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  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm not too bad, Just had some bad news a friend of mine was pregnant and she has had her first scan and can't find a heart beat.
    They have spent thousands on IVF her immune system thinks she has an infection when she gets pregnant and she misscarries. This time she was taking meds to lower her immune system and it seemed to be working, she will now have to stop the meds so she can misscarry. Life can be realy cruel.

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Awww that is so sad i am so sorry to hear that :cry: life does throw us some raw deals and is cruel and harsh! I remember when my sis in law was pregnant with my neice they told her they couldnt find a heart beat...... my neice is now 34!!

    Rose x
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    snowball wrote:
    I'm not too bad, Just had some bad news a friend of mine was pregnant and she has had her first scan and can't find a heart beat.
    They have spent thousands on IVF her immune system thinks she has an infection when she gets pregnant and she misscarries. This time she was taking meds to lower her immune system and it seemed to be working, she will now have to stop the meds so she can misscarry. Life can be realy cruel.

    Julie x
    Julie

    I'm so sorry what has happend to your friend. Are they 100 per cent sure of it. One of my friends were like this. They told her to come back.When she did they found a heart beat, he had been hiding.

    So are they really sure?

    Love Trish xxxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I have not heard from Annie and I'm beginin to worry over her,if she was in for 24 hours she would be home by now and I know she would have got onto me straight away.

    I think we should put a cunning plan into action.
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yep Trish she has had 3 scans and there is definitly no heart beat, they are both devastated. She has not had a good year, last year she found her dad in a chair he had passed away in his sleep.

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Julie

    Gosh that is hard to take Julie, what a rotten time she is having. I do hope she can get over this but I don't think you ever do.

    With her dad as well she will never get over that fully.

    Sending Hugs to you and your friend.

    My neice had 4 IVF's was having twins one time and lost all of them. Life can be very cruel.

    Love Trish xxxx
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thankyou Trish, and ys ife can be cruel.

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    life is so unfair people who do not deserve children have them with no trouble and others who would love them just can not . i had an auntie who had to have help had child but had to adopt another one as was to old to try again what made it worse was she was a midwife she went on to work with women who could not conseve naterally then to work with those who lost there babies as she understood what they were going through such a lovely lady
    val
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I've just watched a program on bbc3 about young girls having babies. I am speachless :roll:

    Julie
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    do not watch that type of program as it upsets me either i am getting old or mothers are getting younger
    val
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    valval wrote:
    do not watch that type of program as it upsets me either i am getting old or mothers are getting younger

    I had to turn it over, it was making me angry.

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My son wants chocolate on toast :roll: and I have just realised I have not eaten today :roll: infact I have not eaten a full meal for a while, I'm on that many meds wonder if it is because of one of them.

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    chocolate on toast new one on me but what ever lol. make sure what you do eat is full of goodness if you are not eating much when in pain stop eating to much bother and do not feel like it mind you could go with out eating for months and would still be over weight lol
    val
  • minky67
    minky67 Member Posts: 2,328
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    well theres alot been going on here.
    Julie, Im so sorry about your friend :(

    Trish, I think val is psychologically damaged with the brolly experience then the worming accident.Poor Val i hope your ok :wink:
    No News from Annie then, I do hope shes home & resting.

    (((()))) for those that are suffering at the hands of Arthur.
    debs
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    minky67 wrote:
    well theres alot been going on here.
    Julie, Im so sorry about your friend :(

    Trish, I think val is psychologically damaged with the brolly experience then the worming accident.Poor Val i hope your ok :wink:
    No News from Annie then, I do hope shes home & resting.

    (((()))) for those that are suffering at the hands of Arthur.
    debs


    annie home and resting trisher let us know trisher makes life so interesting never a dull min. with her around . off to bed val
    val
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    valval wrote:
    chocolate on toast new one on me but what ever lol. make sure what you do eat is full of goodness if you are not eating much when in pain stop eating to much bother and do not feel like it mind you could go with out eating for months and would still be over weight lol

    Val I could go months without food and still be over wait, Mark has had nutella on toast and it stinks :roll:
    I've just been on a web site called NRAS and seen a picture of nodules and now wish I hadn't seen it, as I'm getting them on my fingers :roll:

    Julie x
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • minky67
    minky67 Member Posts: 2,328
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good news then. Annies home!! Get well soon luv.
    Night val hope you sleep well.
    Can you find some sleep for me too as i havent slept properly for 2 nights :roll:
    debs
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Nite Val, Hi Debs you not sleeping either hun

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • minky67
    minky67 Member Posts: 2,328
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi julie, No sleep for me last 2 nights :roll: I laid there for hours last night trying to drop off, then i came downstairs & was wide wake.
    I did get off about 6am til 1.30pm so thats something but then the days gone :roll:
    You sleeping any better?
    debs
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    No Debs, last nite I thought right I'm going to sleep even if its the last thing I do. Then the ruddy helicopter was going round from about 11 ish till about 2am :roll:

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Right I'm off to try and get some sleep, ((((((hugs)))))) to you all.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    snowball wrote:
    valval wrote:
    chocolate on toast new one on me but what ever lol. make sure what you do eat is full of goodness if you are not eating much when in pain stop eating to much bother and do not feel like it mind you could go with out eating for months and would still be over weight lol

    Val I could go months without food and still be over wait, Mark has had nutella on toast and it stinks :roll:
    I've just been on a web site called NRAS and seen a picture of nodules and now wish I hadn't seen it, as I'm getting them on my fingers :roll:

    Julie x
    Julie

    You are not alone I have some :shock:

    Trish xxx
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    N Night Julie, just read back, very sorry to hear about your friends news. Hugs to you and yours.

    Debs, you not sleeping, know what that is like, been an incurable insomniac for years, it is only a cocktail of drugs that sends me off now. It is horrid when you think the whole world is in zzzz land and you are wide awake with your mind buzzing. Hope you manage to rest tonight, sending sleepy hugs.

    No news on Annie, wonder if she is still in hossy, or resting up at home, though she would let Trish know how things were.

    Here, builders went at nearly 6pm, so naps were out of the window. We have a nice little deck area to sit on, steps are started, they are doing a lovely job.
    Bit phased this evening, must be the pregabalin catching up with me again. Been in a bad mood for last half hour, no reason, just came over me like a cloud. Will be fine soon, a cup of T will help I am sure.
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    HI all

    not sure if I posted earlier :? :? was in middle of reading back when I realised it was 5pm and my GP appointment was 5.10 pm, I wasn't ready and the dog hadn't been fed :oops: :oops: :oops: but at least I got there on time ..... never moved so fast for ages :lol::lol::lol:

    hope all are ok and that you had a good day.

    will grab a cuppa and a piece of cake and go to read back.

    hugs
    Wonky xxx
  • minky67
    minky67 Member Posts: 2,328
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi bubbles, There was news that Annie is home. :D

    Ive been a terrible sleeper for years too. Once im off i can usually stay asleep, its the getting off thats the problem. Ive been taking sleepers early so if that helps.

    How you doing on the pregabalins? Ive not upped mine yet, i tried the 300mg but was flying away,went back to 150mg now im on 200mg & trying 250mg tomorrow see if thats ok.
    Knocking most of the nerve pain out & they dont ease off as quick as the gabapentins did.
    debs
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