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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) have you got a lot of hops near you. We only have the Co other wise it’s two bus’s to the bigger shops they were in the town centre but they all moved out. Have a good day. The tomatoes taste good you grew them.
Toni (()) i hope you have a good day. There hasn’t been any rain here. We have the sun today. Brenda had a physio appointment he gave her exercises and told her she had to relax more.
jojo (()) I hope the iron tablets help you have a good day.Reshmi (()) it’s your birthday soon have a good day. Love to your mum (())
Stuart (()) lovely flowers. Love to your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) sorry your barbie. Have a good day love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (())
take care
joan xx1 -
Thanks dachshund I hope so too. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.
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good afternoon Toni
How are you this afternoon?
Mums ok bs wise 👍
But she’s in a strop 😱
I’m okay thanks
Rather tired though
Will be injecting our friend MXT soon 🤢🤢🤢
Bye for now Toni tc xx
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thanks Joan
How are you?
Mum and I are ok thanks
Have a nice day xx
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Hi all 👋
Frog poor you, the irony of needing to go round the house looking for your pills when you need them 😣 I do hope you found them or you felt better enough without, to go to Lucy's 🤞. Food bank was a bit of a bridge too far which is understandable - they are struggling according to the news so need all the help. No rain here but a drop later maybe, just when I want to go out, so I hope not - I made a twit of myself yesterday by being short a few pence at the local shop and they kindly let me owe it so I want to get it there asap. Came out after and had a very good look through my bag; found 10p, would you believe, 20 would have done it 😣. Too hot to go til later, yes it does irk me that it goes mad like this, one min your summer clothes are too hot, the next not warm enough, never perfect 🙄. I slept til 6 thanks had tea, then went off another bit, as it was quiet, unlike yesterday, tap on the door early & another in the evening, and the rest taken up by a chap cutting timber on a workmate on his drive, right over the road for hours - something wrong with doing it in your back garden?! Oh a lovely faster broadbean hole, now if someone comes to the door pushing one of those, finally something I would say yes to!! Perfect 😀 and think of the fibre!! 😂. You will love Stuart's garden when you catch up, I am very envious indeed 😍. Hope your day is going ok and Lucy is well, and Paul got back alright 😘 xx btw oops sorry about the lipfillers 😳 someone near me does them from home (true) & I thought why not (not likely!!) 😂
Hello Joan, no not many shops left, my Co closed and the rest aren't really walking distance, only at a push. The nearest is a Lid and even the supermarkets in the next town wouldn't be convenient they are out of the centre etc only good for drivers, except the Ms, I only buy a few fancy bits there if I go - it isn't really worth carrying groceries from the other shops when you can have them brought. I don't use the buses any more. I hope Brenda gets on ok with the advice from the physio, is it her back or general? Hope your day is going ok we may get rain but not much I will still have to water things 😘 xx
Good luck the mxt bosh 👍️ I have been chasing my meds all week because they were waiting on the hospital to reauth the prescription, hoped to sort it out by the messaging system etc but in the end this stuff always comes down to having to phone up, which I hate 🙄 they had such a super online chat system before, too, it worked perfectly 😔. I wouldn't say it was much cooler today maybe a bit more overcast. Sorry about your mum the heat doesn't help anyone's temper, hope it's something that fizzles out quickly. I will add my influence to Toni's where the gastric guys are concerned, for the unspecified event, although in general as well not just a special favour - a nice long untroubled run would be only fair 👍️. I absolutely love the ultra-fast broad bean hole 😂 genius, put me down for one. Thank you for the candid pic of my makeup efforts 😁 no wonder Beaker is looking suitably alarmed in the background, mind you better than the other pic 😱. I do have a pink toned lipstick called 'All Talk' in the new stuff, I think that may well be the one in the photo 😂. Take care hope you feel less tired :) xx
Stuart I love your garden and all your flowers, what beauties 😊 that is how I would like mine to be such nice 'heights' you have there in the borders. One side of my fences is a blue a bit like yours and my shed too, probably seen it in my pics 😀. Toni will be sorry she posted before seeing yours and missed them, she will love them. Those roses are gorgeous and I do like hydrangea I should get one. Is that penstemon, the pink? Thanks for posting 😊. Hope things are not too bad with you today and you're as well as poss 🤞 xx
Sorry it's your ankle that's playing you up today Jojo, and your aches & pains stopped you sleeping well 😔. Hope today has not been too bad a day for you and you can put your feet up later etc. Take care :) xx
SK hope you are doing ok 👋 xx
Love to all, I have one tin of fizzy lemonade now we can split it if needs be 😂
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Hi Toni
How are you tonight?
