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  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    hi toady

    How are you today?

    Etna - I like it 😂

    Ok I’m in the midst of family drama

    So bye for now tc xx

    Ps just a reminder that the mushrooms have souls too lol xx

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  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    hi Toni

    Good afternoon

    How are you?

    Mums ok 👍

    That’s really amazing about the Race for life- well done!

    My sis had a lot of backache - doc has diagnosed sciatica

    I went to group

    But waiting for cleaners involved gluco - zade unfortunately

    Ok im going to ablute before the cat eats me like a tuna sandwich lol

    Bye for now Toni tc xx

    Ps generous employer of the year 😱😱

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 445

    Afternoon everyone sorry I've not been around for a bit just been feeling exhausted I hope everyone is doing well today bye for now.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    good night Toni toady Jojo Joan SK and S knee

    Sorry I’m extra shattered today no one really let me nap at all till evening

    LA’s birthday on Sunday

    I’ve bought a Dino card

    Sis was in extreme pain at work, bill took her home etc in a taxi

    Doc has given her diazepam

    No one was at group so I had a solitary squash
    maybe they had kid - issues

    But I didn’t drink hot sauce tea today haha

    Tc everyone xx

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  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,732
    edited 4. Jun 2025, 22:41

    Hi all 👋 had to do a bit of late nosegay packaging 😬 thought it ought to go off tomorrow as it hopefully will get there this side of the weekend. What with that and my day for fortnightly jab I'm neither use nor ornament this evening as they say 😄 see you all tomorrow.

    Love to Joan & everyone I didn't get to earlier, Stuart and Jojo hope you have better nights &c, take care everyone, soon be morning tea time again at this rate 👍️😘 xx

    Sorry about your sis bosh, how nasty 😕 poor thing I hope it eases off. Have a good night and catch up on the shortage of naps I hope. xx

  • Skinny Keef
    Skinny Keef Member Posts: 1,356

    hello, sorry been AWOL, been a rough couple of days.

    Feeling much better now though, even if it is 4am and I can’t sleep.
    wppl

  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 185

    5am awaking up, pill time.

    Still annoyed GP cancelled my app yesterday got to wait another week for treatment

  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,386
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    Morning Joan how are you doing today? Is Pepper ok. Any news on your cladding? Are they doing anything yet about your 'visitors'? I hope all went well at the Drs? I got the painkiller I was after without even asking. A few on here use it nefopam. Take care (((())) xxx

    Morning Toady thank you it was a fabulous evening Trentham is beautiful. Poor Kari was ill (two bob bits) so I did the race for her friend too who recently died.

    Lucy was of course way faster than me as you can imagine, but she waited for me and filmed me crossing the finish line only I can't post that as we can't do films can we? Elfie would have been even faster but he had to weave around all the legs!

    I also need to get a grocery shop done you are so right, but i did book my eye test for Monday and Kari's for Tuesday so we feel pretty virtuous. The Dr has prescribed some nefopam for me to try for my pain so that's good. Not as good as anti-inflams but never mind.

    Did you get outside? Please do post a pic of the Hosta. That's unusual for it to struggle like that after a good start but we have had (honestly remember?) a lot of wind and dry weather. They like wet and shade there were some lovely ones last night…

    6 generations! Why didn't l get you to help with mine? You are so good at it Toady I am well-impressed yes definitely some old records are really dubious and unreliable.

    Sleek is going to do us both a shop tomorrow apparently. Good of her. We both need food! Take care and have a good day if you can. Getting that parcel done will have helped put you ahead a bit ((()) xxx

    Morning Reshmi hope you are ok. Thank you so much for you support over Race for life I really appreciate it. That is one of my hats! It was sunny but windy.

    Your poor sister that's nasty sciatica bless her heart I hope they are helping her the Drs? Diazepam will help sounds as though her back went into spasm. That's agony.

    No-one was at the group? Wow that's odd some of it would almost certainly have been childcare issues, but it's good for you that you got out yourself.

    Crikey I bet that's a real note from that company! Poor 'Tom' and poor everyone who wanted to attend his funeral. Makes places I have worked seem wonderful 🙄

    Hope the cleaners weren't their usual 3 hours late and everything is ok at home everyone calm and happy or at least calm and peaceful.

    Take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Jojo I am so glad to see you! I can see just how exhausted you are don't feel bad about not posting at all. No-one here will criticise just glad you are ok. I'm not too bad just a bit tired off to bed soon. ((())) xxx

    Morning Stuart noooooo!!!!! Noooooo!!! I am gutted for you. It's just so unfair I am so sorry😕 Sending some useless hugs ((())) xxx Oh did the GP offer you another date?

