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Here we go. The sun was out all afternoon yesterday and hopefully that's it the weather turning warmer😊
Morning Joan I was so lucky that my actual dentist was the one doing on call on Saturday I think. We had a lovely afternoon at the musical event. We just sat in the sun(!) and ate our sandwiches listening to music and chatting to the friends from the village we went with. Hope you and Sue are well? ((())) xxx
Morning Keef
Like the 'skellington' mug! I am sure that's the correct spelling for skeleton??
Those eyeballs are actually ice cubes?! Brilliant such fun☺️
You were quite right to stay in. Those aches aren't helped by travel sometimes. If we are off somewhere I try to be as comfortable as possible. Take anti-inflams and painkillers and my click heat helps too. I even pack my tens if I am not the driver. I also have a wedge cushion which can help with my back.
There was active talk in the village yesterday of putting the heating on, lighting the fire etc, but then what a lovely afternoon!
Hope your day is a good one.
Morning Reshmi
How are you today? I hope feeling ok and your Mum too.
Hope HV is not too bad today and you are both coping ok with and extremely moody Dad🙄
I'm glad too hear the Excess family are all having a good time in Portugal. There'd better be no swimming in bacon! Oh dear me LA we can't hit carers. I'm sure it was Lorenzo's idea, but still.....
Kids eh? My Mum would have said "If Lorenzo told you to jump off a cliff would you?"
I don't think it will be too hot today Bosh will be fine. Just not raining. Better make the most of it because if the rumours are true about some hot weather it could be too much soon😣
Some great mats for Toady, but I suggest she puts barbed wire and maybe considers a moat to stop them even getting as close as the front door🤭
Have the best day you can ((()))
Morning Toady I hope you slept ok last night.
You got outside. So did i but at the outdoor musical event. Have you heard of it? 'beyond the Barricade'??https://www.beyondthebarricade.com/
It was good to be in the sun eating food and chatting to friends as well as enjoying a 'turn'. Easy afternoon. I did take an anti-inflam prior to going and was quite comfortable. Got our vitamin D too😊 No need for rugs at all even the wind had dropped!
Part of me was however thinking.....my garden needs me!
Poor Mrs B I hope her new feathers come through quickly she doesn't need that discomfort for too long. 🐦
Well done sorting the paper scraps and presumably stappling them together in a nice tidy pile. I will ask you about them in a year's time.
You have no direct descendants but there might be your own excess family to leave photos to? I don't have much faith in 'the cloud' after videos and floppy discs, DVDs etc become more and more obsolete. Photos that's it. Not much else matters of course back them up too if you can.
Hoping for a good day today for us all.
A quick Hi to Julie if you call in! 😊
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Good morning everyone
Kitty (()) I hope you are not too bad (()) have a good day. Love to Anita (()) and Val (()) and Emily (()) and your Dad (())
Toady (()) Do birds go by the weather when their coat changes. Have a good day (()) good luck with your parcel.
Barbara (()) love to you and Mr B (()) and your son (()) and Niamh (()) and your brother’s girlfriend (()) and your niece (()) and her fiancé (())
Toni (()) (()) That was good it was dry for the musical event ()) it’s nice to have a chat and a catch up. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) have a good day and your mum (())
Keef (()) love to you and Loanda (()) and your son (())
Julie (()) love to you and your family (())
take care
joan xx0 -
Hi Toni toady Joan Keef Julie
good morning
wppl xx
ps if bill were in charge of cake - buying lol xx
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Hi Toni toady Keef Joan and Julie
hope everybody is more or less ok?
Toni I know I will not be swimming in bacon at any rate, can’t even stand the smell of it lol
i walked but not too much as trying not to eat rubbish due to stomach
mum is ok thanks
but HV is very much present
in toady - style I like to hide under my sunhat sometimes lol,
and pretend I’m walking about in solitude
LA said mum has rough eyes and blind eyes! Oh dear - lucky he didn’t pass the S****avers interview then
I’m eating a bit too much sugar to be honest, but it’s difficult to deal with stress, and no one’s perfect, but my mum is still conflicting with dad all the time, so I’m keeping that fact to myself at the moment.
