PLEASE CAN YOU ALL COME WITH ME TOMORROW
barbara12
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Sorry its late notice, but would you believe I only got the letter today, its supposed to be for injections in my hips, but I am going tomorrow to tell them I dont want them, Iv decided to have the THR instead....I dont believe I am saying this :shock: but the pain has got so bad now, I have no choice.
So I need you all there, to make my mouth move, and to say I want a THR....if you dont I will chicken out, and my mouth will freeze.
Sorry I know you are all busy with pockets duties already....if you can spare an hour at 1.30
Love
Barbara xx
So I need you all there, to make my mouth move, and to say I want a THR....if you dont I will chicken out, and my mouth will freeze.
Sorry I know you are all busy with pockets duties already....if you can spare an hour at 1.30
Love
Barbara xx
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Barbara
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Hi Barbera..
It's a date.. I will be sat at home doing nothing.. 1.30 is just the right time i am out of my morning stiffness lol...
I shall be whispering in your ear THR.. repeatedly till you say it lol..
Joking aside.. you are obviously making the right decision for you.. You have thought about it and decided it will be the best option.. hopefully the doc will understand this.. maybe right down any questions you have about the THR so you can ask them tom too..
Will be with you tom, so i hope you have big pockets as i am sure you will have many people supporting you..
Big hugs ((((((((((x))))))))))
Tracy
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Count me and the cats in of course Barbara!!
I'll speak up for ya if you get tongue tied, I've got a reet Yorkshire gob on mi when I wantMe-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Oh Barbara,
Of course we will be with you. I know that this has been a big decision for you and there will be a lot of planning ahead for you. I also know you have not come to this decision lightly.
Head up shoulders back you can do this flower.
Gentle hugs,
Lv, Ix0 -
Barbara,
Will be there with you in spirit and mind, I understand what you are going through as it is such a massive decision. Just like when I decided to go for the fusion, just think of how much easier it will be once it is all done and dusted and you have recovered from then op. You will probably be walking down a nice country lane thinking whiy didn't I go for it sooner.
Best of luck for tomorrow.
Rob
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Oh my! My brave, brave friend, this decision has taken a deal of reaching but you go, girl! I will be there - you know me, never afraid to speak up! - so if your mouth won't quite make the necessary sounds I'll do it for you. I promise. 1.30? I am there already, sitting and waiting for you. DDHave you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben0
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Will be with you Barbara. You are one seriously brave lady.
(((( )))) from me and the menagerie xx0 -
Oh Barbara it does get the point when you can bear no more. The THR did rid me of that awful pain and I could deal with so much more afterwards. It's not an easy decision I know but I don't regret it one bit.
I will be with you tomorrow.
ElizabethNever be bullied into silence.
Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
Accept no ones definition of your life
Define yourself........
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Hi Barbara, well done for making the decision to go ahead with the THR. I know it couldnt have been an easy decision but im sure its the right thing for you.
I will be in your pocket waiting to hear them words ''THR Please''
Im sure we will get you through tomorrow as you have some strong support & think of the painfree hip after the op.
Can i have a pocket with no crumbs please & i'll bring the egg sarnies.
Take care & let us know how you get on.
debs0 -
well done so proud of you. i know it scary but it will be for the best just think of the summer walks you can have.
have to send body to work but mind will be in pocket with you know trisher will be there with her brolly incase you do not speak up so beware hugs valval0 -
A very big thank you Tracy, Tony, Ironic,Rob, and DD
You are all so lovely....when I say I couldnt do this without you, believe me I mean it.
3 times I have put it off, but like you all say , I know the time has come.
Has some of you know I have been waiting for the letter to have the hip injections, its been around 2 half months, but the last few weeks have been agony.
So its pointless having the injection,I did ring and they said the letter was posted last thurs, still short notice, she said to come in has normal and have a chat :shock:
Sorry I am such a wimp....but again thank you all...and Rob good luck with your ankle fusion...I do hope it goes well for you.
Love to you all
Barbara xxxLove
Barbara0 -
Hi,
Course I will be with you (I will be with Tony and his reight yorkshire gob, as I have one too) Good Luck
Cath0 -
Barbara, me and maddie (my westie) will be there in your pocket for support, maddie will lick your hand for support just at the right time.0
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Hi Sorry some of you sneaked in.....Fay, Elizabeth,Debs,Val,Cath, and Madwestie....thank you...and believe me when I say I couldnt do it without you I mean it.
I have been on the forum for just over a year now, and its the best thing |I ever did.
Just shout really loud will you...or give me a nudge....very hard.
I am typing this with tears in my eyes...you are all so lovely.
Barbara xxLove
Barbara0 -
barbara12 wrote:Hi Sorry some of you sneaked in.....Fay, Elizabeth,Debs,Val,Cath, and Madwestie....thank you...and believe me when I say I couldnt do it without you I mean it.
I have been on the forum for just over a year now, and its the best thing |I ever did.
Just shout really loud will you...or give me a nudge....very hard.
I am typing this with tears in my eyes...you are all so lovely.
Barbara xxval0 -
Hi Barbara
If there's room for another I'll be there for you too. 1.30pm is lunchtime so may have bring flask and sandwich - will bring lots of biscuits for us all to share too.
best of luck
Katie xx0 -
Well done Barb..........I`ll be in touch.......Much love.......Ange.x.0
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Barbara
well done you!!
I am impressed - I will of course be there but maybe you can have the jabs anyway to ease things for now?
Love and Hugs
Toni xx0 -
Barbara :shock:
OMG oh lovey, I know how hard this has been for you to decide and I am so proud of you for posting on this and I nearly missed it!! :oops: You know I will definately be there tomorrow (and quantum leaping in Iris's pocket too). I will be giving you a gentle prod to get the words out right. Well maybe a bit more than a gentle one if needed. :???: Barbara you know my thoughts on all this and I do understand how brave you are being.
Sending buckets of hugs and courage (((( )))) and a bit of Yorkshire grit, Aye well I have been 'ere a while now tha knows
much love always
Chris xx0 -
count me in, and just incase your mouth freezes and you dont want us all shouting it out write on a piece of paper and pop it in your pocket with us "i want a TNR pleas" one of us will make sure it lands in the drs lap, good luck tomorrow and remember your not alone
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Hi Barbara,
Well done!!! Its not a bad idea to have the replacement flower.Will make your mouth move even if i have to physically move it for you
think in the mean time have the jabs as well cus they wont do any harm and it might help... there will be a list for the thr and well it might just help the pain for the now.
Will be with and sending you a ((((( ))))) cris xx0 -
Hi Barbara,
Your pockets are obviously going to be bulging---one glance down each side will remind you of your brave decision. You will state it.May I come, with a mini hot water bottle?
Puffin0 -
so sorry i missed this this morning....hope it all went well and your mouth managed to control the fear and spit the words out. I agree with the others have the jabs as well. lets us know how it went. HugsXXX0
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My Uncle has just had his first one done, he is over the moon with it Barbara... He can't wait to have the next one done..
Me-Tony
Ra-1996 -2013 RIP...
Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP0 -
Hi Barbara,
Just wanted to wish you luck, will be thinking of you Poppy x'grá agus solas'
'Love and Light' translated from Irish. X0 -
reporting for pocket duties Barbara we will help you and you are brave
so you will be able to say those words.(((hugs)))
Rose x0
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