Who did toady’s lip fillers?
That would a certain plastic surgeon who is also 4 year old nursery king - Dr BR himself!
My goodness 😱
👋 toady
I’m glad that I can count on your gastric prayers and not just in the short term 😂
it was really difficult to get out of the house this morning it was so stuffy I was almost sleeping. Mum said she felt the same
But I did manage to walk, so that was good. Thanksmums friend is coming to visit her tomorrow,
A very close female friend so I’m very happy about that
I’ve not got any plans tomorrow if gastric gods have listened to your and Toni’s prayers. I may have a little takeawayAn innocent veggie burger or something like that perhaps
A little poem that I prepared earlier today, nothing very great it’s just about sugar lol
👋 have a good night, Toni and Toni take care xx
👋night also to Jojo I hope that the pain in your ankles and knees gets better soon and that iron tablets help you with energy tc xx
👋night everyone xx
Vc poem called “ glucose related ode for those in the vals café abode’
Is my soul made of sugar?
Or it the idea of the cookie that makes me feel alive?
I painted a cake full of chocolate, cream and fat
It made me happy, a visual expression of my sugarcoated feelings, smug like a cat
Even though unlike our lovely toad - face I do not have the waistline of a bat
The pink of candy hearts was exquisite to view
The gender reveal cake full of secret blue
The sugar in my body butter,
the high glucose shampoo in my hair
These things mean more than I can utter
I now walk without a care
Knowing that there is sugar in my mouth and sugar in both heart and mind
But the sweetest sugar is made of good friends, who will never leave me behind2 -
☕️pills
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Morning Joan hope you are Pepper are ok today? We had a slight shower I think although I think I missed it! That's it now for a few days temps back up a bit, but at least not in the 30's. My brother is in France it's in the 40's there. Brenda must be tense and the physio can tell. I hope she does as advised and feels better soon ((())) xxx
Morning Jojo I am so sorry you are struggling so much😕. Honestly something has got to give. I do hope it's not your job, but hopefully you'll find out more at the end of the month. Once you know then they can look at treatment options. Do the kids go to your Mam's much in the holidays during the day? School hols were tricky for us too juggling work and spending time with them. Have you started getting uniform sorted out for next term yet? ((())) xxx Ps going up to Newbiggin on Saturday for the night to see my friend at her caravan. So I will go straight on that beach🏖
Stuart wow wow wow!! your garden looks gorgeous! so many of your flowers are still going. A lot of ours have gone over sadly, but it has been lovely out there this year. Have you managed much time in the sun just resting and looking at your garden? How are your cats doing? I was with my youngest daughter and hers yesterday. My Grandcats! Take care Stuart ((())) xxx
Morning Skinny Keef how the diddly are you? Hot enough down there? I bet it is I remember when I lived your way it was so hot and dry. We aren't far behind you this year though. I imagine Sucré has loved it though long sunny days and maybe water pistols??? Hope Anda and he are well ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi how's you? How's the MTX hangover? Hope your Mum is in an ok mood today and BB too. No doubt he set her off yesterday anyway. Her friend visiting today should make her happy.
Your birthday must be getting closer so will EF be visiting again?
Please tell me Dr BR did not do Toady's lip fillers😮 I fear however that it may well be so😣
Oh Reshmi that poem! Made me well up! Wait till the others read it😊 How wonderful that we; your café crew mean that much to you. The feeling is 100% mutual😊'The sweetest sugar is (indeed) made of good friends'. Everyone who pops in here is a trusted person in our lives who we value as much as someone we can see in real life.
Have a good day my friend and take care ((())) xxx
Morning Toady hope all is well with you? Well done having an extra hour yesterday😊. I usually do too - at 4/5 get up 5.30-6.
That rain we were due did I blink and miss it? Still the temp was at least only 25/6 rather than 30/1 so a bit better overall. Still had watering to do though🙄
Elfie is a happy boy he stayed up late waiting for daddy to get home from Jersey. Wasn't bothered about big bed last night no way😉
My back is definitely easing. I will ask for the pills again I have definitely properly misplaced them🙄 I found something to take don't worry and had a lovely coffee and catch up with Lucy.
Did you get out and pay your debts at the shop? Poor you you must have felt such a twit😳 I would have gone back asap too. Nice that someone trusted you in this day and age.
Those wood cutter things are so noisy. The bloke who does our hedges does it back at his plant not here he has an enormous trailer and off he goes. Till next year.
Aren't Stuart's flowers gorgeous?! I am so impressed it's lovely. I'd just sit outside all day looking at them with one of his lovely cats on my lap Ollie or Lottie whoever wants to sit on me!
ready for your fillers?