Hi toady
i heard a bit of that song, thanks that was interesting
Hi Keef
that was a funny sign
how are things going today?
Hi Joan
how are you both doing today?
mum and I aren’t too bad thanks
i hope you have a great afternoon
hi Julie
How is your pain today?
it’s good that you get on very well with your family members
I don’t always
sorry for the short compound post
will try to write properly later
bye for now everyone tc xx
ps when even the charger contains saturated fats lol xx
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Hi all 👋
Was running late from the start today and have to pack a couple of nosegay items now (why can't buyers space themselves out 🤔) so it may be shortish. I say 'pack 2 parcels' like it's a day's work, it just seems to fill the space available like Parkinson's Law. How do people pack 10s & 20s of things 😮. Really is a very nice day frog 😊 glad you had a good evening yesterday. I slept ok too thanks :) no midnight tea. The dreadful scrap papers pile will be going in the shredder never to return, hurrah, having picked all through 'em to check I really don't need a number or note or something from god knows how long ago. I wish my telephone notes from talking to people didn't say things like 'ducks.. cousin.. pituitary gland.. dual carriageway.. Stanley Spencer (Cookham)..' but unfortunately they do 😂. Anyway what's left has been transcribed to a proper phone book or into one little folder, so no stapling 😀. Any luck getting in the garden today? How is the passionflower doing? Yes I agree with you about cloud storage, I don't keep anything there. Most of my photos are physical so if I wanted to back them up I'd have to get them copied/scanned & whatnot first. Some EF might want some things I suppose but there's really no-one on Mum's side, so that's the tricky bit. Ideally I want a Tardis sized boxroom, only accessible to me, and that seals itself up when I'm 'gone'. Achievable, surely 😄. Have a good Tuesday all of you :) xx
Hello Joan (and Sue) 😊 yes the blackbirds lose their feathers when it's warm enough for them to replace them, a bit at a time over a few weeks; August is peak time. I don't know if they vary that according to the weather, you'd think so - the internet says 'it's a mix of hormonal changes brought about by seasonal changes, also that many questions remain regarding the process'. Thanks about the parcel, it has to get to the US before I know if they're happy with it🤞2 little ones to do today but they're this country thankfully. Hope you've had some nice sun, have a good evening :) xx
Hi bosh, are you sure you don't want to pack some parcels, I'm halfway through 2 more and could do with some temporary help 😄. That's a very good quote indeed you posted yesterday, some cogs just don't go round nicely do they, even with a trade-sized tin of WD40. Hope you get time for another few seconds' reading soon 😊. Glad you gave the song ago though I thought afterwards it's not the cheeriest is it, don't wish to spread pessimistic RR type vibes, sorry if it was a bit gloomy. Let's have a burst of something cheerful in the cafe perhaps keef will put something on or play us a good 'choon' 😄. Hope weather not too awful for you today, see you next visit 👍️ ) xx
Good sign keef 😄 mind you they say building a snowman like it's easy, let them try it with arthritic hands and knees, that's a whole difficulty rating in itself haha. Hope everyone doing ok today :) xx
Love to all 😘 xx
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Hey everyone i did try and post one of my own tunes but it won’t recognise the type of file 🙄
another pain filled day unfortunately. I did manage a bit of time in the bunker. I really don’t know how I managed to do a 3 hour gig. Bruce Springsteen still does it, 3 hours without a break, when Loanda saw him in Madrid they had to turn the stage lights off and the house lights on to get him to stop lol
def spelt skellington Toni.
early night for me. This pain filled day can ‘go away’ !
oh found another guitar i like more than the purple one. Speaking to seller tomorrow but might involve a guitar safari to Warwick, so Loanda excited as she wants to see the city and castle and………. Well u get the idea.
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Hi toady
sorry about the difficult nosegay people
mum isn’t too bad thanks
my stomach isn’t too happy still, but tends to be playing up at night, daytime is ok, bit of a vampire tummy syndrome lol
just heard a tiny bit of song sorry was tired
ok too much time online and completely out of eye drops so I’ll stop for now
have a good night toady and everyone tc xx
ps look what bill has done- he’s eaten his wife’s chocs and replaced them with baked beans - foolproof plan apparently 😂xx
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Tired all day, then pain keeps me awake at night. ☹️
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MMS
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Morning!
I think we are due rain again! Ah well it is the summer holidays for the kids what did I expect?
Morning Joan yes we were lucky with the weather. Have you got a date for your results yet? Paul says he is sick of chasing his tilt test. Oh dear me 😕 He isn't used to having appts like us lot. Hope your day is a good one ((())) xxx
Morning Keef
Nope not skiing anyway far to scared 😁
Now that mug I really like!
I would have loved to have heard your music. Maybe you could as our adminny person @PeterJ he might (might not but worth a try) have an idea.
Typical isn't it pain all night - yes I saw what time you were up this morning 😕- and then you are exhausted all day.
I hope the prospect of a new guitar has cheered you up a bit? Warwick is lovely indeed it is. My outlaws all hail from that general direction as does Paul (obviously Toni!)I will watch this space...
Go Brucey S! How old is he now?
Morning Reshmi How are you today? Hope your day is a little better today ((())) Well done managing a short walk. Better than nothing. Oh and if you need something sweet while HV is going on go right ahead.
The weather looks good in-betweeny not too hot some sun some showers.
I see. Your Mum isn't letting it go with your Dad so was maybe making things worse? Keep your head firmly down like you are that's for the best I agree.
Your poor sister look what's happened to her chocolates😣 BIL is a naughty boy he usually has most of them anyway!
Honestly I can't even charge my phone it's not vegan anymore!!!
So LA is going to be an Ophthalmologist too?? Is there no end to his talents?
Hope your day is better today ((()))
Morning Toady
How are you? Yesterday was lovely wasn't it? and doesn't it pick you up? I even managed a little time in the garden along with housework - just enough to keep things respectable you understand....Toady I am back to the Death Clean.
Well done sleeping through😊
Well I have no idea how the hardened Nosegayers manage so many parcels. I have got a bit to pop on when I finish the death clean so possibly early 2025?
Kari is going to hand over the Etsy shop to her DIL maybe. She will still make everything to sell, but she's just not coping with it all.
Your telephone notes are indeed very very interesting🤣 well done getting it sorted into a proper book. Would you like an updated pic of the passionflower - a before and after If I can find 'before'?
I think with the SDK (swedish death clean) you do keep a box of stuff just for you with a note (strict instructions, but who do I trust??) to destroy upon the event of your demise. Only problem is if I remember it's meant to be shoebox sized....🤔
Hope your day is good.
Sleek is on her way for some reason with some jammie dodgers in her back-pack so get the kettle on!
Ps If you pop in Julie I hope all is well with you ((()))
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I could really go that plate of pancakes right now but i am definitely fighting the fat these days as i am unable to exercise much.
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Hi Toni toady Joan Keef
Bill is bathing with his food now 😂 xx
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@frogmorton @Keef you could try uploading a file (paperclip symbol) of a snippet of music
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Good morning everyone
Kitty (()) Love to you and your carers (()) and Anita (()) and Val (()) and Emily (()) and your Dad (())
Toady (()) good luck with your parcels 📦 It’s clever birds go by the weather. Have a good day (())
Barbara (()) love to you and Mr B (()) and your son (()) and Niamh (()) and your brothers girlfriend (()) and your niece (()) and her fiancé (())
Toni (()) I’m sorry Paul has not got his appointment yet. I haven’t got my results yet I phoned the surgeon is held up on operations. Yes its upsetting for Kari (()) love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) Have a good day love to your mum (()) take care.
Keef (()) I’m sorry you have bad night’s (()) good luck with the new guitar (()) love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (())
Julie (()) love to you and your family (())
take care
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Well I’ve only gone and put a deposit down on that geeetar. 🤫
crikey only knows how I’m gonna stick going all the way to Warwick to pick it up, and the slight problem that I can’t actually afford it lol, but I have adopted a new attitude lately that I’m living for today coz tomorrow I might be in even more pain and won’t be able to do anything.
its an investment anyway as value is only gonna go up. Thats what I’m telling myself anyway 🤪
pics to follow when I have it.
