So fed up

numptynora
numptynora Member Posts: 782
edited 22. Apr 2013, 18:58 in Community Chit-chat archive
And I don't know why!!

The old RA is under control, but this morning I woke with a really heavy feeling of sadness, now Why? It's been quite some time since I felt like this, the worse thing is, I can't find a reason for it and I feel so alone. I have people that are on the end of the phone, but how can I tell them how I feel if I can't say why. There are things I ought to be doing but I can't be bothered, even giving myself a good talking to hasn't worked.
Oh bl***dy heck why can't I snap out of it.

Comments

  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 26,749
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I don't know why, Numps, but I guess that all of us are Tiggers one day and Eeyores the next. Sometimes it's obvious why and sometimes not.

    I often find a really good day, or days, can be followed by one in which I feel sorry for myself for no obvious reason - and feel bad about that because I should be grateful for the good days :roll:

    Sometimes there are reasons which we haven't acknowledged even to ourselves.

    Sometimes I suspect that, just as we can wake up aching because we've 'slept funny', so we can wake up whingy because we've maybe 'dreamed funny' (but can't remember the dream).

    My own solutions are:

    1. Tell a friend (You have done - us :) )
    2. Distract oneself with lots of physical stuff (joints permitting)
    3. Stick on some Chopin and let him caress the frazzled nerves.
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Don't try and figure it out Numpty. The more you try, the worse you will feel. You are having a c***p day. Ring a friend and just tell them you feel low and just have a chat with them. One thing I have learnt is to try and work out why you feel things is just not a good idea.

    Lets hope tomorrow you will wake up and you will feel more yourself.
  • numptynora
    numptynora Member Posts: 782
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you both, maybe that's where I've gone wrong, trying to analize what's happening, I seem to be going round in circles!! roll on bed time.
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,266
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Numpty
    Like Karen says don't try and figure out why... sometimes there is no rhyme or reason...
    And like SW says you have done the right thing in telling us....hopefully tomorrow will be a better day...((((())))xx
  • Susiesoo
    Susiesoo Member Posts: 358
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Numpty

    I think there are times when we all think too much. Sometimes it is better to just be.

    I hope you have a good night and wake up to a better day.

    Susie x
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 27,628
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sometimes I have a day like that - for no reason I know.

    I can count my blessings and there are many, but still feel despairing.

    Usually I wake up ok the next day - I really hope you feel better tomorrow Numps. Please do let us know.

    If It carried on I would suggest taking advice, but am sure it won't.

    love and a ((()))

    Toni xxx
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 26,749
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    How are you today, Numps? I hope things are a bit better.
  • numptynora
    numptynora Member Posts: 782
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you every one for your thoughts.

    I woke up this morning with a really bad temper for what ever reason! I think yesterday was because I didn't hear from my man, it's all very new but having contact every day and then 24hrs with none was a bit disconcerting, he's out of the country though and wont be back till mid week.
    How bluddy stupid, acting like a teenager at my age...tsk that must have been the problem because when he contacted me a couple of hours ago the bad temper just vanished!!!
  • villier
    villier Member Posts: 4,426
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Awe Numps sorry I missed this yesterday, I am glad you have sorted out your problem, Oh!!! to be in love <3 even when they are out the country they can make us angry, men, :lol:

    Love is in the air................. :wink: xx
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,415
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Numps, sorry, I missed this too. :oops:
    Hope you feel more like your old self soon. (((())))
    Take care,
    Numpty
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 26,749
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Numps, that's a lovely explanation and I'm sure it's the right one. Better get started on the celebration plans for next week :D
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 27,628
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Pheweee Numps :D

    I bet you feel much better now that you a) know what the problem was and b) have spoken to the absent 'problem' :)

    Take care now - I am rather pleased you love your OH :wink:

    Love

    Toni xxx
  • numptynora
    numptynora Member Posts: 782
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks every one, I'll keep you posted!! ;-)

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