im preg!!!???? on meds!

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  • debbierose
    debbierose Member Posts: 403
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hun I'm proud of you, brave person you are for sure.
    every thing is for a reason and the reason for you is your family as it is now. when you are better and able to come off the meds for a while, you go for it, babes and make your planned baby and he/she will be born happy, contented and healthy.

    lots of love and I'll be thinking of you. a060.gif
    sending you a big hug Debbie.
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm sure you are doing the right thing, but I'm sure, in the long run, you will be able to have a planned pregnacy, if you choose to. As you say, next time you will be prepared. I hope you do get lots of support and maybe some councilling. You are brave and I'm sure that knowledge gives you some comfort. Thinking of you, Lots of Love Suexx
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kezzo

    I have only just caught up with your situation, and I'm so sorry you are having to make such a difficult decision at such a young age. Reading through everything, I think you are doing the right thing for your family, and you must never feel guilty about it. I will be thinking about you on Saturday, and hoping everything will sort out for you.

    Joan
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  • kezzo1
    kezzo1 Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks for all ur lovely messages of support means alot to me and am truley grateful thanks peeps ill be in touch after the weeeknd to let u all know how i am xx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,880
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kezzo
    You are so very brave and amazing.
    All my love and very best wishes to you for 7th. So very sorry you have to go through this.
    Love
    Toni x
  • suziev
    suziev Member Posts: 252
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    just to say that i'll be thinking of you on saturday. good luck hunny.
    suzie xx
  • c4thyg
    c4thyg Member Posts: 542
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Kezzo,

    I will be thinking of you on saturday. I wish you a speedy recovery. I also want to reiterate what others have said and tell you to please take up any offer of counselling/support, IT IS worth its weight in gold. The other thing that I want to say is to make sure that your husband is also noticed. All too often the man gets left out. my hubby did (8 miscarriages), and he felt really hurt. You will both be grieving and you need to go through it together. It actually made hubby and I a lot closer.

    I'll look out for you after the weekend.
    Love to you all.
    Cathy
  • katekelly
    katekelly Member Posts: 975
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Love and prayers going to you. Will be thinking of you on saturday. You have been very brave making this decision and everyone on here knows that you are doing this for all the right reasons. It is not a decision that you have taken lightly. Take all the help and counselling you can get and just keep focused on the fact that one day when it is right and all planned then you will go forward and add another member to your family.
    Your bravery and honesty is truly humbling.
    Take care
    Kate xx
  • dutchess
    dutchess Member Posts: 79
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just to let you know I'll be thinking of you tomorrow. Make sure you draw on all the support you can and take time for yourself and hubby to grieve and process this emotional rollercoaster you've had to endure.
    Take care
    Luv Kelly
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm sending you my love and will be thinking about you tomorrow.
    I'm sure their will be lots of us their in spirit to support you.
    With much love and best wishes Sue xxxxxx
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    just popped in here to say I will be thinking of you tomorrow, and sending you lots of hugs.
  • eileenc
    eileenc Bots Posts: 118
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My heart goes out to you and your hubby - just wanted you to know I'm thinking of you both.
    love and hugs
    Eileen x
  • carol101
    carol101 Member Posts: 584
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you and your hubby today. You are both so brave. My heart really does go out to you.

    Best wishes

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  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am sending you love, comfort and strength for today and the time to follow.

    I have and will be thinking of you both,

    Elna x(())
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You are in my thoughts today, along with your husband. I hope you are OK.

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  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    ...and in mine, you have been so brave. Hope you are OK. Just remember that it is all right to feel relief amongst all the other emotions; if you forget that, it doesn't help.

    Love n' hugs
    Annie
  • kezzo1
    kezzo1 Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi everyone once again i like to thank u all for ur lovely messages of support over the past few weeks!! i went ahead sat and had the termination im feeling well and had mon/ tues off work back today, starting to feel myself again and at the moment no regretts i think we made the right decision. so now to normality for a while.

    thanks again everyone. xx
  • woodbon
    woodbon Member Posts: 4,969
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello, Its nice to hear that your feeling better, now its over. It will be good to get back to a normal routine again. :)

    You've been very brave and in my opinion done totally the right thing, for Everyone involved - not just you. I'm sure in you are now a much stronger, more thoughtful person too. Even bad experiences teach us a lot.

    Sorry, I'm in danger of whaffling on again!!! :oops: So, I'll just wish you and your hubby the lots of love and good luck for the future.
    Hugs and Kisses, Sue xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
  • c4thyg
    c4thyg Member Posts: 542
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi, I'm glad you are feeling a bit better. Take it easy for a bit a let things sink in. Also if you feel the need to grieve, let yourself. We are all here for you. I hope your hubby is ok as well. It must be hard for him to watch you go through all this. Hopefully you will be a stronger family unit after all this. I wish you all a speedy recovery.
    Take care
    Cathy
  • suziev
    suziev Member Posts: 252
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    glad to hear your doing ok pet, was thinking of you.
    suzie x
  • kezzo1
    kezzo1 Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks everyone! xx
  • dutchess
    dutchess Member Posts: 79
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    kezzo1 wrote:
    thanks everyone! xx
    Pleased to hear your feeling better and that you continue to move in the right direction. Make sure you tap into the support offered and keep communicating with hubby etc
    Take care
    Luv Kelly
  • kezzo1
    kezzo1 Member Posts: 171
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    what a morning, my boyf sis is 7 weeks preg which is what i was when had abortion...... she had a scan done coz was bleeding and thought shed lost it, well her mom decided to show me the scan! they dont know what happened but now i can see what it would of been like nooooooooo!!
    on tv this morn was poor lil babies with defects and limbs missing and they were saying about women on meds like arthur etc

    feel a little odd to say the least! :roll:
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kezzo
    That must have really difficult for you. And you cant tell them why you felt so odd either cos then the tears come and you upset them and I expect you would rather not have to explain anyway.
    Yes I saw some of the TV this morning.They never knew what was happening to their babies until they were born so had never had the choice about what to do.It must have been a mixed morning for you.
    Hope you are okay
    take care of yourself
    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Kezzo,

    I really hope you are ok? Just wanted to leave you a ((( ))) Cris x

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