Advice kinda needed......

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  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi cris
    late today cause I have been for hairdo...all feathers now sparkling and trimmed ready for next saturday :lol:

    Sorry you had a bad night and that you haven't made the sale today. Like dd said please rest as much as possible an i will cross my fingers that you are able to manage it tomorrow.Hope them chickens have been good and laid more eggs today....be nice if there was a golden one there (oh no thats a goose isn't it, see me livin in a town unless it has a label on it i don't know what they are :lol: )

    I am glad your friend will be coming with you to your appointment....I can now unpack my bag and unload mob scooter was about to set off. would take me quite a while at 4mph :lol:

    It will be a comfort having someone there for you.

    Right gonna find the bbc channel and make a mask as dd suggested :lol:
    got mi glue ready .

    take care
    thinking of you
    love juliepf x
  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Cris

    Good to see your pal is coming to visit and will help with the bubble and cope you need to build up a bit there. A real hug wouldn't go amiss either. :grin:

    It has been a mad and busy week at Wonkas and I may well turn up to work tomorrow to find we are under new ownership again or worse closing down, :roll: but as usual I look in on here and feel very humbled by the spirit of those who are really having such a hard time. So no complaints from me today. We have had some real sunshine this week too. :grin:

    Hope you find some distraction from all this for a bit, be it the the pal visiting, the heavy base :lol: or a sheep cuddle. You will find a way to cope flower and we will do what we can to help. Hang in there.
    I will call in later.
    love and bestest fudge
    Chris xxx
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    This is becoming a habit!

    I just wanted to say that real courage is being afraid, but going on anyway. And don`t tell me that you have to, because, believe me, I see enough people who just give up, at the first hurdle. When there`s no song in your heart, sing anyway. You are one brave, special lady. Hugs to all, especially Lord Haz, and lovely Lill.

    Oh, by the way, did you get the milk?

    Much love always.......Ange.
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,155
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris.
    how are you feeling today. i'm pleased yor friend is coming
    try not to work to hard.
    ((((((((Cris)))))))) joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Cris, Trish has asked me to remind you about the Forteosip drinks, she says they are good for those with IBS etc and might help. She can't find her login, or would be here herself!

    She is not at all well and hasn't been for some time, not up to posting much just now but I think she might be keeping an eye on you in the future!

    Love and skips full of tea and whatever-you-need most from both of us.

    Annie
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Julie, Chris, Ange :grin: , Joan and Annie,

    many thank for the messages, they do help keep a lid on the panic and these dogs and their instamatics at bay... mind its hurting like hell so I am thinking well at least they could find out whats down there :lol: Lilly keeps holding me down to slurp the face and is quite insistent she has too.... bit of work to do with her still :wink:

    been nice to see my mate again. she was down last time I had bead fatigue... this time I got its big brother :lol::lol:

    heard from my sister..... I have decided that's enough till I know then if I need to I will ask her to tell the others......

    Its banging like hell again tonight, all down the sternum, the stomach and the ribs as well as the boobs. Not nice this and I do hope they will hurry up...... 7 days left.......then I kick off big time and this one I will! I ain't so good at it but they have ti get this done cus its getting really painful now and that might be a good sign eh?!

    Julie got us another 2 buckets...... :lol: Leaving you hugs for the morning and a hope the sun makes it back up there. xx

    Chris I so hope it will be ok tomorrow. Its a sign of the times that things are being sold off all over the place but with a bit of luck it will be ok for you and might even get nicer again?

    Ah now wonkas... our season is starting very soon now.... fudge and fairings by the ton eh?! :lol: Wonder if my stomach would take to a fearing.... :lol::lol: Leaving you hugs and some hope work goes ok buckets. xx

    Ange now that's a habit you should get back in to cus you have been so missed!

    hey i did get the milk but forgot to make your tea..... I hang my head here....

    Courage... oh i don;t feel like I got much but this pain is getting too much now so i will be better for having it done cus then they might know what to give me.... kinda thinking blue jabs eh?!! :lol::lol: Now might be good :lol::lol:

    leaving you hugs and a hope your doing ok? xxx

    Annie Trish has text me a few times today and I know I have worried her... you please make sure she doesn't cus she has enough to worry about. Not sure how we stop her but hope she knows this could be a few things, none too good but all curable.

    I hate the idea I worry anyone and I know i have and well i am just sorry.

