Gulp ....my operation date is 27 September

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  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning my lovely, slightly shorter canes today as I might be on the mend. I am still thinking of you and I hope you have a lovely week-end (or as lovely as can be managed given the circs). DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Nothing to add really, Elna. Just a few more wishes and hopes and a few of skezier's calming draughts.
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Elna
    Im still thinking about you, and I read mermaids post, how good to be able to talk to someone that has gone through the same, Im so glad she posted for you.
    Take care
    Love
    Barbara
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Elna I am just adding my good wishes too

    Hope you can enjoy the weekend,

    Thinking about you
    Love Juliepf x
  • Starburst
    Starburst Member Posts: 2,546
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good afternoon Elna,

    Just wanted to add my best wishes. I will be thinking of you on the day of you op with all fingers and toes crossed.

    Hope the weekend is being kind to you. x
  • vonski
    vonski Member Posts: 1,292
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Elna,
    Hope you are managing to get some sleep and relax a bit. I am thinking of you and sending more gentle hugs.
    Love
    Vonski xx (((((())))))
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I remember so well those few fraught days before surgery and know exactly what you're facing.

    Thinking of you Elna.

    Can I help with your packing?

    Luv
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    chris7 wrote:
    Hi Elna

    Just leaving some more best wishes and anti wobble juice and hoping you have a goodish weekend. Not sure if Ange can get on line at the moment but she has asked me to send her sincerest best wishes too. Hope you enjoy your time with Lola.
    take care and good luck
    hugs always ((( ))))
    Chris xx

    Aw, thank you dear Chris and for Ange's good wishes too. She did say it may well be difficult for her this week. Yes, thank you I had a good day with Lola - playing! Well, yesterday, looking at the time :roll: :lol: - she will be here in a few hours time whilst her daddy plays football as her mummy is going swimming!

    I do hope you are ok and are not working this weekend.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    skezier wrote:
    Hi Elna,

    Topping up Chris's anti-wobble draft with an energy bucket and 2 stamina ones and fortitude ones.

    Sometimes it feels like a long wait but ti will all go well and you will be fine. Glad Ian will let us know cus we worry as you know. leaving love and a ((((( ))))) and a cuppa for the morning. Cris xx

    Thank you dear Cris, when you have so much going on with yourself. I have been too busy playing and reading childrens books today to think about much else!

    I do hope you are feeling sort of ok,

    Leaving you with gentle hugs and lots of stamina,

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    dreamdaisy wrote:
    Morning my lovely, slightly shorter canes today as I might be on the mend. I am still thinking of you and I hope you have a lovely week-end (or as lovely as can be managed given the circs). DD

    Dear DD,

    Am I pleased to hear that you are typing with slightly shorter canes today, so you must be making progress. :grin: Those antibiotics are working then? So far my weekend has been busy thank you, so no time to think about hospitals and ops and will be busy in a few hours time again when Lola comes stomping through the door, as if she owns the place but I love it! You take special care now, :smile:

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear SW and Barbara

    It is good to know that you are thinking of me and thank you for the calming draughts. It was good to hear from mermaid and reassuring to know I have someone to ask any questions.

    I hope you are both ok,

    Love and hugs
    Elna xx
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Julie and Starburst,

    Thank you both so much for your good wishes. :smile: I hope you are ok, Starburst, I know Julie has feels better now that she too has a date for her operation.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Vonski and Linda

    Thank you for both being there for me and yes, you may help me with my packing, Linda but I shall only start that on Monday evening.

    Oh dear, look at the time, just gone 1.30 am - I must get to bed now as Lola will be marching through the door in a few hours. :wink::smile: I think I shall need some rest in the hospital after this weekend! :smile:

    You look after yourselves,

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • daylily
    daylily Member Posts: 619
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Elna, sounds like much needed operation though I am not sure what is involved.
    Good luck for the 27th and rest and take care when you get back home
    xxxx
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Daylily, yes it is much needed operation unfortunately. :sad: Thank you for the good luck :grin: and I shall let you all know more after the operation is done and dusted.

    I hope you are ok and have a pleasant day today. It looks as if it may be a bright day here. I hope it will be where you are too.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello Elna, I guess you are fully occupied with Lola at the moment, and hopefully having some fun too. Are you absolutely doing some colouring now? I hope so, I love colouring in! :smile: At the risk of being boring . . . . I am still thinking of you. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • cebeem
    cebeem Bots Posts: 472
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good Luck Elna
    My very best wishes to you.
    You will be in my thoughts and prayers on Tuesday.
    c..x
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear DD, I hope you are now fully recovered after the ending to your evening. Tony came to your rescue, what a good job you had his number. :smile: Just going to clear up now she has gone but thought I would have a sit down and look at what has been going on, on the forum. We did not do colouring but lots of books were read and then she had a mad half an hour of charging all over the place :grin:ending up in our bed with lots of soft toys and all of them were poorly so Dr Elna came to the rescue. :roll: :grin:

    I do not know where she puts all she eats, first of all toast with peanut butter on but she had already had cereal at home, another hour passed and a banana was consumed, lunchtime one sausage roll, quite large, and then scrambled egg, (I know she likes both of them) finished off with apple crumble without icecream! Mind you, she does not stay still for too long.

    Eek not long now until the op, but needs must.

    I hope you are feeling better than you did a couple of days ago.

    Hugs
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Cebeem, thank you for your good wishes and that I shall be in your thoughts and prayers on Tuesday. I am nervous, especially as the surgeon will be working so close to my spinal cord but I must go forward in good faith that all will be well.

    I hope you are getting along ok and again thank you so much for replying.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • ironic
    ironic Member Posts: 2,361
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Elna,

    Well I hope you are enjoying your day with Lola and maybe even managed to call in at the Archers this morning. :grin:

    I just wanted to wish you well for Tuesday and to say I will be thinking of you. I know you will be feeling very understandably nervous Elna, but we are all sending you some very positive vibes which you can unpack a use throughout this very stressful time.

    Lots of gentle hugs,

    Lv, I x
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Ironic, :smile:

    I was not able to listen to the Archers this morning but the only one that I missed totally last week was on the Monday evening and neither caught a listen on the Tuesday at 14.00 as I was at my uncle's funeral but I shall be listening tonight at 19.00 hours. :grin: Thank you so much for your good wishes and I shall most definitely be packing as many positive vibes in my bag as possible. Two more sleeps and I shall "be done". Thank you for being there for me. I hope you are having a good-ish day.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Elna, just to remind you to gen Ian up with your password etc (if you've not already done it :oops: ) so we know how you're doing. I, for one, will be watching the forum avidly for news of your progress. If we don't hear I shall be worried.

    Luv
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • elnafinn
    elnafinn Member Posts: 7,412
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just to make doubly sure, Linda, Ian will be able to get in touch with Vonski and I shall also give him my password to the forum. So he will have absolutely no excuse for not getting news to you, one way or another about how it all is going.

    Thank you so much Linda and I hope your weekend has gone well.

    Love
    Elna x
    The happiest people don't have the best of everything. They just make the best of everything.

    If you can lay down at night knowing in your heart that you made someone's day just a little bit better, you know you had a good day.
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    just wanted to wish you the very best of luck mi dear :grin:
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  • magenta
    magenta Member Posts: 1,604
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Elna,

    I wish you well for Tuesday and I'm positive that everything will go smoothly. I'll be thinking of you.

    Take care,

    Magenta x