🤣Have a good day ((())) xxx
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Morning frogmorton yeah I'm mostly on my own job I don't do much heavy stuff anymore I think maybe it's the hard floors in there and kneeling down lots and getting on and off the kick stool. Yeah I hope this woman is better than the last one I had. No me and Michael work our hours around each so there's always someone in the house. We just don't like putting on to people and the kids prefer to be with me. I'm glad you are going to get to go to the beach you will love it the sea air is so good I only wish I could go a lot more often I hope you have a great time with your friend. Hope you have a great day today and you are well.
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) No it’s a lot easier doing the shopping on line. Brenda pulled a muscle in her shoulder she carries her shopping in a back pack I think how can she carry a ll that. She has the exercises she says I will do them tomorrow but tomorrow never comes be cause she is so busy. Have a good day. Is your boiler behaving.
Toni (()) have a good day has the pain in your back calmed down a bit now. I counted fourteen buds on the rose I will take a photo when they are all out.
Jojo (()) have a good day you do well you have a lot to cope with.Reshmi (()) Happy birthday when it comes. Have a good day love to your mum (())
Stuart (()) have a good day. Love to your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) have a good day love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (())
take care
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Thanks dachshund we off out for to the Chinese buffet today then off to the park with the kids. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.
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good morning Toni
How are you today?
Mums ok 👍
I’m ok thanks
Thanks about the poem
Wppl xx
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Morning all 🌞
Morning frog, I'm on early slot for hah delivery, probably won't be at beginning of it but early enough that I definitely want to be up & trousered and not half awake, so cup of tea now and put this in draft probably. Will be glad to get my jabs, I had to ask nicely for a quicker delivery date than they pencilled me in for as had only just had prescription through from hosp. Hope you can get your pills repeated and then hopefully go back to not quite needing them, & can lose them all over again 😁 probably not, this time! Glad Lucy's was fine in the end and you had a nice visit ☕ and Paul back too 👍 Elfie was bursting with news I bet and talking 10 to the dozen 🤭. Yes I would love Stuart's garden, his planting looks just nicely established 😊. The bluey green fence suits that yellow (rudbeckia? 🤔) so nicely. No rain here & none whatever forecast - did all my watering, must do some actual work as well 😬. Yes I dropped off my few pence in the shop, different person there they probably had no idea what I was on about haha but glad to get it done, silly me. Used to be better organized when I went out more, always had things like an emergency £1 safely somewhere (back when £1 would do you bus fare home), but you get out of the habit. It was nice they let me off I did just say they could take an item back but probably more fiddly for them, to un-ring it up! Have a good day, oh I think my lip fillers will hold me a while yet, now my frown lines that's another matter 😬😄 xx
Right well gone 5pm now - hah were round 9am, ideal, rest of day to myself in theory - workmate chappy had packed it in - but fear not, paving-stone-grinding painfully-slow project man was right there to take over the baton 🤪 midmorning til now; another day ruined thank you. No problem working for hours in this heat for them, apparently 🤷♀️. One day the worm will turn.. 🐛
Hello Joan, boiler is behaving nicely thank you 👍 chap will be back for a partial service in a few weeks so if it has any plans to misbehave again can it wait til then please 🤞😬. I have a little backpack you think it will spread the weight but it's still hard on your shoulders, dead weight, I'm not surprised about Brenda I don't carry much in mine it's just to save carrying 2 bags etc. Hope your day has been alright pleased to hear there are so many rosebuds in the offing 😊. Have a good weekend love to Pepper 😘 xx
Hi bosh 👋 hope you are doing ok. Lovely little sweet poem, I'm with Toni there definitely bought a little lump to the throat 🍰😘. Waistline of a bat 😄 oh yes, I like, a flattering comparison better than some! Happy with that. Hope all's well with family and EF today too, BR will do rather well for himself in the cosmetics procedures line I expect, being a rather upmarket properly qualified chap, not your high street corner sort 😄. Nothing much going on with me today, have had my jab now, 'disposed' of a few noisy neighbours, usual sort of thing 🤫😉. Did you have your little takeaway? Oh and hope your mum had a nice visit from her friend 😊. Have a good evening see you anon :) xx
My knees would definitely not like getting on and off a stool Jojo, absolutely not 😣 and kneeling not much better especially if it's up & down a lot, poor you. I hope you had a good day and went to the Chinese and the park ok and the kids had fun 😊. I must do something with this nice weather but it's hot walking to anywhere like the park so evenings end up being better, by which time I've gone past the idea 😳 I did have a little walk yesterday. Take care hope your weekend is alright as poss :) xx
Hi Stuart hope your morning improved after the early-pills shift 🤞 have your neighbours gone yet (can they take mine with them?!) Have a good weekend not long til the Drs for you 👍️ love to Ollie & Lottie and best to your mum too :) xx
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Hi toady yeah its hard work but I think I would get bored really quickly on checkouts but may have to one day. Yeah we went to the Chinese buffet but we didn't go to the park got way too hot so there is an amusement place so the kids enjoyed the machines and it was much cooler in there for us. I hope you are well and I hope you have had a good day.
