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  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    "nobody puts baby in the corner"!!! :lol:

    it must be hard to deal with some times bubbles, like trish you come across as a strong person ,i guess you both have to be eh :wink:

    For sure, although I don't feel stong sometimes, like the last MRI when they had to scoop me out in a total heap after 30 seconds. Rheummy said we won't be doing another MRI, because they would not consider me for surgery anyway.

    It is frustrating, very, thinking what you did when in your heyday, ward manager, going at 100 miles an hour all day long. I forget it for most of the time, but occasionally I think, oh I wish I could go back and run a ward for a shift or two.

    Still, there are things now that give pleasure, listening to the birds and wildlife around us, pottering in the garden, doing what we want to do, within reason and arthur not nibbling. We live in a quiet wooded spot, with lovely neighbours who look our for us. OH is able and fit, but when we had a power cut the other week, they were round in no time, to see if we were ok. They get bits of shopping as they are always out and about and I dno't feel up to going.
    Simple things in life become very important now.
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Bubbles,

    Flower you have a beautiful place right there and sometimes a potter and an appreciation of the world in your sight and ears, here with black birds singing in the evening an swallows swooping about i the swoopy thing they do at late evening. Soon the hatch lings will be flying and well simple things are often the best thing for you inner self.

    The pregabalin is a good drug flower. The only side effects I have ever had is the euphoria (I don't mind that) and the hallucinations for a very short time (didn't like that at all :shock: but it was only when I took the 300 combined with the drip.... made an interesting week I have to say :wink: )

    Before they put me on them I was so bad I found walking rough let alone bending and that horrible grinding pain...I felt like bailing it was so hard and scary (before the forum came to m notice as well so I was 100% alone bar employers and they were under threat cus of my uselessness) well its now manageable and though I is slow I have been returned to my way of life for a bit longer :D

    You hang in there and don't forget we will all be in your pockets so big jackets and big pockets you will need :wink: ((((( ))))) and another cuppa. xx
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    skezier wrote:
    Hi Bubbles,

    Flower you have a beautiful place right there and sometimes a potter and an appreciation of the world in your sight and ears, here with black birds singing in the evening an swallows swooping about i the swoopy thing they do at late evening. Soon the hatch lings will be flying and well simple things are often the best thing for you inner self.

    The pregabalin is a good drug flower. The only side effects I have ever had is the euphoria (I don't mind that) and the hallucinations for a very short time (didn't like that at all :shock: but it was only when I took the 300 combined with the drip.... made an interesting week I have to say :wink: )

    Before they put me on them I was so bad I found walking rough let alone bending and that horrible grinding pain...I felt like bailing it was so hard and scary (before the forum came to m notice as well so I was 100% alone bar employers and they were under threat cus of my uselessness) well its now manageable and though I is slow I have been returned to my way of life for a bit longer :D

    You hang in there and don't forget we will all be in your pockets so big jackets and big pockets you will need :wink: ((((( ))))) and another cuppa. xx
    I don't mind euphoria either.

    I will take my biggest bag, with extra side pockets. I thought I might get the pregabalin today, but no, have to wait a week or two to see if the 100% increase in Amitryp helps with the neuropathy. Honestly I doubt that it will, but will give it a go.

    another cuppa, yes, it is that time of night, cuppa time. Had all my pills, so eyes are a wee bit squiffy. Off to put the kettle on. Trish, have to been lurking today, hugs to you hun, still missing you.

    I think I should call it a night and go sit comfy for a while, eat maltesers, then go to bed. i am jaded and need to rest up. Everyone take lots of care, sending bubbly hugs to one and all n015.gif Lots of Love
    Bubbles XXXX
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    totaly agree with cris, i often stand at the back door looking out on the spinny,listening to the bird song and often seeing squirrals in the trees, i can forget i live in a town when im out there :wink:

    We are close to a nice little town, but you would think we are in the middle of nowhere, so quiet, so little traffic, just lovely and we are so glad to have moved to a residential park. Birds wll be singing again soon.!!

