Advice kinda needed......

bertyboy

dreamdaisy wrote:

Upset us? Blimey girl, we're made of strong stuff - believe you me, some of us would be much MUCH more upset if you didn't tell us what was going on. We're not nosey, it's not prurient interest we show, we care about you, plain and simple. You are one of the most supportive people on here, you ALWAYS have time to think of others no matter how rough things are for you and that is why we want to know that you are as OK as you can be and if you are not we want to do our bit to help. We're here for you. Simples. DD

DD has said it all really Cris such a wonderful way with words , glad the sale went well , and that your friend is there to push you to badger the hospital ,hugs a bundle xx

chris7

Hi Cris

Glad the sale was worth doing and hope you had some lovely sunshine today to lift the spirit a little. Was a lovely day in my bit of Yorkshire. Trouble is when I got home the glorious sun obliged me to balance on a step ladder over the sink trying to clean the kitchen window which has been sadly neglected. But I survived and am feeling rather pleased with myself.

Another day nearly done flower and good on ya pal for getting on the phone for you tomorrow. Hope the awful pain eases off a bit for you there today. No wonder you are shattered with it all. The houseguests and employers will still be wanting their tea. :roll:

I'll third what DD has said with such style, though I confess I had to look up prurient! You is clever wif words DD and it so appropriate.

We do care Cris and will always be here to keep sending the positve vibes, vast quantities of cope, and buckets of anti-wished juice. and these ((((( ))))

Hope you can at least have a comfortable doze or two this evening. Hang in there.
love and cuppa
Chris xx

skezier

Hi DD, Berty and Chris,

I feel humbled by the things you said there. I really do and I know i don't deserve this support but hell am I grateful for it just now. Since Beryl found the gord thing I was out my head... now there are 2 things and well i could be lucky.....

Mind I did say that i will treat this as huge warning if it isn't and try and give up ........

Chris its related to that habit and you don't want it cus it don't half hurt

The bones are basically on strike now.... oh this lump of bone in the rib by the sternum really is hurting as well.... The wrists are swollen, the back is useless and the neck said it didn't want to left out so bit of a hard day really

No letter or phone call so they got till tomorrow post and I shall ring them....

Cus its T it wont be inside the two week thing cus they are totally useless hence not bothering to see me for 9 months.... more I think about it the more angry I got....

If its gord the stomach acid has gone into the abdo cavity and burned at least the lungs and if the other......

Oh I wish i knew.....

I ain't good at the waiting game eh.?! Hugs and tea to you all and Chris well done! just mind the steps though. Glad you had a bit of sun and we have Berty had a bit of decent weather. DD i still feeling humbled.

Hugs and tea all round then i shall get the rest of evening duties done..... anyone want to help please? xx

julie47

Morning cris

I hope the appointment comes through the post today.
If not you do right to phone them.

DD is good with words and if i could remember them I would repeat em

Just want you to know we all care about you and can't wait for you to feel much better. (((((((())))))))))
Take care
thinking of you
love Juliepf x

dreamdaisy

I suspect that none of us is good at waiting. None of us like uncertainty but really that is all that life ever offers. There are no definites, no guarantees, no certainties for anyone, anywhere. We hide that basic fact with routines and structures, plans and schemes, by numbering the hours of the day, labelling the days of the week and the months of the year but basically we are kidding ourselves. We like to think we control matters but in reality . . . . .

Take heart - we're all waiting with you, it's one helluva crowded waiting room. DD

dachshund

Hi Cris and Beryl.
i will come and help you just let me know what you want done. the police will chase me on the motorway i will dodge them
my scoota's charged up.
take care. joan xx

barbara12

Here we go Cris I found it.. now just give us the nod...we can fasten a rope to the back for Joan's scooter..hope you are not worrying to much
Sending you loads of good vibes
Love
Barbara xx

frogmorton

Count me in Barb

I even (more or less) know the way

Joan's battery is charged and Daisycat is ready to wash and blow-dry the Cope if that will help?

Having said all that Cris.....whatever makes you think you DON'T deserve support?? :shock:

we loves you

anyway i'm with beryl

Love and hugs

Toni xx

skezier

Hi Julie, DD, Joan, Barbara and Toni,

Hadn't heard so rang.... will be seen before the 26th of April but that could be as late as the 25th......

Its been rendered as a crohn's check by the head of department who I didn't see... he better be right is all I can say.....

Hey Barbara you found the bus, a while since we saw it eh?

Right could you help Joan and her scooter round up the chickens please? You up for that Joan?

Julie Toni and I can run the gauntlet with the cattle and 2 bales.... hey Julie... Toni where you gone

Hugs and thanks to you all cus I am so wound up today I really am... money cutting hospitals and their lack of care eh?

Hey on the bright side how ever bad your one is take comfort that this one is worse Love and cuppas before we start Cris xxx

dachshund

Hi Cris Julie DD Barbara Toni.
that is a long time to wait to know
we will be with you i hope its crohns as well.
i will get the chickens in for you.
take care. joan xx

skezier

Hi Joan.

tis a long time to wait but it was done this way so they save money.... its that bad a hospital! Its all we have so we are stuffed and have third rate treatment in some of the departments..... but...... he better be right!

