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  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,156
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris.
    i'm sorry you have so much pain i dont know what you have done you dont deserve it all.
    its a pity you cannot pass some on i bet you wish you could.
    take care. ((((((((cris)))))))).
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi Tracy, May, Sticky, Poppy, Toni, Susy and Joan,

    its a bit better in some ways today..... the lump is still very hot and still big in the center and to the left but the right side has gone down quite a lot..... its a start eh?

    i did very little yesterday except feed and water but had to do a bit more today and must muck out the chicken shed tomorrow.... i must.....

    Tracy thats some cake :grin: i would so like some now :lol: got some special vit b infused pringles which will have to do :lol:

    hope your doing ok flowr and leaving you a handful of these and a cuppa. xx

    May its not been easy of late.... its not a bad idea though and send Wilf to do the nibbling cus we would love to meet him :grin: xx

    Sticky you still on that roof cus we built you a special lean to shelter :lol: is been so wet we might all be up there with you soon :lol:

    Haz is in his special suit and has some dinner for you.... the special vit be infused things and a mushroom omelette :lol: now if he said its only the one he is lying..... have kept slurps back to bring you the cuppa.... leaving you the special Haz ((((( ))))) and a hope flower. xx

    Poppy had a strong word with the fates today... hope you get some ease up cus they have to listen one day. Ta for the supplies and leaving tea and hugs and a bucket of light to keep you going. xx

    Toni there are few things that the finest Cornwall can make doesn't go with :wink: it would def go with that cake..... you want some as well cus its really nice :lol: xx

    Susy oh the neck and the chair.... its silly to keep doing this but the sleep just comes on and i have gone.... its only a matter of time before the paralyzation wakes me us that so hurts... its what happens .. the pain paralyzes you and hell does it kick it off for days and i keep doing it. one of those v shaped might help so will join you on the quest or maybe make my own.....

    Tracy's idea o the beanie and a bit of old chair cushion.... well it might be ok cus the collar ain't;t cus of the lump just now.....

    i see o/t soon... waiting for the appointment for some splints and maybe she will be able to help eh? The dip might too... just hate it so much and the ward sister and i do not get on at all.... i mean not even remotely.....

    leaving a cuppa, a hug and Izzy its your lucky day cus I was given 2 packs of cat food in trays so.... my lot said you can have 2.... xx

    Joan flower this has been going on so long i kinda think it might become normal..... the drip might help how ever much i don;t want it....

    hey you up for hen house clearing tomorrow? will have miss L Legs, in her boiler suit and clip bored..... she will make us o it right for sure...

    having met her she also knew a mug hen she saw one :lol::lol: love to you and Sue xx
  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi Cris pleased things have eased a little , you do know you wont be on your own for that drip we will be there and the evil one will be locked in the sluce room with the bed pans :lol: i think Wilf would love to visit hes in to mud and digging in a big way ,love and a comfort cushion xx
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris
    Im so pleased that things are a little better...I know its only a little....but I have everything crossed that things improve very soon..I really do...now please dont overdo things...sending you more good healing vibes...and hugs ((((())))
    Love
    Barbara
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi May,

    hey Wilf can cone with and here... oh he'd love it cus as ever the swamp has started... i hate mud and its so hard to walk on when your not so good and wobbly....

    i walking like a drunken gorilla and its embarassing as well.....

    never mind its a bit better today so thats a start and the first time its shown any improvement since Teg died.....

    Wilf sounds lovely! hugs, tea and a hope xx

    hi Barbara,

    even a little bit is a start and a dam site better than its been :grin: I did virtually nothing yesterday and today and the rest up has helped it but i can't coast like this.... hell i miss my mate who died. he used to help bless him.

    hope your doing ok and leaving you a hug for always being there and a bucket of Barbara well draft. xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi cris just popped in to see how it going not as well as i had hoped so leaving mug of tea ginger bicky and ((())) to help you through take it as easy as you can val
    val
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris

    Just popping in with mor hugs ((((((((((()))))))))) and ooooooh that cake looked delicious.

    Time for a cuppa I think and perhaps a bikkie too.