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hi everyone.
lovely poem Reshmi.Toni water pistols indeed. He has a new one as well.
Hey Toady and Jojo and Stuart and Dachshund too.
I feel the need for a sugary treat now after Reshmi’s rhyme. If only i was allowed.
I did about 80 miles today, by mistake really, as I went to see Ron after making solid plans and he’d gone off to do something else without telling me so had no choice but to ride back, and in that heat too. Was not a happy bunny. Was seriously rough when i got home even though i stopped on way back for a splash of fuel and a bottle of water. My legs were a bit burnt up from the engine heat too. Should have taken one of the Beemers (aircooled no fan). I even turned down a ride out this afternoon coz I couldn’t face getting back on bike, too much pain. ☹️
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hi Toni
How are you tonight?
yes mum enjoyed seeing her friend a lot thanks
The friends visit kept BB quiet for some time too, thank goodness
The friends husband ate almost as much as bill, lol, but was much more polite and didn’t bother anyone with hot sauce - related enquiries
I also had a nice veggie burger- centric takeaway thanks 🙏
I also got dad a fresh decaf - coffee which he really enjoyed- so that shut him up for about 5 minutes haha
Yes mxt side effects have gone thanks
Still was feeling rather low on energy though, I think totm may be approaching
Im very pleased you liked the poem, it’s true some real life friends people are nowhere as nice as us cafe folk, for example I have one friend who hasn’t even said “ hi” for years on end, I know everyone is busy but that’s a bit much really, haha, she’s not a bad person, but somewhat self - absorbed, to put it mildly, but never mind this VC banter is a great thing no doubt 🤗
Im rather tired but ok tonight thanks Toni
BR told mum that he wasn’t going to brush his teeth properly and was BB “In knowledge” of that fact? He has such a funny way of speaking haha
Have a good night Toni tc xx
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hi toady or toad who may have buried her neighbours in the road 😱
How are you tonight?
Thanks Im glad you liked the poem
Yes mum had fun
BB was temporarily quiet
I enjoyed a rogue veggie burger as it were
The neighbours have been disposed of?
Hopefully the plumber has not put them inside the wall of a hypothetical new bathroom?? haha
I’m Not too bad tonight. Thanks toady just a bit crackered
Have a Good night and take care xx
👋thanks SK, have a good night tc x
👋night Joan thanks for early birthday greetings tc xx
👋nighy Jojo S knee xx
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Morning Joan how are you and Pepper? I will be visiting my friend with the yorkies today for her birthday she is at her caravan. Thanks for asking my back is much better almost 'back' to normal. No rain again and the grass is very brown now still I suppose it always recovers. Your rose has so many buds! I would love to see a photo of them 😊Have a good day ((())) xxx
Morning Jojo how are you today? I am ok looking forward to our trip up North☺️ It will take somewhere around 4-5 hours from here with a stop for the loo. The sea I am going to see the sea😊 My friend lost her wife to cancer very quickly a couple of years ago she is 52 I think this time I got her a silly birthday [resent and we will treat her to a meal out tonight. I will also walk her yorkies on the beach.
I think your independent streak is a good one if you ever really need help your family will know that and should step in to help. Also your children are being brought up with a good work ethic.
I have my fingers crossed the lady will help you. Stuart first though next week I think you the week after. Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Stuart 3am? Nope not good Wednesday can't come soon enough😕 Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Skinny Keef hope you have recovered from that bike trip. I am not impressed your friend was such a let down😠how do some people forget? Hope your skin wasn't actually burnt? Just very hot and is ok now?
I knew certain young lad would have a water pistol. He has a new one does he? Who wins in a fight? My money is on Anda.
Well done resisting something sweet when you really wanted something. You know it's a trigger and the payback isn't worth it. Have you tried medjool dates? They are as sweet as chocolate, but maybe???? Maybe not? might not cause a flare? Take care Keef and have a better day today ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi I see TOTM is looming and so you are already feeling not quite yourself😕 still that veggie burger helped a bit.
Glad your Mum had a lovely visit from her friend (and her hungry husband!) and that your Dad was occupied too. That was very kind of you giving him a decaf coffee. Maybe he will reciprocate with an apple for his eldest daughter!