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Hi Toni
how are you?
mum is ok thanks Health wise, but the arguments with dad are pretty bad tbh
this morning I had a lot of stiffness on right side while walking, not constant pain, but quite a lot of it, but luckily I think it was just sleep position, as it’s almost gone now thanks👍
EF are returning to this green and pleasant land on Thursday lol
yes LA has become far too clever for his own good 😂
Thanks for the sugary food advice - I agree - no one is perfect and sometimes we just have to do what we have to do to keep going 👍👍
Yes I keep my head down as much as poss thanks - I’m even eating breakfast upstairs sometimes.
As for my stomach- well nighttime will be the best time for me to assess how it is I’m really hoping that stomach and right side / foot are “normal” enough for me to go to group tomorrow
Yes non - vegan chargers, whatever next? I think you can rule me out of buttery charging too, lol, I don’t want to develop a bill - like tendency of consuming my own body - weight in sat fats.
I hope you have a good day too, bye take care. xx
ps I hope bill hasn’t made this appetising cake lol xx
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Hi toady
how are you today?
if I packed your parcels you would be banned from nosegay lol
had much more stiffness than normal this morning but seems to be almost gone now👍
I’m going to quickly shower before the cybermen re - possess the tardis lol, it’s a good job you’re making millions on nosegay otherwise I’d be begging for a temp roof over my head in MH - or I could become a squatter there - LA said I can sleep in tent in lounge - I may need liposuction first 😂
ok bye for now toady tc xx
Ps another odd sign lol
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Hi all 👋
Thought I might get a decent walk in today but it's drizzly & dull so I've reverted to indoor chores. Shame after such a nice day yesterday but some decent weather to come touch wood. Yes pics of the passionflower please frog, definitely 😊. Lovely to see Sleek today it was a surprise and we came to a very amicable arrangement with the Jammie Dodgers 😄. Then she helped me sort out some things for charity by helpfully telling me which clothes to part with that don't suit me 😂. That's because I got a charity bag through the letterbox this morning, for all sorts, often it is just ones that want only clothes I get so my eyes light up when I see bric a brac on the list 👍️. Shoebox of personal effects, well that's not going to happen 😄 even a very tall pair of boots' box. And yes who can be trusted with the destroy/do not open instruction 🤨. When you think of the pains academics go to, deciphering coded diaries that authors etc have left, presumably anti their express wish, then what hope for a bit of respect for the rest of us. I got all my parcels done but yesterday's has not progressed past the 'picked up' stage on the tracking, please don't let me have another RM issue 😱 I can quite see how Kari might be glad to hand over some admin etc, that side is the most potentially aggravating, hope it works out well for her (if she does do some delegating). I meant to say yesterday, no I hadn't come across 'BtB', they seem to be excellent at what they do, v professional/respected &c you'd think I would have heard of something that's been going that long worldwide 🤔 just hasn't crossed my radar. I'm popping in & out of nosegay on the spending side today, in order to enter a prize draw for 'hector points' 🐝 - not spotted anything in keef's league so far but who knows, the day is young 😂. Have a good rest of day :) xx
Hello joan, all quiet with me today after yesterday's packing, just hope the parcels get off to a good start, one doesn't seem to have travelled far 🙄. I was going to walk to the tinfoil & plastic bag recycling nearest banks today but it's a bit horrible, maybe tomorrow. I wish they would pick up tinfoil, I think you said you have a few different recycling bins, do they take foil from you? All birdies fine but quiet, not nice enough for them either today. And they keep a low profile while their feathers are a bit tatty (don't we all 😄). Sorry your test results are slow. Love to both and the dear dogs :) xx
