Val's Cafe

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  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    RichC wrote:
    i'd see a doctor about that ... :O
    wonder what illness causes you to hear running water ..heheh ..hope you were near a loo :)
    RXX
    always make sure go before stepping out of station but they have made a good job of sheffield it so much nicer to visit :-)
    val
  • coco67
    coco67 Member Posts: 2,374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    :lol: @ Rc running water does have that effect :lol:

    glad you had a good day out val

    another coffee as im flaggin big time but still have to collect daughter in a while.
  • RichC
    RichC Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hehe haven't been to Sheffield for years .. i did however install mobile masts and equipment on top of the hallamshire hospital among other places .. now that's quite a tall hospital :O

    I will have carrot cake and latte Please .. just off to the loo BRB ;) hehe
    R:P
  • rugbygirl
    rugbygirl Member Posts: 691
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi everyone

    Hope you all had a good day in the sun today. I have just popped in for some Sausage Egg and Chips amd a large mug of Tea.

    Going to sit by the window and watch the world go by
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  • caterina57
    caterina57 Member Posts: 1,424
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Rich
    Yes the Hallamshire is very tall. My BIl is Director of Estates and at the milennium he had to be on call - He took his wife along and they went onto the roof to watch the fireworks - apparently it was Spectacular!
    Cath
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    well it worth a visit thinnk might have burnt arms a little lol they are very pale this year not like me at all normally keep some colour all year round mind you was not great last year prob was not out in sun as much lol better get some this year val
    val
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening to one and all, thanks for putting the washing out Val, hope the skeggy trip was a success, sounds like fun and looked great.

    Been a lovely day here, had a few potters about outside, OH has been preening and fussing in the garden. Joints not screaming as loudly today, which makes a pleasant change.

    Watched the "big Build" on tv and got all upset with how lovely it all was at the end, poor lass, living in such a mess.

    Best have a cup of T, and stop snivveling. :cry:
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It is time for pills and bed, I will leave hugs in abundance to one and all. Rest well and everyone take lots of care. XX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • RichC
    RichC Member Posts: 260
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good Mornin all ... early rise for me so lots of coffee , have put the machine on for you all and have the baby belling on full :)

    MRI in Maidstone 1 1/2 hrs away by public transport this morning .. to see if i have a brain (don't answer that!).
    Will be taking camera as its rare i get to go too far :) and will make a change to have pics that are not Gravesend

    I will be back for a nice dinner :)

    Hope you are all as good as you can be :)
    Rich :)
  • coco67
    coco67 Member Posts: 2,374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning!

    i smell coffee on the go :smile: a strong black coffee is required before i attempt any thing today, hope all ok
  • coco67
    coco67 Member Posts: 2,374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    grrr :sad:


    :?: you ok tink
  • coco67
    coco67 Member Posts: 2,374
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry your feeling outa sorts Tink, hope you feel better as the day goes by, here is a cuppa, put your feet up for a bit, xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    coco67 wrote:
    Sorry your feeling outa sorts Tink, hope you feel better as the day goes by, here is a cuppa, put your feet up for a bit, xx
    Thankyou Coco ................large thick brown bread cheese oh yum yum and marmite and soup ..........oh dear and then when I feel better I will drink again in truth I am very unhappy at the moment R/A is just part of the wider picture oh you lot are so kind always some/one will pick up on here but I cant stop drinking its all consumming it blocks the pain it gives me a reason to be I KNOW I AM A MESS A COMPLETE FOOL

    we are here for you never feel alone you have each and everyone of us have you been to doc about how down you are arther can cause that with out and thing else in your life causing greaf hugs today will be better day for you val
    val
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi there, I wanted to say that I am sending big hugs to you. And go to the doctors, maybe you need some anti-deppresents, just for a while to help you pick up.

    As I said big hugs coming your way.