    XXX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Bubbles,

    I don't know about the ampi thing as they have said about me being on it but as yet I have been sort of ok as i am now...... mind I need my neck jabbed for sure.

    You have a good night and I will rearrange your side pocket with settees and chairs :wink: I so hope you get a good night. (((( )))) xx

    hi Jan,

    If I learned nuffing in this world I have learned dream chasing can sometimes pay off. You go for it when its right for you both to do it and a ((( ))) and a hope your knees are settling down and stop their burn soon. xx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jan,

    Oh flower its a horrible drug that one..... made me feel sick, I am sorry its all so bad for you tonight but hold to the fact its a burn and it will stop.... and get some more xrays and some help flower! I hate thinking of people in pain... I do understand that one but it will pass and that's what helps to remember.... i hope.

    Sending you a (((((( ))))) and so much hope you get some sleep. xxx

    me I's off to watch Spike :wink: You all take care and I so hope Trish you see the (((( )))))'s you got waiting for you.

    Sleep well all. xx
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jan are you still there?
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    right good morning all sorry you are having a rough time jan. chris hope you got some sleep. bubbles and julie hope you all have a great day
    annlie and trisher take care have good day
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    breakfast ready off to work soon then home to sleep as out tonight sat with feet in cold water lol hoping they last for today can sit with them up tomorrow mind you at rhummy tuesday so not to bad if do not go down lol
    val
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,105
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good Morning All

    I see some rough nights again :(

    Poor old you lot :(

    No sign of Trisher again? As you say maybe she did look in at least :D

    Cris

    got the hugs thanks

    and Val :D

    Hi :D

    The place is looking GOOD!!!!

    hoping we'll be getting some lovely cooked breakkies this morning again :D

    LOve

    toni xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    well left some in the warmer got to get ready for work but enjoy val
    val
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,105
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Chhers Val

    Chomp chomp.....

    this is nice......

    chomp chomp......

    tea too :D guzzle guzzle :D

    That's me done...

    Catch you all later

    Love

    Greedy-Toni xx
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm ravenous this morning, so have come in for a full English........yummmmmmy. Washed down with a bucket of builders 'cos I is classy..............

    Off into town again this morning and going to an Antiques Fair tomorrow, wonder if they will do a part exchange on hubby? I can only ask!

    Annie
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all, hope you all managed a reasonable night.
    I ll have a morning cuppa and bowl of cornflakes please.

    Another day looms but not sure whether it will be another hot one.Rain is supposed to be on its way. Ill be standing out in it to cool down thats for sure.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all well its hot and sunny again so I'm staying indoors next to my fan :roll: Val thanks for the full English :D very nice. Not seen Ange for a couple of days, hope you are okay sending you a ((((hug)))) Trish if you're looking in I do hope you are feeling better sending you a ((((hug)))).

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Mornin All,

    Just going to grab some buckets of energy and a huge builders please...... I have left eggs and cream in the fridge and its proper cream.. with a big yellow crust on the top :D

    Hope you all have a decent day. x

    Hi Brenda,

    Sorry i missed you to but leaving a ((( ))) for you that will shoot to you next time your in.Cris xx

    Hi Val,

    Hope work goes well and I wonder if the cooling gel shoe things could help? I am sure they were designed for it but they may have just been gel liners I used to stick in the fridge and put in my boots...... Sorry I have become some what vague eh? Hope work goes well and again make sure you got big pockets for Tuesday :wink: xx

    Hi Julie,

    Hope you are dressed in your oldest clothes for the rest of the sheep? A ((((( ))))) nd a hope your ok today?xx

    Hi Toni,

    Glad you got them they are finely trained for getting to the right person :wink: xxx