    Thinking of you and hoping you feel well soon.

    love juliepf x
  • ironic
    ironic Member Posts: 2,361
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris,
    Sorry about the mud pit they certainly do churn the stuff up dont they. Good that you are feeling slightly more human today. Not sure how you will be if you tackled the chicken shed today. Pity someone doesn’t want the manure for their garden...free to collect. :grin:

    I hope the overdue OT appointment comes through soon, I am sure they will help you with the splints. Take a deep breath and ask for anything that is on offer, at least you will be on the list and hopefully they will have regular contact with you. I am finally getting the Iso thingy gloves later this month and I am sure they will help my hands but I had to ring them up to remind them that I was still waiting.
    Hugs as always,
    Lv, I x
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi Val, Julie and I,

    the neck and shoulder is worse than ever and not able to do the sale today.... i was meant to and will be moaned at as well. the lumber.... not talking about that but think maybe i slept on the back too long cus this time i can't blame the armchair.

    nothing ever changes does it?!

    no news from the ot I...... wonder how long it will take? still its not been a month yet has it or has it? i kinda lost track of time now...... between the pain and the tiredness and the anemia tablets haven't made me feel any better either actually..... wonder if i still am. i think i am due bloods again soon so maybe they will find out then.

    you all take care and sorry i am all behind. Cris xx
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Don't you dare apologise, skezier. You fight that poor body of yours long and hard to get it do stuff. It's bound to just refuse altogether sometimes to get its own back.

    I have loaded haz up with a large pack of Bone & Muscle Lightener, a Total Body Relaxant and Happy Dreams potion, guranteed to make you wake up feeling like a very unarthritic 6 year old. You can also have all my tea as I seem to have had a personality change and actually prefer water right now. Plus a few of these ((((( )))))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Cris

    Sending you over a couple of buckets of strength and stamina to hopefully help you a little during today. I think of you often and wonder how you keep going but I do know how and that is because of your deep love for all the animals in your care.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,027
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Poor old Cris :sad:

    well l am ready to PA as necessary....l do know that typing hurts a fair bit at the moment. The arms neck and shoulders do NOT like this position and of course you can't type really any other way :roll:

    What l do know is that you pop in and see what is on your thread if you can most days and check that all those who matter to you are ok if you can.

    Will check in later by text and post if needed

    Love and HUGE hugs

    and a bit of d020.gif

    Toni xx
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris, sending hugs and a cuppa (((((()))))))

    Toni , please tell cris I am thinking of her and hope she feels betterr soon.

    Love juliepf x
  • suzygirl
    suzygirl Member Posts: 2,005
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris, is it worth a phonecall to OT to chase the appt up?? Just in case your referral has been waylaid???

    Izzy thanks you for the sachets, she is especially appreciative of a treat as she has been indoors due to her dislike of fireworks. She has kept us awake whizzing round the house, jumping and playing!!

    I wish you could get comfortable to get a proper nights rest, I like the potions you have been sent. Let us know if they work.

    Sending you positive vibes, a massage for muscles, and a heat wrap. Hot chocolate in a flask and a nip of the hard stuff to keep out the cold. :wink:
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    HI all

    tis Wonky PA this time :wink:

    Cris managed a quick look into the site, but really has done something to aggravate the neck, which is making typing (and quite a few other things) just about impossible right now. Many of you will know that Cris is not one to give a quick reply either, which can mean that she gets drawn into typing more than she anticipates or is advisable! (I know that feeling very well :wink: )

    I for one am very glad that she has recognised that typing isn't helping her right now, and has decided that she must really try to help the neck and arms recover somehow.

    Cris, being Cris, is worrying though, and asked me to let you all know that she is very grateful for all your kind messages, and very sorry that for now she can't be on the site as she would wish, especially for the unanswered PMs. She hopes you'll understand that typing is just not possible right now.

    I think Cris has plans to get an ortho opinion on the neck having never had/been allowed one .... so here's hoping that the GP thinks as we do that it would be a good idea, and that the ortho can help!