    Karen xx
    Karen xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Val I do know that you have to go work .so your kind words mean more than anyones thankyou dear girl ..........but just guess ai a am very stuck at the moment thankyou tinkerbelle.

    i am lucky they started treating this straight away do have bad days but also have some almost normal days so am very lucky feel for any one who is being bought low by life it can be so hard to get out of the black hole some times you have to reach rock bottom before you can start to get out but we are here for you through thick and thin leaving buckets of hugs val
    val
  • caterina57
    caterina57 Member Posts: 1,424
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi everyone
    Tinks I am sorry you are feeling down at the moment perhaps as the others have said a trip to the Docs may help you get back on track...Remember we are all here for you and will give you support.
    Cath
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Cath Val Coco .........thats the problem we open up on here drop our guard no one else when we are out and about how bad it really is .........well I do not sleep ..............I do go out and about stick up for myself with the other half and in general ...........then in bed at night I DONT SLEEP ..........I get up and rummage in he cupboard all the christmas booze..........god all mighty really feel like rubbish .................but definately not a real whimp ........strong really ........grr cook clean help be a good friend mother dear sister .......................recently lover .......just bloody pulled from piller to post guess you lot know what I mean grrrrrrrrrrTINKERBELLE.


    you have to look at things and decide what important to you at min and what others could do to help you ask i know it not easy but they will not know unless you explaine and drink not great for arther(well it makes mine hurt more not souther comfort for some reason) so make a list and start to say no sorry but i can not do that not all the time but when you know it will make you worse last year was just going work supermarket and no where else felt so bad just napped but with right meds it does get better go talk to gp you trust get sorted please life can be so much better and even kids can do so much for them selves it good for them do not feel guilty val
    val
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,142
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tinkerbelle Coco Karen Val Caterina.
    how are you all today its another nice day.
    anyone fancy aa drink.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tinkerbelle,

    How are you feeling this afternoon. Hope the sun is shining where you are.

    My husband went through the same as you are now. Just to let you know that things do get better even if you cant see it at the moment.

    karen xx
    Karen xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Val, Karen, Coco, Joan, and Tinks
    Hi Tinks send me a long PM have a good moan , and get everything off your chest...Im a good listener...and its takes my mind off me..
    Hope everyone else are having a goodish day....think I will have a cup of tea...and a scone with loads of jam and cream.. :grin:
    Barbara x
    Love
    Barbara
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tinks
    I will send you a PM just look at the top of the page...you should see 1 new messages open it and click reply at the bottom of the page...
    Love
    Barbara xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    had a crap afternoon wish had stayed home lol and skipped work, but oh well it the weekend so things can only get better hope to potter in garden in morning will have pot of tea to myself and packet of biscuits and some chocolate i think
    val
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    valval wrote:
    had a crap afternoon wish had stayed home lol and skipped work, but oh well it the weekend so things can only get better hope to potter in garden in morning will have pot of tea to myself and packet of biscuits and some chocolate i think
    Val I will join you.....comfort eating...cant beat it.. :grin: Iv got some kitkats here.... :grin:
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    barbara12 wrote:
    valval wrote:
    had a crap afternoon wish had stayed home lol and skipped work, but oh well it the weekend so things can only get better hope to potter in garden in morning will have pot of tea to myself and packet of biscuits and some chocolate i think
    Val I will join you.....comfort eating...cant beat it.. :grin: Iv got some kitkats here.... :grin:
    here you go mug of tea and kit kat each might actually start on chocolate for real in a bit or have a drink lol
    val
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    valval wrote:
    barbara12 wrote:
    valval wrote:
    had a crap afternoon wish had stayed home lol and skipped work, but oh well it the weekend so things can only get better hope to potter in garden in morning will have pot of tea to myself and packet of biscuits and some chocolate i think
    Val I will join you.....comfort eating...cant beat it.. :grin: Iv got some kitkats here.... :grin:
    here you go mug of tea and kit kat each might actually start on chocolate for real in a bit or have a drink lol
    Iv got a cider and a packet of crisp.....so go for it Val...might have another later....
    Love
    Barbara