    Right will get you a photo of rowan... promise... he is only down the road but I not going back till Monday s bare with me a bit. he is so woolly :roll: grot pony syndrome :lol::lol:

    You get your self better as well maid. ((((( ))))) xx
  • Poppyg1rl
    Poppyg1rl Member Posts: 1,245
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oh Cris,
    You sound like you are in so much pain, is there anyway you could chase things up a bit sooner? leaving you for another 7 days seems so unfair...
    You're always so caring and brave, wish I could do something to help, sending buckets of love and hugs, Glittergirl x
    'grá agus solas'
    'Love and Light' translated from Irish. X
  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris

    Hey that pain gets real bad love, do just get to casualty and make em do sommat for you. I hope you are getting some rest tonight and that it isn't too long a night. Keep that lid on the box if you can,I'm sure the nights can be a little more scary than they should be.

    Thought I would give you a laugh since I have only just realised the flippin clocks go forward tonight and guess who has to be up for work at 8? You got that lump hammer handy? :lol:

    Hang in there Cris, sending restful hugs and positive vibes your way.
    love and buckets of healings
    Chris xx xx
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris, I just caught up with this and my heart goes out to you. I can't add much to the advice already given, but reading over this reminds me just how loved you are by all who use this forum. You are the bravest and most courageous lady I know. I only wish that I could do something practical to help you, to make your load lighter but sadly I'm too far away for that, so I will send you lots of love and luck my friend, along with buckets of fortitude and a million healing hugs. How lovely to hear how Rowan and Primmy and co are doing too.xx I'm also sending you biggest bar of CDM that I can find. Stay strong my friend, I too am here for you, always ((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))) love and best wishes, Brenda xxxxx
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning Glitter Girl,

    Hope you got a good night, you were around late and well hopefully it wasn't cus you couldn't sleep?

    Promises you flower they only have 7 days and of that it will only be 4 before I start ringing :wink:

    Its a bit easier this morning so that's good eh? :grin: Leaving a hope for a good day and better weather than here.... (((( )))) and plenty of sparkles :lol: xx

    Hi Chris,

    I only realised just behind you about the hour.... hell isn't it hard... 5 felt so much like 4 this morning I went back to seep :lol: Consequently i had better hurry up :wink:

    Hope it goes well today and leaving a work quick over draft (((( )))) xx

    Hi Brenda,

    Its ok as long I don't think :lol: Hope you are ok and that you got some sleep i the might at some point?

    Oh they are looking better than I feared they would and Primmy and Rowan both remembered me :grin: Primmy is going to be bigger than Flo cus she almost is already....

    Will get some pics once they come back. Leaving you a sleep through the night draft for tonight. (((( )))) xx

    Right I am off to do a sale :roll:
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,027
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris

    Only ME!!!!

    Hope the sale is good - table height one at leat and the best o
    f the lot down there....

    Is lily going with you l wonder? l bet she is and she will attract more customers :wink:

    Thinking of you my lovely

    Hugs....tea....and....

    Toni xx :grin:
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good luck for today my lovely. I am thinking of you. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,155
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris
    i hope you feel better today you are a strong lady please take care and i hope the sale go's well.
    we are thinking about you and wish we could do more.
    take care. joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • bertyboy
    bertyboy Member Posts: 1,860
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning Matey so so sorry but i have been missing for a few days builders and dust and me don't mix well :roll:

    I don't know what to say about informing family other than give them basic info as and when it happens if that's all they can cope with , friends and helpers maybe need to know more , but be assured that if i lived closer i would direct Alan to be your slave and do the lifting and carrying as needed ,those four legged friends sound as if they have grown into fine specimens , will leave you hugs a bundle and a pack of tissues with a comforting arm round your shoulder , you will face nothing alone lots of your friends here will be right beside you xx
    I know i am a lady ,all life is a journey xx MAY xx
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi cris
    Glad to read you have managed to do your sale.

    I am sorry to read you had a really bad night with pain taking over all of your body. Would you beable to chase up the appointment?
    Just sending a hug ((((()))) and a bucket of courage.
    Love julie x
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hope you have some sun for your sale and sell lots of stuff good luck thinking of you val
    val
  • psyart
    psyart Member Posts: 600
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris ~ we both must be working hard on those bellows ~ what lovely weather we have had.

    Hope you did ok at the sales today :?: Hope it didnt take too much out of you :?:

    things are not brill here ~ had to take myself away for the weekend ~ neeed to make choices and stick to them :cry:

    anyway ~ no more about me ~ hope you hear something tomorrow ~ yes T can be bad but sometimes they can be good and lets hope it is good for you and they get you in and sorted.

    hugs and love ~ take care my lovely

    Louise xxx
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  • chris7
    chris7 Bots Posts: 2,696
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris

    Hope the sale hasn't taken too much toll there and that it was a good one for you? Ta for the "work over quick draft" (nice one :grin: ) Think we both needed a drop of that today after our lost hour!

    It was an ok day today thank goodness, if you ignore the fact that I had to endure more training! I mean grannies and eggs doesn't even begin to describe it now. :roll: Spent most of the day removing stickers from books which said Half Price in a delicious red and replacing them with stickers which said 50% off in a nauseous pink! Doh! I kid you not, I mean which idiot in some ivory tower thought that up? :???

