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☕️ pills, Ollie furball. Lottie pickling at 4am for breakfast
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Morning Joan I do hope Brenda's little cat does ok. They often hide when they feel ill cats. How are you anyway are you doing ok? How is Treacle too is she taking her tablets ok? ((())) xxx
Morning Jojo. So unfair! You try to take the dogs a walk and really enjoy it but your feet do not😡 Any chance at all you could get a referral to a podiatrist do you think? I now have insoles but initially the first thing that helped me was changing to shoes like skechers and there were some clarks ones the soles of which were i think air-filled. Hotters do similar types.
Yes please to a cuppa😊 Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Skinny Keef hope you are doing ok. Has Sucré started school yet? If so I hope it means you are taking the chance to rest up during the days if you need to ((())) xxx
Morning Stuart. Cats eh?! Ollie😍 They are funny we have to love them don't we? Hope you get an appt soon to discuss your MRI results ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi how are you this slightly overcast (so far) looking morning? Is your Mum well too?
Did I ask you whether she has the heating on yet? I just kind of think she might….
Oh dear a plague of locusts set to befall upon the beautiful holiday resort of Reading. So you won't go to the group then today. I bet the weather turns out fine we were forecast a dreadful day yesterday here and it was quite lovely. Typical eh?
You do a good job entertaining bored children like LA. Honestly you are a bigger influence on him than you think. He will tell his children tales about his Auntie Mima.
I can't use 'down' escalators Reshmi! I'm so glad i am not the only one. Once when I landed at Stanstead they had to take me (and a person who was using a wheelchair) a secret way out staff only as there were no public lifts just escalators. I felt quite silly if there had been stairs I would have taken my time down them but escalators😥
Glad the soup warmed you if you felt cold. I do a bit, in the house, but am layering up for now.
I am also after new socks I got some from brexit a year ago they have cushioning in them really helped my feet. Oh I must tell Jojo that her feet are hurting.
Well done avoiding hot chocolate and cheese 👏 pat on the back for you there.
Take care and have a good day ((())) xxx
Morning Toady I do like Maurandya the fact it flowers into Autumn and who doesn't love nasturtium🤗 Thanks for the pics.
Thanks for your kind thoughts for everyone who lost John and was at the funeral yesterday. It was full, the cemetery, completely full (he was 63) and a beautiful really personal service. Audible sobbing throughout which was heartbreaking to hear bless them all. What a lovely man he was. He will be missed.
Will be at the foodbank today.
Now you see I pictured the music being a bit folky, (all flutes, swishy dresses and beads) but no it's too modern for an old crock like me. To be fair they often do an 80's night of the Friday if you are camping, but I can't stay up that late and we weren't camping this year as we had visitors.
Elfie was telling his Daddy about trying to find the pot of gold. They intend to give it to people who need it when (yes Elfie says when) he is successful. We are ok we have enough, but some people don't.
You take care Toady and I hope your day is a good one ((())) xxx
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migraine city.
haven’t been there for a while but feeling very rough.1 -
good morning Toni
Wppl xx
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Morning all 🌞 not much sun about yet but maybe letter - just put my charity bags out so the main thing is if it would kindly not rain til they go. Could fill a couple more straight away, where does it all come from 😬.
What a lovely person the chap sounded frog and to have such a turnout, 😔 food bank will be sad today won't it. I hope it is as good as possible and if (when) Elfie finds the right rainbow then yes he will be thrilled to help out too, for those less fortunate than hims-elf 👍. In the meantime there are always four-leaf clovers, he can keep an eye out when he's helping in the garden ☘️. Pic to follow of the cut of jib of the haystack jigsaw puzzle if he still feels like a go after he's seen it 😬 I'm just counting the pieces it will probably have to go to the charity next time, it made my head spin, difficult is one thing but it's not meant to be like punishment 😣😄. Lovely picture of Sleek 😽 catazon will be here tomorrow so I will keep her things and maybe she'd like to pop round for them after Friday's 'outing' plus hugs and tea & biccies ofc ☕. Glad you liked the garden pics I have more tidying if the weather holds, the weekend looks ok fingers crossed 🤞love to everyone ta for the nice breakfast 😘 xx
Morning in advance to Joan will say hello later 😘 xx
Hi bosh hope you have a good day 👋 thanks for last night's post 'toadface' makes me laugh whenever I see it especially as it pops up at random so it has the surprise element haha 😄. I adore that bat 😍🦇 now that really is clever, to think of that spiral! it works so well. I hope your back is feeling better today - I know someone who did have an 'inversion table' for therapy and bat-like suspension 😯 I had forgotten that til now. I never fancied the idea 😬. Thanks I would use self scan if I had to I suppose but it's been a long time, last time was in a local supermarket before it closed, and there was always a problem if not one thing then another. Yes definitely needs a quiet time and no queue behind you 😱. Escalators is quite understandable they are a bit user unfriendly & off-putting at best aren't they. Take care see you anon :)
Morning Jojo have a good second-to-last work day and hope it goes ok, sorry it is your feet that are painful right now because even staying off them isn't 100% is it if they hurt at night 😔. Hope the school walk was not too bad (if it was your turn) and thanks for the tea ☕ take care xx
Sorry about your disturbed night Stuart 😣 Ollie does seem to have rather a lot of troubles, not being long-haired, does he groom a lot or is it a sensitive stomach 🤔. Hope the rest of your day is better, how is your Mum getting on with the garden and foxes etc? xx
Ouch migraine Keef why is this, any idea 😔 hope it will cut short and you get a break soon 🤞 xx
2nd tea of the day ☕😘 xx
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) thank you for the help with the rose. How is your eye. Have a good day. I did some washing I’m not sue if I will put it outside.
Toni (()) have a good walk with Kari (()) I expect you will be busy at the food bank. Charlie came banging on the door saying I want the Doctors number he has an appointment for tomorrow. When he came back he said I forgot to take my tablets.
Jojo(()) have a good day I hope you have less pain.
Reshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())
Stuart (()) sorry about your pain love to your mum (()) have a good day
Skinny Keef (()) I hope everything is alright there love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (()) have a good day.
take care
joan xx1 -
first day yesterday.
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Hi Toady, I don’t know why. I didn’t eat any of my trigger foods yesterday, although I did cook a roast lamb dinner as I thought the little guy wood be ‘hank marvin’ (his fav phrase atm) after his first day at school. I know processed meat like burger or sausages sets me off but so far I have been fine with proper stuff. Maybe it was the prebought yorkie puds maybe they had sugar in them only thing i can think of.
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Afternoon frogmorton I'm having a rest now I've been cleaning the downstairs doors and of course it's set my knees and my thumb and wrist off so upstairs will have to wait till Sunday I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day. My skin is coming off my feet and I've got a blister on my toes so it's more like burning pain it seems to be in proven since having a bath and putting moisture on.
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Afternoon toady I do school run every morning luckily I'm off work today and I've had a nice bath and put moisturiser on and my feet are a bit less sore I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.
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I don't feel very well I've got full on aches and pains feels like flu symptoms think I've over done it today. I hope everyone else is ok this afternoon.
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The terrible jigsaw 😣 you even get a little magnifying glass to help you find 'the needle' in the hay when you've crossed your eyes putting the thing together 😱.
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Afternoon Joan, my eye is much much better, just a yellow tinge (it is like a bruise after all) but you would hardly notice now, I look almost human 😄. I wouldn't have put any washing out, it was dry here all morning when there was rain forecast, I was so pleased to put the charity stuff out in dry weather - then they didn't show up 🤷♀️. Finally round 3 it absolutely poured with rain proper cloudburst I had to drag the bags back in 🙄. Hope Charlie got himself sorted out 😬 he doesn't sound the most organized person but then neither am I 😳. Have a good evening :) xx
Oh look at Sucré Keef 👍️😊 spanking new school uniform I remember it well. His hands will be out of the end of those sleeves in a flash I bet. Cool shoes as well 😎. Hope the head is improving and yes maybe there was something sneaky in the yorkies, always nice to pin the blame on something. Have a good (better) evening and good luck to Sucré with everything :) xx
Jojo you poor thing you are in the wars at the moment with aches & a pains etc just when you pick up after something else 😕 have you been checked for fibromyalgia sorry if you've said. Nuisance when you only have a day to go, if you could have knocked off today sounds like that would have been better. Take care hope you feel better soon 🤞 xx
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hi Toni and toady
How are you both this afternoon?
mums ok 👍
I’m not bad, thanks for asking
👋 toadyI somehow managed to miss one of your posts or part of it. I think it was me getting a bit confused lol
but I have read everything now. Thank you
Volcanoes are dormant at the moment. Thanks for asking, but I don’t know how long that will last forokay before I go on confusing myself and I’m going off on strange tangents in my normal manner, I Just wanted to put this poem on here that I wrote little one about BR. Some parts of factual like his chef activities with seasoning and chips haha
okay I will try to to do at least another post that’s more informative I guess lol
bye for now Toni and toady take care xx
Vc poem called “When BR told a big lie, About who ate the apple pie”
It was Mimas birthday meal and BR had a feast
Pizza and chips with squash gulped down the pint, what fun!
And butter sachets stolen from adulks, to put on a freshly baked bun
A few cucumber fingers courtesy of Lord A
Yummy fried mushrooms on a bone china tray
Salt and ketchup stolen from daddy’s plate, hurray!The sugar sachets from mummy’s coffee, he sneakily added to his drink
I said, “ How much seasoning have you put in your chips? There’s everything in there but the kitchen sink!”
But BR just laughed cheekily and ate sponge pudding for his afters
But suddenly daddy’s apple pie vanished, BR said, “It wasn’t me, my tummy is packed to the rafters.
My brother LA however, he eats everything in his vision
He ate daddy’s pie with custard - no guilt, no indecision”
At this point LA said, “But look at BR’s face!
He’s got apple all over his cheeks, this lying little brother - he’s such a disgrace!”
So BR was caught out, what a naughty dessert - swiping guy
Who also falsely accused his brother of eating the contentious and highly sought - after piePs Vegan apple pie xx
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hi Jojo sorry to hear that,
I’m not too bad thanks, have a good afternoon and evening tc xx
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sorry to hear that SK, I hope you feel better soon tc x
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hi again Toni
How are you?
Mums mood is more or less ok thanks
I just got a bit confused, no you probably didn’t ask me lol,
That thermostat war hasn’t begun yet haha
No I decided it was best not to risk getting a horrific cold and go to group among the locusts today lol
I enjoyed going to the town centre yesterday,
but that was ookey enough really because my ears were hurting for quite awhile and even though I had packed a sensible winter jumper in my Bosh - bag I didn’t actually wear it because I was already wet with Riley is tears or whatever type of precipitation was falling from the sky haha
so had a very thin coat and a light jumper, so it was an ideal at all reallyThanks Toni, I remember at one point bill got very jealous of an even younger LA saying “mima, mima” repeatedly and he asked my mum why he did this and she replied that I was patient with him and told him stories, I think a bit of bill - related guilty silence ensued haha, but how silly being jealous of something a tiny child said, but never mind.
Thanks for telling me about the escalators that you have problems with them too. That’s very interesting to know, I’m wondering if it’s balance related I might try and get some physio. Thanks
Okay that’s the end of this post. Bye for now Toni take care xx
nice pic of your son 👍
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Hi toady I haven't been to the doctors about fibromyagia. But going by the symptoms I've read up about it might be possible. I feel like I could sleep for a week I'm that tired. I hope your evening is going well for you.
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greetings toady
How are you tonight?
I was going to re-read your posts again so I could fully absorb them but certain things it got in the way got a bit busy but never mind I think I’ve got most of it in my in my head now
I actually do have quite a good umbrella. I think the brand was Tresp**s
it’s one my mum actually got for me it’s really good though
I can use it on very windy days, of course, not gale force ha ha, but it is a pretty sturdy umbrella not as pretty as the ones from the accessories shop but useful and practical👍
my back is back to normal thanks toady I think the damp didn’t help yesterday and going out in the damp weather
Yes, I understand that escalators can be scary for a lot of people all the timebut for me the relatively new change in the scariness level as it were lol i think it’s due to balance issues but I’ve left a message with the rheumatology gods ha ha and hopefully they’ll get back to me soon enough for some physio or something like that
I could go on and on waffling about this a bit more but it’s almost 10 but if I don’t start my process of tidying up, I may not get to bed before the glitching hour as MZ calls it or something like that haha
have a good night toady and take care xx
👋 night Jojo Joan SK and S knee xx
ps some nice goth cats for people who enjoy that sort of thing lol xx
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Morning Joan how are you? All is well here Sleek is doing ok vets tomorrow for arthritis jab. I have a man coming to fix the washer today so trapped in for now. Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Jojo I don't like the sound of your poor feet at all! Maybe an idea to ask your pharmacist what to do with them? You need at the very least to stay off them as much as you can you poor girl.😕
I need to finish my puzzle asap it's hurting my thumb too much (shoulders and back too really) put my splint back on🙄 Did the foodbank pick up from a few supermarkets yesterday and those cages and bread trays gosh they are hard work. Take care ((())) xxx
Hi Skinny Keef how are you? Has that migraine eased at all? I really do hope so. It's tough trying to suss out exactly what triggers one. I wouldn't be at all surprised if those yorkies were to blame🙄
How absolutely adorable is Sucré in his uniform! The sweet boy. That looks like a posh school even a cap to wear. I bet he was dead chuffed you must both be very proud.
Penelope is being shown at Hampton Court Palace (Concourse of Elegance) on Sunday we go down on the Saturday staying in a hotel for the night before. I need to find something smart to wear… Will take pics. Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Stuart how is your Mum doing? Any news yet on your MRI Sorry to keep asking but I am hoping there is something they can do to help once you have your results. Thanks for the cuppa and croissant ((()) xxx
Morning Reshmi how are you this wet and miserable morning? Is your Mum doing ok too?
No thermostat wars so far? Wow! We've had a couple of chilly nights here ourselves. Ok with an extra layer so far though.
Still you did right to avoid getting soaked and getting ill. I am also trying to get the layers right. It's warm once going on your walks but too cold to start with T shirts and single layers are gone for this year sadly😕
What a fabulous poem about BR! You got him 'banged to rights' as the rozzers would say! Definitely twas the smallest member of the family who half-inched the apple pie. Imagine blaming your beloved big bro too🤣
Has he also had a good first day at school? I hope so bless him.
I do remember BIL being jealous of LA's attachment to his Mima, but honestly it was understandable you are prepared to make time fr them. Get on their level and play with them. That's all children need - time and love. Well obviously food too hehe!
If you are able to sort out the escalator issue I would be really interested.
Take care Reshmi I hope your day is good ((())) xxx
Morning Toady raining here and the roof is leaking slightly where it connects with the extension roof….and I have a man coming to hopefully fix the washer. So I have to be ready and dressed for 8am and tidy here too…..
Hope he doesn't need to turn water off.
Sleeks goodies are set to arrive tomorrow? Great she will be happy about that bless her she deserves a reward after going to the V*T. we all do really🤣I'll make do with a cuppa and a bourbon.
Nope Elfie is not at all sure about your puzzle he recommends sending it to the charity shop asap. Of course he could have it done in no time and find the needle but….not worth it he says life is far too short. Not for elves apparently but for peoples. Elves are just short themselves but live for 100s of years.Hims-elf😂 very good!
Yes weather set fair for teh weekend when i will be at Hampton Court Palace no less! At the Concourse of Elegance with Penelope. I will take photos and guess what? We are showing on Sunday and at 3 they are doing that emergency alarm thing again.🙄
Take care Toad maybe the weather will dry up later and the man - could it be a woman? Will be here and gone by 9? Ever the optimist Toni! ((())) xxx
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Morning frogmorton I've been putting some cream on called magic foot it has helped a lot so I will keep washing my foot getting rid of dead skin and using magic foot cream. Yeah I get a lot of hand pain as well I got it yesterday cleaning the downstairs doors so upstairs doors will get done this weekend. I've sorted stuff out for charity obviously my area at tesco I bet the trays can be heavy if you get a lot In one tray I hope your hand pain settles down soon for you. I hope you are having a rest day today.
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) That’s good your eye is getting better. I dried the washing outside it got cloudy I got it in it poured. Sorry about them not coming for your bags. They never have for any I’ve put out. Have a good day.
Toni (()) I hope you don’t have to wait too long for the man to come. Brenda came yesterday she thinks she might have Sadie’s blood test results today. Have a good day. Charlie has an appointment at the Doctors at 8-30 treacle had an appointment at the vets so that’s been changed till tomorrow. We have rain on the weekend
Reshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())
Jojo (()) I’m sorry you are in so much pain. Can’t you have something to help.
Stuart (()) have a good day both of you how is your mum (())
Skinny Keef (()) I’m sorry you have a migraine. You must feel so proud of Sucr’e (()) in is uniform. Love to Loanda (())
take care
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Hi all 👋
Sorry about your day of watery things frog 😣 leaks washers and probably rain, oh cripes. Hope the washer person (woman 🤔 unlikely, I call, though there are all female firms of decorators etc these days & jolly good too) has been & gone successfully 🤞. Will you ever be doing anything else about the roof or is it one of those doomed to just come round again faults 😕. Yes it will be charity for the jigsaw, life is much too short (I would have found it time not totally wasted once I imagine), it has its marching orders. I will be taking some stuff to charity tomorrow but my pick up collection bag yesterday with heavier stuff didn't show, as I told Joan, can't be helped but annoying. Hope the weather holds for you for Sunday, it is drizzly here it says, but then again it says 97% chance of heavy rain here literally this minute and there's nothing 🤷♀️. Not the alarm thing again, they have got it in for you & Penelope 😮🙄 hope it's a good day, it sounds lovely, what a setting 😍 will you be going round the maze? Wouldn't Elfie love that! so would I 🌳🌳🌳. Have a good rest of day, love to all 😘 xx oh tea & a bourbon with your name on for tomorrow 👍️ xx
Hello Joan, thank you about my eye 👍️. Well done getting your washing in like that! There isn't the sun around now to dry it in a trice, is there, so nice when you have barely pegged it out before it's ready to come in again. I don't like using the washer dryer really. Hope Charlie will get on ok, typical for the appointments to clash like that 🙄 shame we can't all go to one all-purpose place, I have known vets who have spoken to me more kindly and politely than some doctors 😉. All the best for Brenda's Sadie too 🤞. I will drop a few things off at the charity tomorrow the rest will have to wait, we used to have clothing banks outside local shops but they all went too 🤷♀️.
Hi bosh, yes there were a few of our posts close together there, the usual sort of hand-over-hand cafe square dance getting the sequence right 🤭 sorry if confusing. Thanks for answering bits & pieces of mine 👍️ I will bear your umbrella brand in mind thanks. Not a thing I use that much because rain has much the same effect on me as on the Wicked Witch of the West as you know 😂 but, you still want a good reliable one, definitely. Great 'whodunit' poem 😁 I love all the details and so many different little items - 'there's everything in there but the kitchen sink' 😄 - and my tummy is packed to the rafters is very funny. Hope your day is going ok so far - sorry to hear you think your escalator thing has a balance side to it, what are you like with heights in general? I'm not good at all 😔 or with a lot moving things I suppose. Glad your back feels a bit better is has been so damp for sure. Have a good day & take care :) xx
Hi Jojo, glad you find that cream seems good and is helping your feet. Fibromyalgia was just a thought I'm not an expert of course but the flu-ey symptoms means it's worth ruling out maybe. We are all sorting stuff for charity then 😬 are you good at parting with things? Hope your day goes as well as poss, take care :) xx
I was up much the same time as you Stuart but was too tired to come in here, it's always nice when I do to find someone has put the kettle on for company but would rather no-one was awake of course. Hope your day is going ok 🤞 xx
Hope things as well as poss with you SK 👋 and with Sucré, is there any after school type stuff involved with the new place or is it soon to have got into that sort of thing? Have a good afternoon 🤞 xx
Tea for anyone passing ☕️ xx
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Afternoon everyone Im not very well at all I think I've had a type of seizure my mind went blank and my right hand was shaking. I hope everyone else is well.
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