Family fall-outs

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  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you both. I think maybe you're right. I can't think of any way round it at the moment. I've got other things to worry about and can't deal with it all at once. I do feel I need to take a step back and, as you say, look after myself, for a while. x
    Christine
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I think that's a good plan, Christine. I hope things improve all round.
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Do you think you should cancel your original cheque in case they didn't rip it up and then try to cash it claiming they didn't realise what the original cheque was for? You could always ask the hospital if they received the donation but I do know it is difficult as You want to give people the benefit of the doubt and not have to be checking up on them.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I don't know which hospital it was meant for. If the cheque was cashed, I'd notice it on my statement as I check it each week but I think cancelling it is a good idea Elizabeth just to make sure.
    Christine