    Hope you managed a reasonably comfortable snooze at some point today and at least the clocks are staying where they should be for a bit! :lol:

    Leaving some energy, bone healer, de-wished juice and buckets of hope along with a few of these. (((( )))) Hang in there.
    love
    Chris
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Toni, DD, Joan, Berty, Julie, Val and Louise,

    Yep not only got the sale done... it was actually well worth doing.... first time in 2 years that :grin: As Louise said we have had some really lovely weather and sun all day... till the mists came down but they seem to burn off quite quick in the morning.

    Kinda like the haze starts to the day with all the islands they make with the higher ground but not at the time today was..... miss that hour eh?!

    Much happier tonight.... A friend of mine helped in the self diagnostic department with a much less panicking head on her shoulders that I got and........

    There is another thing that does this type of thing to you..... GORD and though they are both very similar i their symptoms so the other is still possible via the crohns the gord is actually nudged in to the front.... lets hope eh but tis good to have a bit of hope :lol::lol:

    Got an email from my father...... he is out fishing with a pair trawler actually....

    Going to have to think hard now about telling him i got some tests coming up or not......

    See the grape vine worked eh?! But back to the dilemma....

    Leaving you all a great big hug and a hope you have a good night and decent tomorrow cus I am shattered and must go chase the hour :lol::lol: thanks as ever for just being there. love Cris xxx

    Sorry Chris I didnt' see you flower.

    Oh its half killed me and the oa and pa are in hyper drive and this sodding chest pain isn't far behind them....

    mtx night so glad of the anti emetics :lol: hey 3 of them work :lol::lol:

    Hope work was ok for you and leaving you a ((((( ))))) love Cris xxx
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning cris
    Glad the sale went well and that you managed to do it.
    Hope you caught up on the missing hour, although I think it has affected me more this morning. Looking through half open eyes , so, excuse any typing errors :lol:
    I am pleased that you have a friend that has helped to put your mind at rest, will have to look up gord on the web now. You learn new stuff on here every day.
    Hope you are not too tired today and that you managed to sleep well.
    Take care and sending a morning cuppa and ((((()))))))
    love juliepf x
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    morning my love....I am hopeing you got some sleep....I see you had a good sale...good weather does make a difference....tell you what I have got you from tracy beacker....a cloak of courage...they said you could borrow it for a while
    Lots of love
    Barbara xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,155
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris.
    how are you today i hope you had a good sleep.
    try not to work to hard.
    have a good day. joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • caterina57
    caterina57 Member Posts: 1,424
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Cris
    Hope you are ok, calling in so that you know I haven't forgotton about you! as if I could!!! Glad the sale went well you take care now and look after your self and those cuties.
    Cath
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 28. Mar 2011, 09:05
    Hi Barbara, Julie, Joan and Cath,

    You know its so good to know i have a second option :lol::lol: they are so similar in their symptoms they really are and well I was talking to a friend of mine and bless her I know this has upset her as well.

    Hate that bit...... but she used a different site to me and bless her she has given me some real hope..... though its nasty one and has almost certainly progressed and burnt my lung and yet that's the one I want......

    Kinda funny really..... well I think it is :lol:

    I am wished out to there and beyond... not below death more just above it.. not quite one though :lol: The pain is so horrible and its effected my whole throat and oesophagus today..... You shouldn't have to feel your internal organs eh?! :lol:

    The new tablets really have stopped the sickness so that's good they are also meant to sped the stomach up and i have found it a bit less painful so that's good eh?

    Just I want to know now what is down there and i also know I can cope with what ever it is....... I can say that now eh?! Will have to see if its true..... :lol:

    I really do thank you for your continued support and help to get through this waiting..... It goes on for ever it seems and since its T I think I will be lucky to be done with i a month :roll: It don't come bottom of all the tables for no reason.......

    Will start to ring them tomorrow..... or Beryl my friend who gave me the hope said she will...... I don't thin she was joking.....

    Look I really am worried about upsetting any one so please know i going to be ok.Love and ((((( ))))) some builders tea and buckets for some and slurps as Slurpy keeps trying to type.... Cris xx

    Hey just had a text and it wont just be Beryl who starts phoning them if I don't..... so I had better eh?!
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Upset us? Blimey girl, we're made of strong stuff - believe you me, some of us would be much MUCH more upset if you didn't tell us what was going on. We're not nosey, it's not prurient interest we show, we care about you, plain and simple. You are one of the most supportive people on here, you ALWAYS have time to think of others no matter how rough things are for you and that is why we want to know that you are as OK as you can be and if you are not we want to do our bit to help. We're here for you. Simples. DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben