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  • Janlyn
    Janlyn Member Posts: 363
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    @Zimmer You're so right, getting it done is better than letting life slip by, take care.

  • ItsjustLisa
    ItsjustLisa Member Posts: 23
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    @Zimmer in all honesty it was @Nurina honest, "neighbours leg" diary that I read first.

    I've read and followed everyone pretty much since and although I'm absolutely terrified they've really helped me.

    I hope you're doing ok @Nurina I haven't touched my feet for longer than I can remember so hearing you just about managed to cut your toenails was music to my ears 😂.

  • Nurina
    Nurina Member Posts: 285
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    @ItsjustLisa You will not believe what you can do in two-three months after the surgery. I'm doing things I haven't done in years. I don't need the aid to put my socks and with some shoes I don't need the shoehorn. The most important thing is I'm painless and the discomfort from surgery has almost dissappeared. I feel the stiffness I've accumulated during the long and painful process before and after the surgery. I'm now allowed to break the rule of the 90º and I have to work slowly with my totally lost of flexibility which will not be easy but I'm very stubborn. Thanks god, the other leg is behaving well at the moment. I haven't used crutches today and I've been climbing up and down the stairs of my workshop holding big frames. Can you believe it? I was painless climbing down stairs!

    I hope you all feel well. Take care x

  • Zimmer
    Zimmer Member Posts: 38
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    These diaries have helped me to: Decide upon surgery, over lifelong pain; Laugh, when my resolve was low; Plan instead of dream, an off-tarmac trek in the mountains; and best of all, Smile, as tomorrow doesn't seem as bleak.

    😘🫂🤙

  • Ellen
    Ellen Moderator Posts: 1,633
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    https://community.versusarthritis.org/discussion/comment/720840#Comment_720840

    that is just lovely to read @Zimmer it's what this online community is all about. Thank you.

    Ellen.

  • Janlyn
    Janlyn Member Posts: 363
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    @Zimmer - that is so lovely 😊

  • Nurina
    Nurina Member Posts: 285
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    @Zimmer Thanks for reading my "blog". If I'm helping others to feel less terrified I'm happy. I was terrified too and reading diaries here helped me a lot. X

    Update: I've done 10780 steps today! OMG!

  • JPT
    JPT Member Posts: 130
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    That's a good number of steps @nurina I hope you are not too sore tomorrow x

  • Zimmer
    Zimmer Member Posts: 38
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    I meant every word, love you all, it's just heartwarming to read such positivity when I know the pain and discomfort you are experiencing with your recoveries xx.

    Nurina what month are you in now, is is three? Wow, just wow, I got so emotional reading how many steps you'd done then.

  • Nurina
    Nurina Member Posts: 285
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    Thanks @Zimmer and @JPT I got up not sore at all! This is a dream turned into reality. So emotional. I remember @Janlyn posts about her 10000 steps and I thought I'd never be able to do that.

    I only wanted the surgery to get rid of my pain. I've been disabled and not able to do a lot of things for so long. And here I am! Still a long way, to tell you the truth. If I want to walk a long distance, I have to bring my two crutches with me. I walked 1/3 of the way without them. My operated leg feels great and strong but I have to take care of my non operated one. When I started feeling sore, I used one crutch and I arrived home using both. I noticed that when I use the crutches, people is more respectful, they stop at the zebra crosses, they hold the door for you and everybody smiles at me. 🥰

  • JPT
    JPT Member Posts: 130
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    @KatLB it was such a help to me to have honest accounts of the whole process. Yes sometimes it made it scarier but as there was no choice but to go through with it I at least knew what to expect.

    The exercises before the op were really important and significantly helped me post op as I was already in the mindset to do them several times a day

  • Janlyn
    Janlyn Member Posts: 363
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    @KatLB Hoping you get a date soon and so happy to hear the diaries are helping. I've definitely found them so helpful, both those ahead of me so I knew what to expect and those following me where I can realise how much I've progressed. It's been so good as so often the 'outside world' is all so positive and expects us to be 100% so quickly when really it's brilliant to be pain free but we do have to work at our exercises and reaching our potential - patience is most definitely useful!

  • Zimmer
    Zimmer Member Posts: 38
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    Oh @Nurina that is so good to hear, I am so happy for you xx

  • Nurina
    Nurina Member Posts: 285
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    You are so kind @KatLB Thanks. Like you, I had pain for years but I never thought I'd have stage end of OA and I'd need both hips urgently replaced. I hope you tell us about your fixed hip very soon. Meanwhile, do your exercises and take care.

    Thanks @Zimmer !

  • Zimmer
    Zimmer Member Posts: 38
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    Hmm, there seems to be a trend here. Is it a coincidence that a few of us have suddenly been diagnosed with severe arthritis, eventhough there's been pain for years?

    I know, I know, I seem sceptical but I've had a number of x-rays showing apparent "normal" hips but now they're so severe that the specialist walked into the room, sat down, looked at me and the first words that came out of her mouth were "they're bad, so bad that they're on the verge of collapse. How long have you been suffering with this".

    I was completely gobsmacked, to see a specialist shocked by something they see every day really stunned and upset me you know

    Has anyone else had the same experience?

  • Nurina
    Nurina Member Posts: 285
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    Hi @Zimmer I was diagnosed with RA at the age of 5. All my joints are bad shaped due to the inflammation around the bones when I was growing up. My doctors told me I might have bigger problems with charge of hormones like pregnancy and menopause and I should keep a very low weight. My mum had her hips replaced when she was my age and the surgeries in the 90's where more traumatic than now. I've been always very skinny and sporty so I've had a very normal life until I started with my peri menopause in my 40's. I started gaining weight I couldn't control. The pain and stiffness were slowly getting worse. I thought I could beat it doing more exercise, stretching, eating healthy food. Like most of the women when they reach menopause, I started gaining weight and that and the change of hormones contributed to the damage of my already bad hips.

  • Zimmer
    Zimmer Member Posts: 38
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    I'm so sorry to hear that hon 😔 🫂 .

    But I agree that things took a turn for the worst after onset of fibromyalgia and menopause; inflammation does a number on your body; affecting your bones and ability to lose weight and then double whammy by hitting menopause, life begins at 40 my ####. I'm eating really healthy to try and get my bmi down, it's worrying me that I'll get turned down you know.

    Just started HRT to try and regulate things but that's early days yet.

    And yeah, having your hip replacements replaced after 15 hrs or so, would be hard, let alone at that age; hope she's OK hon xx

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