    Cris's PAs will update as and when we can.

    hugs
    Wonky xxx
  • CJHunter
    CJHunter Member Posts: 1,038
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks for the update PA Wonky, it is good to know what is happening, although not good news.

    Cris we hope your neck gives you some relief soon and are sending you warm wishes, hugs and flasks of tea :wink:.
    An ortho opinion would be great, lets hope ypur doc is onside eh??

    Take it easy hun.
    Much love.
    Xx
    Clare xxeyeore-1.jpg
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Wonky..thankyou for the update
    And CRIS I keep telling you we dont mind if you dont answers has lone as we know you are ok....so stop typing loads and look after that neck...Pleeeese sending you more buckets of stamina and bone easing stuff...you take care my love...and give that lovely family of yours some big hugs from me ((((()))) and some for you of course (((())))
    Love
    Barbara
  • traluvie
    traluvie Member Posts: 2,579
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thinking of you Cris..

    Sending love and hugs..((((((((((X)))))))))

    Hope you feel better soon..xx
    th_tn_TisFORTIGGER.jpgxxTracyxx
  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks Wonky PA ,xx

    hi Cris STEP AWAY FROM YOUR PC or look and dont touch , your PAs do a fantastic job , of keeping us all informed, use your energy and hands to do what we know you must do , i hope your DR will sort the ortho out its well over due , love and gentle hugs coming your way from me and mine xx
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I have had words with our lovely Cris...and she has agreed to let me type for her
    Has you may know...bless her she is in such a lot of pain , especially her neck, has you may have read she can wake up paralysed with it, so she has a dilemma that she needs advice on
    She has seen to Docs, and she say they are very nice, and they have said if it were there neck they wouldn't let a surgeon near it, now she is wondering dose she go against what they are saying and see a ortho surgeon to see what they say..at the risk of upsetting the others...or does she go with there word...not an easy one ...but she really needs our help
    And she says a big thankyou to everyone of you....and send loads of slurps and hugs ((((())))
    Love
    Barbara
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    barbara12 wrote:
    I have had words with our lovely Cris...and she has agreed to let me type for her
    Has you may know...bless her she is in such a lot of pain , especially her neck, has you may have read she can wake up paralysed with it, so she has a dilemma that she needs advice on
    She has seen to Docs, and she say they are very nice, and they have said if it were there neck they wouldn't let a surgeon near it, now she is wondering dose she go against what they are saying and see a ortho surgeon to see what they say..at the risk of upsetting the others...or does she go with there word...not an easy one ...but she really needs our help
    And she says a big thankyou to everyone of you....and send loads of slurps and hugs ((((())))

    Hi Barbara,

    What a good scribe you are along with the PAs too - is the salary good??

    I think there's no harm in Cris seeing a surgeon - it doesn't mean to say she'll be committed to having an operation but she will know what options are open to her.

    Send her hugs from me and tell her there's no need to reply as she must look after herself first. (((( ))))

    Love,
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Barbara

    Bless you, liaising with us, for dear Cris.

    I am wondering if Cris has had an mri on her neck recently. If not, I would have thought this is the first port of call. It is all very well the gps giving their view but do they know what is going on in Cris's neck for sure? A gp cannot authorise an MRI as I understand it. Cris would have to be referred to a consultant who would do this I am sure as he would wish to have all the facts before going further with any kind of firm diagnosis and what the options are.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,027
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Definitely an ortho for me every time.

    THEN you can make a decision after that...nothing lost by finding out is there Cris?

    Love and hugs

    Toni xx
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm with the others, skezier. seeing the ortho commits you to nothing. In addition to getting his/her opinion - and maybe a scan - you can also use the opportunity to size him up (Purely for surgical reasons :oops: ) and see how much confidence you'd have in him, given it sounds not the most obvious op to do.

    ((((( )))))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • CJHunter
    CJHunter Member Posts: 1,038
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Cris you know what we are gonna say really.... Well i agree scan then ortho. You need to have it looked at properly.
    Its only an opinion and you havent committed to anything.

    Love, hugs and a flask of hot sweet builders being sent to you my sweet.xx
    Clare xxeyeore-1.jpg