    Hi Skinny Keef Hope you are all ok we were missing your 'voice' here. I'm so glad to see you wish you hadn't been been struggling though. I'm off to take the Fig for her sump repair and MOT today which means getting the bus home afterwards. Paul is not local until I think Friday evening now. Meeting up with Lucy though for a cuppa so that will be nice between buses. Take care and feel a bit better soon ((())) xxx

    A quick wave 👋to Carol and Les hope you are both ok and no more falls? ((())) xxx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 445

    Morning frogmorton I'm so exhausted just doing the school run this morning has been tough and no energy for dog walking now I feel bad for the dogs again I've been so out of breath lately and my pains are high today I tried to go yesterday without codeine but suffering today. Anyway I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.

  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,331

    Good morning everyone

    Toady (()) I hope your parcel goes and doesn’t get lost. I have a hospital appointment tomorrow morning at 10 I have a white patch on my tongue he wants to do a scrape. Have a good day. I saw the Doctor yesterday he said if my fingers swell go back to him straight away don’t wait.

    Toni (()) good luck with the Figaro I hope everything goes alright. Have a nice time with Lucy (()) sorry Kari (()) is I’ll I hope she is soon feeling better.

    Jojo (()) have a good day go steady I hope your pain has calmed down a bit

    Reshmi (()) have a good day love to your mum (())

    Stuart (()) sorry about your appointment not good when you are in pain (()) love to your mum (()) have a good day

    Skinny Keef (()) sorry if you have a migraine (()) love to Loanda (()) and Sucr’e (()) have a good day

    take care
    joan xx
  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 445

    Thank you dachshund I hope you are well and I hope you have a great day.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    hi Toni

    How are you?

    Good afternoon

    Mums ok 👍

    She and dad have gone to help my sis for a few hours

    Yes I think she’s in a lot of pain poss spasm unfortunately 😔

    Mxt day here 🤢🤢

    I’ll have some lunch while I have something vaguely approaching energy

    But I’m generally ok 👍

    You’re welcome about the race for life 🤗

    Bye for now Toni tc xx

    Ps a rare glimpse into toady’s beauty routine lol xx

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  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    hi Toni

    LA is helping his mummy by giving her biscuits -Bless

    BR also helped by giving her “fluffy bread” as he calls untoasted bread in the morning

    Of course sciatica is no one’s fault, but the thing is with my sister is that sometimes she sometimes lifts lot of heavy things when she doesn’t need to and doesn’t ask for help

    Apparently it’s national cheese day today, so a cashew cheese cake is the pic lol

    If LA drops into the café, please don’t tell him it’s vegan as I cannot vouch for him being Tantrum - free😱

    👋toady xx

    bye for now, Toni I’m going to have a rest due to our friend methotrexate xx

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  • toady
    toady Member Posts: 2,732
    edited 5. Jun 2025, 16:39

    Hi all 👋 it's not warm is it 🙄 where's the sun 😔

    Quite heavy showers in fact on & off, no leaks yet frog, hope the same for you 😬. I didn't get out much in the end yesterday it was not very inviting at all, but a better day tomorrow maybe? I will snap the hosta then. Glad Trentham's are doing better than mine 😊. Sorry about Kari, me & my big mouth I sort of knew you would have said otherwise how she did, forget I spoke 😳. Disappointing for her. Hope she's fine for Monday and you both get on ok at opticians (I'm glad I went when I did and to do other things, if we have a new variant of covid creeping in - though the main news don't seem to be making much of it 🤷‍♀️). I will picture you crossing the finish line slow-mo like Chariots of Fire, in lieu of a video 🤭 Elfie I can visualize very well indeed 👍️. Haven't touched by grocery shop so far. Yes I have quite enjoyed the family tree, despite ups & downs (it does rather 'kettle your swede' at times 😬), but still very immersing! I hope I've got enough to be of interest to my friend; I probably ought to cough up for a genealogy site subscription really, I've been doing most of this on a free trial and it wouldn't be possible at all without full access, definitely. Have you done all to yours that you intend to? Hope you are having a good and not too busy day, hope Fig got on ok. When do you start the new meds have you tried them before ever? All the best with them, love to all 😘 xx

    Hello Joan, my parcel went off ok and everything has been getting delivered fine lately thank you. The post van brought something early today but for some reason the on foot post man picked up mine, much later - don't know why they arrange it like that, it wasn't that small a parcel so the van seems more logical 🤷‍♀️. I hope your tongue can be sorted simply. That's good that the Dr wants you to keep him posted promptly, at least it makes them sound properly interested 👍️. Have a good evening and hope the hospital appointment is quick no waiting. 😘 xx

    Hope you are doing ok today bosh 👋 and your sis is coping, with help. Not nice especially so near LA's birthday 😔 hope she feels better soon but will have to take it easy. Sorry there was no-one at group really, hope everyone was only busy or just not quite 100% but not too indisposed. Nothing much happening here, it keeps raining but only on & off in bursts, so I have to keep nipping up and down the loft like a jack-in-the-box to check on things 😱. I love my beauty routine, what nice things and a proper powder compact etc, don't I look fabulous 😍😄 thank you. Hope you rummaged yourself up some lunch, see you later if you pop in 👋. xx
    edit: sorry I missed you. Hope the medicinal fluffy bread and the biscuits are doing the trick 🤗

    Stuart I'm so sorry you've had to be put off for your treatment, I know how long a week can be when you're counting down to when you can hope to get some benefit, jolly well hope they see you alright this next time 😠. Chin up in the meantime xx

    Hi Jojo sorry I missed you yesterday, hope you're coping today with the right balance of pills etc to keep things manageable 🤞 what's your work shifts like for the next few days? Hope family all ok take care xx

    Sorry things a bit dodgy with you last couple of days Keef, glad they've steadied up a bit now hope they stay that way 🤞 hope family are ok too xx

    Wave to Carol 👋 kettle is going on now xx

  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 185

    Thanks Toady hopeful the docs can help me on 11th with a Jab & not blow me off again I my have to go into A&E to get some help.

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  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    hi Toni

    Thanks about the poem

    LA’s birthday is still going ahead mum said that my sis will sit in the party hall or seats near the soft play area with a cushion 🤷‍♀️

    I really hope she doesn’t do that but my sister can be very stubborn- she’s got that from dad unfortunately

    All is more or less ok here thanks Toni I’m just feeling rather crackered

    I like your hat - nice colour 👍

    Apparently today is also national hug your cat day

    so here is a Renaissance cat or something like that - not my area of expertise lol

    Have a good night Toni tc xx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 445

    Hi toady I managed I felt a bit better later I did a bit more resting today my husband picked the kids up from school for me. I've been doing the normal date scanning jobs nothing to drastic. My family are ok thanks. I hope you are well and I hope you have had a good day.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    Hi Toady,
    How are you doing tonight?

    That Must be annoying about the Jack-in-the-Box situation

    Thanks About my sister, she’s taking her medicine and I think my mum said she’s very gradually getting better Thanks

    But she’s a stubborn lady, like dad unfortunately and LA’s birthday is still going ahead, although I’m hoping against hope that she’ll decide to rest instead of going on with the the festivities when she’s not feeling well

    Anyway we can’t control other people, especially not our own family members, Well that’s true in my case anyway haha

    Yeah cold today shame that it was unpleasant for you of course, for me It was quite nice in a way but I am feeling extra crackered even by MXT standards I’m thinking maybe because it was rainy - that can do it can’t it?

    My Industrial strength umbrella is, however, still holding going strong, even though it’s not quite as pretty as the one from “stubborn sisters, no surprise” to use my rather strange rhyming slang ha ha

    However i Think that outside that shop nothing really can be that pretty, with the exception, perhaps Riley’s sisters face after eating and licking cherry meringues, no need for make up and powder there, although the cosmetic substitute may be somewhat calorific and full of sugar of course, as long as you don’t tell GI Josephine, the physio, whatever that particular physiotherapist is called these days - I thought I’d better be politically correct here ha ha

    Lunch was good thanks. I had a kind of beef soup which I know is not a universally eaten thing but it helped me energy wise for a while Thanks for asking🙏

    Have a good night, toady and take xx

    👋good night also to Jojo Joan SK and s knee tc x


    ps I discovered this on bin - terest, so toady now you can keep all your thousands of photos of mushrooms for free and not have to pay a fortune to i - shroud or whatever it was called in the times of Poe lol xx

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  • Jojo_16
    Jojo_16 Member Posts: 445

    Goodnight bosh hope you sleep well tonight.

  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 185

    3 am ☕️

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    morning Toni

    Wppl xx

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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,386
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    Morning Joan Kari isn't too bad thanks she's having a massive clear-out at home of her studio now. Good luck today with the scrape if it's thrush you'll have nystatin I think it tastes nice! Lucy had it a lot when she was ill and didn't Sue have it at one time or was that you? Lucy was fine 🙂you take care ((())) xxx

    Morning Jojo when are you seeing someone? The exhaustion is relevant to getting diagnosed. You are just about getting through each day at the moment I hope you are making notes ready for when you see a consultant? The dogs won't mind they are happy to snuggle up with their Mum ((())) xxx

    Morning Stuart, morning Ollie🐱 a 3am start🙄 not good. Glad they did at least give you another date for your injection, but when are you due to actually see someone a consultant? Like Jojo getting a diagnosis is the hardest part of this disease😕 Hope at least your Mum is ok? ((())) xxx

    Sending some ((())) to Skinny Keef hoping you are ok maybe if things are bad you need to not wait until November to see your consultant? Fig passed her MOT with 2 advisories. xxx

    Morning Reshmi Hope you are doing ok and don't have a bad MTX hangover.

    So you have a party to attend? Is it this weekend? What bad timing with your poor sister suffering so badly. She will not want to let her son down I get that. She might manage it but needs to, honestly, just sit and be there. How sweet fluffy toast is perfect as are biscuits❤️. Usually (this is true) your back eases off (not completely but a bit) after about 3 days. They don't give out diazepam easily.

    You always choose well for the boys' birthdays you know them so well. You'll just have to be extra lively to make up for your sister.

    I loved renaissance cat! Yesterday l hugged my own Sleek and Tia's two cats as l am am feeding them while she's away in Egypt on her hols.

    As you know I have several hats that one was pink for race for life. Or in the Figaro with the roof down in cold but sunny weather my favourite😊

    Take care and I hope you feel more energised later ((())) xxx

    Morning Toady I'm also glad you went before the new covid variant becomes too rife. I think they want us to ignore it which to an extent l will. I am hoping Kari feels much better too. Our eyesight is so important look at our Barbara12 we so miss her😔

    Yes do take a pic of your hosta poor thing. I honestly have had such a week I have hardly been outside mind the rain hasn't exactly been conducive has it? No water ingress here either in spite of some very heavy extended showers.

    Never tried nefopam before, but I think Trish6886 and Mr DJ are both on it amongst a few others, so has to be worth a try. Haven't even had time to pick it up from the pharmacy yet, but I'll let you know what l think.

    A full subscription to a geneology site? Hmmm….won't be cheap but if you enjoy it maybe? Your friend will be really pleased with what you've done for her without a doubt Toady! I shall do no more I think unless Kari wants us to.

    You got it I crossed pretty slowly, but Elfie all legs and arms like a little streak of lightening!😊 better get me dressed I have to feed Tia's cats🐱 Take care Toady ((())) xxx

    A quick wave 👋 to Carol if you pass by hope all is well ((())) xxx

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  • Stuartknee
    Stuartknee Member Posts: 185

    Mum back on her 4 sulfaszine after the gp trimmed them She rung consultant to get them reinstated.

  • bosh
    bosh Member Posts: 5,615

    good afternoon Toni

    How goes it?

    Mums ok 👍

    it is a bit stuffy in this room, but I am surviving

    Mum is okay, blood sugar wise, but she’s in a bit of a strop. I think it’s with my poor sis not being too well

    yes I fully understand about mothers wanting to be there,

    but I’m just a bit worried that the chairs in those kind of places are not good for anyone’s back ,

    let alone alone, someone with full-blown sciatica
    But of course, not my decision to make and I keep out of anything excess - family related

    or even family related ha ha
    As for mxt - related matters I am feeling slightly ookey at the moment but will be better after ablutions Thanks

    You know Toni, I also found out that yesterday was Old Maids’ Day but I refused to pander to such stereotypes haha - vive spirit of the JA heroines, cucumber sandwiches and all that kind of stuff lol

    glad you like the cat

    Yes diazepam is a nasty one I agree and I also hope the 3 day extreme pain situation applies 👍👍

    Yes a nice and appropriate hat

    Glad you got the cat - hugging done lol

    I’m in the relatively cold room now but Toni it’s such a nightmare so much furniture in here little bits and pieces that mum won’t let me throw out, I worry every day that I’ll trip and hurt my knee

    Okay I am going to attempt ablutions now

    Bye for now, Toni and take care xx

    👋 toady and Joan xx

    ps apparently it’s national fish and chips day but in the spirit of vegan inclusivity, here is some battered celeriac and chips xx

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  • Skinny Keef
    Skinny Keef Member Posts: 1,356

    evening all.

    I have cut out some tramadol as I think it may be the reason I am anaemic but it is a real struggle managing the pain.

    Hopefully I be back posting full time soon.

    Good news Pen passed Toni.