snow getting in the works and melting,

    thank you all for your kind support (you are all the very best people around THANK YOU)


    mike R &hAZEL & MIKE JR
    Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,087
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike
    Your Dad knew you walked as far as you could.
    You did well to get through the day.
    Your Sister did well too. My brother said something at my Mum's funeral and it was so moving.
    Mike, I wish you all the best, you know you can always post on here if you feel down
    Love to you all
    Toni xx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike JR

    I will be thinking of you and your family in the coming weeks. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory bring some comfort to you in the future.

    You must know by now that many of us on here have a real soft spot for you three in our hearts, I certainly do.

    Elna xxx
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • noeltone
    noeltone Member Posts: 878
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi mike I will continue thinking of you and your family and do keep chatting on here
    Chrisov
  • mike77
    mike77 Member Posts: 879
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    elnafinn wrote:
    Dear Mike, Hazel and Mike JR

    I will be thinking of you and your family in the coming weeks. Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory bring some comfort to you in the future.

    You must know by now that many of us on here have a real soft spot for you three in our hearts, I certainly do.

    Elna xxx
    Hi Elna,

    Thank you very much for your kind words me & hazel & mikeJR think that was very nice :D:D:D:D:D:D you have made us three very happy, today my mobility scooter would not start at all today , I have phoned up the company but they said we dont cover Northen Ireland, I am finding that my back is getting very sore as I walk, ( so hurry upand fix that scooter)

    Mike R &Hazel&MIKeJR :D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D:D
    Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike

    I really do hope that you get your scooter back on track soon. It makes your life easier so is essential that it gets sorted as soon as possible. Why does it sometimes feel that everything is so difficult and complicated? Why should we be made to feel we have to fight to get things done? It does get you down, doesn't it especially at this fragile time in your life.

    Luv
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • mike77
    mike77 Member Posts: 879
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi all ,what a shock I got today,I was told that my dad did not die from a heart attack but a urine infection .

    to tell you the truth I dont know wheather I am coming or going


    mike R & hazel & Mike JR :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :?: :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :? :?
    Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
  • jackie1955
    jackie1955 Member Posts: 632
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Mike, Hazel & Mike jnr,

    I am pretty new on here so don't know too much about you all, but as I have lost both my much loved and desperately missed parents I can understand how you must be feeling.

    When my Dad died and people offered me their condolences, I always replied "he hasn't gone 'cos he'll always be in here" and placed my hand over my heart. And believe me, when Mum joined him a few years later, I felt the same intense feeling then. Still do.

    Love that strong can never end - not even in death.

    My condolences, Jackie
  • mike77
    mike77 Member Posts: 879
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thank you Jackie, its hard when you lose both parents. welcome to this board as i am sure that you an see how important this site is, my wife hazel is on a FIBROMAGALIA site and i told them sure enought the support was great but to my amazement i got word of smyapthy from an aunt and her nephews 0ne was 8 yr, 10 yr , 8 months they had lost there mum & dad in a grash god i was so shocked and touched that thease kids had time to think about me , god bless them.

    thank you for replying to my post have to go as I am getting sore

    Mike R & Hazel & Mike JR
    Mike R & Hazel & MikeJR
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,087
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mike
    I hope you rae feeling a bit better physically now :(
    Those people are wonderful aren't they. At the end of the day it happens to all of us and like others I have lost both of my parents and am an orphan :(
    Hopefully you will find out why a urine infection caused your Dad's heart attack and will be able to accept that it did. Shocking though.
    I still miss my Mum daily, but can remember the good times much more now, which is nice and what I know she would want.
    Take care and be kind to yourself just now.
    Hope the scooter gets fixed ASAP
    love
    Toni xx

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