BR's quirky use of language is very interesting. I think he is going to be very bright too like his brother imagine such a little one using words like that very very nearly perfectly! Best to clean his teeth though and keep them!
Friends can be odd when they don't have time for you. I lost a very very close one years ago i don't think her husband liked how close we were. Today though we are travelling up to Newbiggin just for the night to see one of my friends for her birthday. You'll remember her wife dying a year or so back? I believe we should look after our friends.
I think the advantage of the café crew is that we all share one issue with pain so can relate when we have off days or even off weeks.
Take care Reshmi have a good day if you can ((())) xxx
Morning Toady always best to be up and trousered before anyone knocks on the door I agree😮 If not you need a handy Elf or cat to answer the door for you. That would shut up any early morning callers😁 Glad you have your supplies and my tablets are already at the pharmacy for me to collect! Result!
Sleek will be over later, cross, because we are away for the night visiting my friend in Northumberland for her birthday. It will be lovely to see the sea and play with the dogs. Tia will be feeding our girl.
What are they doing over the road? A block paved drive? They aren't too noisy at the Church (yet) it's pretty sound proofed inside I expect, but when they start digging outside the house to put the 💩 pipe in well that might be different.
Well done paying your debts that's a good job done even if it wasn't the same person your conscience is clear.
Thing is all the watering doesn't leave much time for actual gardening does it? How does Stuart manage I expect his Dad and Mum all join in because it's lovely, established, and so pretty.
Elfie was thrilled to see his Daddy and yes very loud (Kari says inside voice Elfie!) he is coming up to Newbiggin for the ride today as you can imagine. He loves the sea.
Have a good day ((())) xxx
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Morning frogmorton I really hope you enjoy your trip to the beach you are good to your friend. I love yorkshire terriers I still miss my yorkshire terrier I lost him not long before I got my jack russell patch. But the character is so funny. Yeah I really hope this lady is better than the last one I had. I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.
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Morning all 🌞 up early to put door in latch in case of catazon, well that's self-inflicted so is my lookout.
Will be thrilled to have Sleek while you are on your trip frog 😊 she can stay as long as she likes 😽. You & Paul & Elfie have a good drive up and hope your friend is well and the yorkies 👍 (predictive text just changed that to Tories! do I wish them well? hmm let me think .. 🤔). Say hello to the sea for me 😊 hope you get a nice breeze. Paving man is on the end here next but one, not across, working in his back garden (yard I should say 🙄) so I can hear him equally from everywhere front or back 😣. He's a builder of some sort so you'd think could knock off a job quicker than a DIY-er but no. The trouble with noise is the less rest you get because of it, the less able you feel to cope with the next lot 🤷. I half wish I'd kept a note of how many days there was significant noise but who wants to get into that sort of mindset, not me really. Good luck with your Church works, cometh the time 🤞. We'll see if I can get in the garden quietly today but it's the weekend what are the chances 🤪. Yes how does Stuart manage (and it's just Mum, isn't it? I think) as you say, do what you can when you can I expect and good choice of plants. Should take stock myself I think as to next jobs, if my shed & fence need a new coat of whatsit/preserver yet etc. Am currently doing up my back door frame inside and managed to paint the bit of wall nearest to it the wrong colour (have 2 very similar colour pots of paint and labelling them properly is beyond me apparently - I'm not even sure I haven't done the same thing before 😂). Have a lovely time, I will post this now so whatever time you're setting off I'll be ahead and will pop in again after. 😘 xx
Have a good morning everyone and will do my other hellos later, except Keef who I left off yesterday so is owed a wave, sorry SK 😳 I was a bit addled by the hot weather & medication day & wanting to throttle my neighbours, left off my last bits of post do excuse 😘. Sorry about your day I hope you aren't suffering for it too much and sorry you missed your afternoon ride too 😔 another good chance soon I hope xx
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Good morning everyone
Toni (()) have a good day that’s good the boiler is behaving itself. Good you have the injections
Toni (()) have a good time with your friend will you have a paddle in the sea.
jojo (()) you do so well. Have a good dayReshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())
Stuart (()) have a good day love to your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) I’m sorry your friend was out. Have a good day love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (())
I will take a photo of the rose.
take care
joan xx1 -
take care
joan xx2 -
Thanks dachshund I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.
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good afternoon Toni
How are you?
Mums ok 👍
Yes I remember that friend, I hope you have a nice time with your friend
I Didn’t sleep well at all
but not feeling too bad currently thanks
Yes I agree true friendship shouldn’t be one - sided
I’m in desperate need of ablutions though👋 Joan xx
Bye for now Toni tc xx
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