What do you miss?

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  • slummymummy
    slummymummy Member Posts: 69
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yes, only a year on and already I miss all these things. But also I miss SHOPPING.... Being able to drive to the shops, walk around the shops, try stuff on in the shops, carry lots and lots of bags around the shops, and basically shop til I dropped. Ahhh those were the days. :roll: :roll: :roll: :cry::lol::cry:
  • katekelly
    katekelly Member Posts: 975
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yes, only a year on and already I miss all these things. But also I miss SHOPPING.... Being able to drive to the shops, walk around the shops, try stuff on in the shops, carry lots and lots of bags around the shops, and basically shop til I dropped. Ahhh those were the days. :roll: :roll: :roll: :cry::lol::cry:

    But to try and find a silverlining SM just think of the money you save now 'cos you can't shop!!!
  • nearlybionic
    nearlybionic Member Posts: 1,899
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kate
    The problem I have now is that I still spend, probably more, by online shopping!!!! :shock: :roll:
    NB
  • hels78
    hels78 Member Posts: 60
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I know that feeling nearlybionic! Reading what you have all put has reminded me of some more things for my list, including the nookie! :oops:
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kate
    The problem I have now is that I still spend, probably more, by online shopping!!!! :shock: :roll:
    NB

    Also guilty!!! It doesn't seem like real money. :oops: :oops:
    Love Sue
  • katekelly
    katekelly Member Posts: 975
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    woodbon wrote:
    Hi Kate
    The problem I have now is that I still spend, probably more, by online shopping!!!! :shock: :roll:
    NB

    Also guilty!!! It doesn't seem like real money. :oops: :oops:
    Love Sue

    Real money I thought it was plastic ...help!!!! :shock:
  • colinone
    colinone Member Posts: 1,039
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi nearlybionic
    What do you mean REMINISENCE indeed as if its some form of old memory or some distant thing from the past LOL. Its only well its not that long, well its not like it was ages ago where not talking years here but it does seem that way at times.
    As some of the guys say it’s the spontaneity of life. The worse thing is when the brain says go on Colin and the body says hey Colin are you stupid. You know I always thought it was one of the best things in life but now I like flowers , good meals haa just kidding had you going there LMAO The old Soldier goes to a party and a young girl says to him , my your handsome when was the last time you had sex. The soldier says 1956, the girl thinks this should be good takes him into a room and afterwards says to the soldier was it just like you remember. He says well its only 2030 hours now how could I forget.
    Colin
  • mistywillow
    mistywillow Member Posts: 711
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    colinone wrote:
    Hi nearlybionic
    What do you mean REMINISENCE indeed as if its some form of old memory or some distant thing from the past LOL. Its only well its not that long, well its not like it was ages ago where not talking years here but it does seem that way at times.
    As some of the guys say it’s the spontaneity of life. The worse thing is when the brain says go on Colin and the body says hey Colin are you stupid. You know I always thought it was one of the best things in life but now I like flowers , good meals haa just kidding had you going there LMAO The old Soldier goes to a party and a young girl says to him , my your handsome when was the last time you had sex. The soldier says 1956, the girl thinks this should be good takes him into a room and afterwards says to the soldier was it just like you remember. He says well its only 2030 hours now how could I forget.
    Colin



    Hi All
    I miss going up to town with my 2 daughters watching them shop till we all dropped and having lunch and loads of coffees throughout the day chatting non stop then coming home exhausted on the train with them pulling out all their purchases and gleefully examining them!
    Also miss probably everything that you all have written too.
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  • nearlybionic
    nearlybionic Member Posts: 1,899
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Colin
    Good one!! :lol::lol:
    I have thought of something else I miss. I love concerts/festivals and i am not able to stand or sit on the ground for these anymore!!
    I have to be more civilised and get proper seats. Not that I have been comfy in those for a while, but I am determined that I will be again!!!
    NB
  • colinone
    colinone Member Posts: 1,039
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Mel, You said in simple words, nothings simple Mel especially when your suffering. Sorry your so down you sound totally p----d off with it all.
    I have RA and Pa at the moment I imagine I’m feeling much the same as you. It gets you that way and the long term pain and suffering can play havoc with your mind. Life can suck tell me about it, so much to do and so much to see so many things I wanted to do but then I’m not 24 I’m 62 but I still have hopes and dreams. I really miss going out with my mates I used to go out every Friday with my mates and every Saturday with my wife don’t even drink now because of all the drugs. I had to retire from work and my life changed so much, god it was so hard to cope with my feelings and I could not come to terms with being ill, still cant believe I’m like this after being so fit and active. I’ve had the RA longer than you have lived LOL and I cant tell you how many times I have said enough is enough, but you do find a hidden strength you will go on and you will regain some of your life. The hardest thing is excepting it and coming to terms with it. Ok you slip back from time to time like me now but your post has raised my spirit and there is some truth in the fact that there is always someone worse off. I feel so sorry for you young ladies and the young married people who have homes to keep children to rear and feeling so ill. I do hope some of the young ladies from the site will respond to your post Take care and keep your chin up any time you want to talk please just PM me or leave a post and ill look out for you.
    Big Hug for you
    Colin