I'm Jan, just spent an evening on here with my 21yr old distressed/angry/frustrated daughter who was finally diagnosed with Rheumatoid A. in Sept 09. She is struggling to come to terms with the loss of her medical career due to the fatigue...and so far hasn't wanted to talk to anyone...except me and her fiance...and guess who gets all the anger...poor girl! Not sure where to go to get help for her in exploring how to express all she lost and learn how to pick up the pieces and build a new life/career. any useful do's and don't muchly appreciated!!