Could you check for eggs there please? Mind since Slurps and Slipper-Boy eat eggs there will almost certainly be a sign saying I got there first..... Love and ((((( ))))) to you and Sue xx

Poppyg1rl

Hi Cris,
Not long to go now sweetie, so glad you're not doing this on your own and you're friend will be there for you.
Always thinking of you sending healing hugs Xxx

skezier

Hi Glitter Girl,

Thanks flower and hope your doing ok? You letting the kids near that plaster again cus I got a few ideas for them

Thinking of you too and leaving a ((((( ))))) and some sequins Cris xx

Poppyg1rl

Hi Cris,
Ooh sequins! hadn't thought of them! I look a bit like wonderwoman (just the cast!) it's bright pink with glitter all over it and blue stars....my eldest reckons I'll distract the planes (we live about 3 miles from Heathrow) he he
I'm ok, not a lot of pain in the wrist now, unless I overdo things then I know about it and stop sharpish!!!
Got a bit freaked out today over doing my Humira injection on Friday, it's the first one that I will have do, and although it went really well last time, the nurse did it, and I was in bad pain with the wrist, so wasn't really focusing on it, does that make sense?! Probably not, I'm rambling!
The knee's back playing me up as are the fingers and elbows so not sleeping well.
Makes me ashamed to moan when you are in so much pain, and working so hard plus helping me and others here, you're an absolute star Cris, thanks and hugs again Xxx

skezier

Hi Glitter Girl,

That sounds brilliant Well done to your eldest

I will be fine, just remember the slight angle and slowly cus its a small needle and you will be fine. Its hard to concentrate when your in pain and if you really feel a bit unsure could you get the nurse to see you and make sure you do it ok? I am sure you will be fine though.

That's the nature f this bone thing, it hits you with a much as it can when ever it feels like it! I am old now so it don't matter but wish you youngsters didn't have it.

Poppy have you got any sleepers to help with both relaxation and sleeping for a bit? Might help but hopefully the humira will do the job and it will get knocked back a long way. You hang in there and will shoot in your pocket for the jab but I reckon you will be fine. (((( )))) and mind them aircraft xx

suncatcher

It is a dilema but you need support and you know who you trust. Hate to think of you with out any physical support. You have loads of cyber support in your pocket all the way hugs joanne

skezier

Hi Joanne,

Flower don't you worry i got a bit of decent quality physical support. it might just be by phone but they really are worth their weight in gold.

The cyber support makes me feel humbled but so grateful. You lot are incredible and I just feel honored to know you all. ((((( ))))) and promise a pm inside 24 hours. Cris xx

suncatcher

How long till the op or don't u know yet. Have u told your fluffy employers

suncatcher

Did i tell u a nasty fox killed my chicken and left my duck alone but it witnessed it and had tried to run damaging his feet a few months ago. they are all ok again laying well.

skezier

Hi Joanne,

There may not be an op it depends on what is down there. They started off saying before the 26th for the test and I kinda kicked as the man I didn't see over rode the one I had seen.....

It was then in about 3 weeks and then ended up being maybe next week but be honest cus its T it might be may before they bother.... they better hope there isn't anything bad down there cus it could be they don;t know .........

Its all about saving money now a days eh? (((( )))) and no I haven't mentioned it to the employers..... they might try then selves

Oh poor chicken... foxes and daylight raids are a problem eh? I have regular fox patrols now done by Slipper Boy cus he saw the last one and we all went after it. It dropped the chicken but she was shocked and injured and didn't make it...... I wish they would stick to rabbits and not see chicken as easy targets.

Hope the ducks feet are a lot better now? Mine are starting to lay better but still got trouble with egg eating chicken and dogs as well as laying out in the hedgerows so now wont let them out till they have done at least 4 eggs and that will become more the more they colour up xx

chris7

Hi Cris

Sorry I am late, dongle issues here it would appear. :roll:

Sorry they can only say before the 26th not very helpful and calls for one of these I think. Do keep chasing if you or your phone pals can find the courage to do so for you.

Really hope the hurty bits stop competing there and you get a bit of a break from the pain. I am a bit bereft of spoons today BUT there is a beautifully packed order of sweeties and biccies on it's way to Lizard if I do say so myself.

Try and get some rest tonight if you can, I am thinking of you but still have the lump hammer if needed.

love and buckets of cope for tomorrow, ((((( ))))
Chris xx

suncatcher

Yes ducks well waddling away as usual.

skezier

Hi Joanne,

Glad the quackers are all ok now. here if its a real raid the duck go first..... foxes eh? Still wouldn't kill them though but do wish they wouldn' do the daylight thing.... ((((( ))))) xx

Hi Chris,

Shall pop up the A30 and flag it down and tell them you said i could have some hey got some ice cream and yogurt and am going to chuck one all over the other if you would like some?

While your at wonkas I should give you some spoons flower.... hows it going? Ok i hope?

The hurty bits are doing just that but they have been worse except today the voice is effected. That's kinda what sent me off I think......

Oh I had to stop one friend today ringing them as well... Its hard isn't it cus it might just be the crohn's attacking the top end but then again it might be something really bad or it might be the gord. The gp I spoke to said the gord was more likely and i kinda thinking ok so why haven't they been treating me for it? he also said the pa will be whats effecting the ribs, sternum and lungs and the other lumps are of no consequence.... good he has xray vision down a phone eh?! Wish I had that gift.....

mind not sure what i could use it for

We could give it t Poppy to go with her wonder woman costume

Bing silly eh must be bedtime

leaving you tea and a ((((( ))))) and please use the lump hammer xxx

tjt6768

Morning Cris.. Hoping that you are alright today.

How are the gang doing down there? Hope they are taking good care of you.

Catch you soon hun..

Be well..

julie47

Morning cris.......Before the 26th april.......(swear swear swear :oops: )

that is terrible. I hope it is well before then.....I am on that bus with all the others (easier than scooter ,and it was passing the end of the street)
and we will nip in to see the appointment manager.

I hope you managed to sleep last night and that today the bones are not too bad.

Take care ((((((((()))))))) & tea and a lot of hope.

love juliepf x