    Hi Jan,

    I am sorry your still hurting. Would strapping them up help do you think? I use that as a last resort but it does help but I am so lucky cus I got a pain management thing that seems to work well for me so .... Ask to see the pain clinic maybe? A ((((( ))))) and so much hope it soon burns out. xx

    Leaving a bucket of hugs by the door..... they can escape for people walking by as well :wink:
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jan,

    I see what you mean (Brenda the hugs will rush over to you next time your in :lol::lol: x)

    I tell you my bones play up a 'bit' and I do find supporting them does shut them up a bit. I use double or triple tubigrips for my knees and doubled over for my wrists....... Jan I just wish they made it big enough to put round my back....... I have actually used a horse bandage but even that's not long enough..... note to self lose weight! :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:

    I hope it helps you and I think there is something I should be doing... side glance at the clippers..... xxx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jan

    Has anyone mentioned joint replacements to you yet. Not trying to frighten you but you sound in a very bad way.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Jan, Elizabeth, Cris.....

    I hate to tell you this, but it was beautiful on the beach this morning ..........thought of you all and decided I was lucky. I would have paddled my poor feet in the sea, but the tide was out :(
    Bought a crab, so crab salad for lunch tomorrow and probably Monday as well.

    Jan, you really do sound in a bad way with your knees........I've got some knee supports but only use them if I am desperate as my feet don't like them and swell up.

    Have taken French leave from the gardening as I am sooooo hot - needed a builders so have popped in and will now do my famous leap over the counter to the urn. I bought a new bucket this morning, see?.......it's got seashells all over it!

    Annie
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Everyone
    I am back from hols with the grandchildren butlins would you believe....last time I went 2 years ago I could join them on the fair and go swimming but not this time the old bone wouldn't let me....but the kids had a brilliant time...so that makes up for everything...I hired a mobility scooter so that made there day...getting a lift on the back :lol::lol: think I will see if there's any cold lemonade in the fridge anyone want any :)
    Love
    Barbara
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yep, Jan you defo should talk to the doctor about the knees. Do they creak, groan and click? Mine are noisy as hell when I'm attempting stairs or hills and they are certainly worse in the cold weather. On the other hand, they're not that good now, either!

    It's got very heavy here and the sun has gone hazy. Got a headache now, will wait till the sun's off the garden before I go out to finish up.

    Annie
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    oh yes annie i can almost play a tune the are so noisy! :lol:

    barbara welcome home chick,glad you had a good week, how did you manage in there beds :shock:
    took my feather topper with me and my pillows :)
    Love
    Barbara
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    evening all, Jan I hope you are resting and have your feet up :wink: Cris hope you managed to finish cutting the sheepsies
    Barbara glad to hear you had a lovely holiday.
    Annie sorry you couldn't go for a paddle, did you make any sand castles :?:

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hey Jan I feel a better today, still flaring but doped up with pain meds :roll: hope you have a lovely evening.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    pixi some one will just wait and along they will come think if you look in cupboard there an icecream maker lol
    val
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi All,

    Just popped in for a builders and some energy and then.... then... come on Julie get your old clothes on and salon duties will follow :wink:

    Lovely to see you Barbara and a ((( ))) for you as well. Gad you enjoyed it and hope you feel a bit rested now. xx

    Hi Jan,

    You MUST get your knees at least xrayed! Promise me you will and if the gp wont... go to minor injuries and get in through the back door..... it does sound as if you re having a burn there and if they are bad enough help is there for you. You go see your gp asap! Hell I's getting assertive :shock: I hope you get a better night. ((( ))) xx

    Hi Annie,

    That's a good way to spend a day, except for the crab bit :wink: Would you like anther builders and promise I know I owes you n answer and will do it soon,, promise. ((( ))) xx

    Right come on Julie...... between us we can do this (((( )))) xx

    I shall be late again tonight.... makes a change eh?

    Leaving a builders and a (((( )))) for Wonky, Bubbles and Ange.

    You all take care Cris xx
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