Hi bosh, have you been out under your sunhat today or is sun not quite the word for it today. Hope your eyes are bothering you less anyway. Yes what is it with vampire stomachs 🤔 always my worst bit too. Wonder what would happen if I kept night shift type hours. Still don't think I'd digest eggs waffles and biscuits (and heaven knows what time I'd have to have my gravy bath in the hot tub 🛁😄). I'm just as glad you only listened to a bit of song as it was a bit gloomy, I thought after it wasn't the best choice, I just remembered liking the line about the sheep counting. My night was not too bad but I had to get up for the 'stitching hour' milk delivery 🌘 and then not oversleep for the postman so it was a bit interrupted. Hope HV a bit quieter today, & hope Weds group is ok if you go🤞how are EF getting on? xx
Nice mug keef lots to look at. Yes, spend on what you want now is my attitude (says me having just parted with £4.40 😂). How are you getting to Warwick is it the car of doom 😱. Hope it all works out. Sorry you had a disturbed night I was making tea even earlier I could have chucked some in an insulated mug & left it handy for you. Hope everyone well :) x
Hi to @Jewels1973 sending good wishes for your telephone call with Dr. tomorrow (I think) and hope things are not too bad with you 🤞xx
Wave to anyone passing 😘 xx
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edit: sorry Julie it's Thurs you were going to speak to your Dr, my mistake. X
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Hi again toady
the stitching hour and the postman - oh dear
I hope you get more sleep tonight
Apparently Bill got in a big mood because LA forced him to put the Paw Patrol cartoons on his phone at lunchtime threatening him with a massive tantrum and a complete fast - at least until “ice cream hour” lol, well poor LA is just a littley after all, despite being a trainee ophthalmologist of course, lol and what would Bill really do with his phone at that time? No point phoning Kangaroo for a takeaway on holiday and he really doesn’t need to send me any more pics of prawns, just viewing the Las Vegas prawns online is already giving me indigestion- now that’s a new idea, Prawn Online Sore Stomach Syndrome, POSS for short, lol, a condition shared by Barack Obama, so when he said, “yes we can” he had actually flown to LV for his customary “shrimp with oatmeal breakfast” as they call it there, accompanied by our very own Bill no less, to discuss marital etiquette matters -should baked beans stay in the tin and all that, so “yes we can” is basically international political code for “can someone hand me the antacids please? “, ok that’s not strictly true haha.
oh yes a bit of a digression no doubt, but I badly needed a tangent lol
my eyes are a bit dry toady, thanks for asking I’ll definitely buy some form of eye drops tomorrow👍
the “all pharmacists are in cahoots” own brand eye drops aren’t too bad actually- also price isn’t extortionate 👍
ok bye for now toady good night tc xx
Ps Pic of Quebec xx
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Hey Toady, might be van rental as I might need to take my chair depending on what Loanda wants to do. I can walk about 10 metres before the pain is too bad now. If we go somewhere where she wants to look around I normally get to sit in the cafe and chill out looking on net and drinking coffee.
hi to all. Reshmi you haven’t posted your normal landscapes recently???
another wet day here Toni, but I did manage to get my new tyre before it chucked it down. Expensive but great workmanship, all the wheel fasteners and calliper bolts were marked with a dab of white bolt marker to show if they move and the red dot was lined up perfectly with the air valve. Last one i had done at tyre bay was 1/4 turn out and then he moaned it was difficult to balance. Dufus!
hey dashchund and Jewels.
who have i left out. ????
early nite for me. Popped 2 tram and got the blues show on R2 to fall asleep to hopefully.
dreaming of a white strat………
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Reshmi, i missed that pic, sorry. Nice 👍
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Brilliant digression bosh 😂 needs a re-read and proper reply tomorrow, also, I missed your previous - and I refreshed (twice), and yours was well before mine - gremlins 🤔. Have a good night yourself and I hope the stiffness doesn't repeat itself🤞I will have to go off myself now even though there are things I'd rather do. I don't have to get up early so hopefully will get better sleep or at least more of it, thanks 👍️.
Can't let all the talk of buttery-ness pass without posting this 😀 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IfeyUGZt8nk 🥧 If you've seen it already, or hate it, sorry 😄 someone that hasn't might get a smile out of it anyway I hope, still amuses me every time.
'night to keef too (having just spotted your post too late as well) hope it's a better one x
'night all 😘 xx
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