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  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I really hope you do not have to go too far with them.

    Mine, was written down as" indefinate " in the end. I don't know what might happen with this goverment though but I really don't think they can do much now, but then I don't know what is going on behind closed doors.

    My hubby takes care of me full time now.They do know that. He gets Carer's Allowance.
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    trisher wrote:
    I really hope you do not have to go too far with them.

    Mine, was written down as" indefinate " in the end. I don't know what might happen with this goverment though but I really don't think they can do much now, but then I don't know what is going on behind closed doors.

    My hubby takes care of me full time now.They do know that. He gets Carer's Allowance.

    Mine too, he was told he cannot claim any jobseekers as he is not available for work due to my being ill and needing care. They said he should be on carers, well, it is not quite as easy as that :roll: :roll: I will not shower dress etc, without him, he has to persuade me to go to rest, knowing that I am exhausted and just won't go. he watches out all the time for what I am doing, knowing that I am at risk of falls and forgetting things or having panic attacks, loosing concentration, sorting out hot meals, all dangerous and if I was on my own, goodness knows what I would be like. Trying to get carers allowance is wearing me out and stopping me sleeping, which I have enough trouble with as it is, even with drugs. Was easy for the jobcentre to say, "oh, just get carers allowance as you cannot leave your OH" yeah, right, just like that eh.
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    My Hubby has to watch me as I'm also epileptic I have had some nasty falls hitting my head knocking myself out going down the stairs when I could walk. He often came home to see a cut on my head and me not knowing I had.

    Before I was allowed to have a stairlift it had to be fitted with a special belt so I would not fall out going up or down the stairs.

    Gosh the times I ended up in hospital. If he has to go out someone comes to sit with me and we pay them for doing it.

    They have me on better control now though.
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    trisher wrote:
    My Hubby has to watch me as I'm also epileptic I have had some nasty falls hitting my head knocking myself out going down the stairs when I could walk. He often came home to see a cut on my head and me not knowing I had.

    Before I was allowed to have a stairlift it had to be fitted with a special belt so I would not fall out going up or down the stairs.

    Gosh the times I ended up in hospital. If he has to go out someone comes to sit with me and we pay them for doing it.

    They have me on better control now though.
    Good, it can be difficult to control at times, I remember from my nursing days. Getting the medication right etc.

    Just putting the kettle on, fancy a cup, oh no, you prefer coffee, decaf? not too milky.

    Off to see my folks today, check on them, OH does jobs for them and I potter with Mother. Plus I will be in M&S :D:D
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    OH is reminding me that it is tired-sleeping-smiley-4636.gif for bed and I should be resting now. So, I will reluctantly have my cuppa and poddle to bed. You take care love (a lancashire term of endearment ). Hope you get some good rest and feel less sickly. Candle is still burning.

    Gentle hugs, will let you know what I bring back from M&S, something sweet and hugely calorific............

    N Night XXXXX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Ah You behave yourself in M & S eh?? don't go spending it all. I do like some of their food.

    I will have to go now Bubbles, have had my night meds although I have been sleeping.

    I will see you tomorrow when you come home, if you are not too tired. Thanks for the coffee though.

    You try and rest soon, I know it is not easy for you so sending you some ((((())))

    Nite nite try and have a peaceful night.

    Love Trish xxxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Well being I'm first up I will put kettles on low light. Washed toilets cleaned windows hoovered floors fed Cuddles done her tray.

    Bought in some cakes and crisps as it is Barbara's Birthday today.

    Milked Marrigold as well. So there is plenty of fresh milk.

    Right being I'm worn out through lack of sleep I will take a hot chocci and go back to bed for a bit see if I can get some sleep.

    We have to load up later so we get to Cris while it is light. She needs us. :D

    Trish xxx
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 30,190
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Morning All

    Morning Trisher

    Well the place looks spick and span :D mells very clean too :) Good job Trisher.

    And cuddles litter is immaculate too....

    Think it might rain later...

    off to visit MIL in Shipston later... :D

    Hope you all have agood day

    Love

    Toni xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    trisher wrote:
    Well being I'm first up I will put kettles on low light. Washed toilets cleaned windows hoovered floors fed Cuddles done her tray.

    Bought in some cakes and crisps as it is Barbara's Birthday today.

    Milked Marrigold as well. So there is plenty of fresh milk.

    Right being I'm worn out through lack of sleep I will take a hot chocci and go back to bed for a bit see if I can get some sleep.

    We have to load up later so we get to Cris while it is light. She needs us. :D

    Trish xxx

    we better pack sandwiches and drinks if we off to see cris does she want some cdm will put some chocolate in cooler box just in case
    val
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    morning trish toni and val we looked after the cafe for you while you where away.....well toni did the shopping...there are lots of goodies in the fridge...think she got a bit carried away though....love all the cdm in the cupboard for cris.
    I am off out out today for my 60th ohhh I am like a kid when it comes to birthdays see you later :):)
    Barbara x
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    barbara12 wrote:
    morning trish toni and val we looked after the cafe for you while you where away.....well toni did the shopping...there are lots of goodies in the fridge...think she got a bit carried away though....love all the cdm in the cupboard for cris.
    I am off out out today for my 60th ohhh I am like a kid when it comes to birthdays see you later :):)
    Barbara x


    barbra know what you meen it so much fun and love getting cards have great day enjoy but come back later or tomorrow to let us know how much fun it was
    val
  • tillytop
    tillytop Member Posts: 3,460
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Happy Birthday Barbara! Have a wonderful day!!!
    Tilly x
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi all I did read back but all I can remember is cdm wonder why :D
    I'm going to set the tables outside and have a drink, anybody else want one :?:


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    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I think I all alone-e-o, popped in for a builders and some fruit cake and cheese.

    No sitting outside here, it's cold and raining, so will sit by the window - I love watching rain!

    Have bought in sausage rolls and prawn vol-au-vents for the birthday party, also some small scotch eggs.

    Hope you are all having good days

    Annie
  • dachshund
    dachshund Member Posts: 9,222
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi Bubbles Trisher Toni Val Barbara Tilly Annie.
    and anyone else i missed.
    anyone fancy a drink.
    joan xx
    take care
    joan xx
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I've just made a couple of jellies and I have got some icecream for the party. Oh and as its a special birthday I've got some

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    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi Joan hope you are well, I will have a drink with you.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi All,

    I also read back but am worried about missing people out so HI to All :lol:

    CDM the nectar of life....... Got to mug Julie for some jelly and a glass :wink: have a quick sit down and then go empty the car, get some clothes cleaned up for the morrow and get hay as well as do the sheepsis. I wont see them till next friday/sat now :( I shall have to rely on the power of drifts to make sure they are ok..... they are being seen but I find the drip takes too much out of me to be doing them as well as this lot every day.....

    Moan over I am back.....

    Builders and energy and I shall go see if the bench is dry in Tilly's garden.... xx
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Budge up Cris I've got us a drink and some jelly n icecream :wink:
    I went to Ikea yesterday and came back with some daim bars :roll:
    theres plenty for everyone :)

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • angel1
    angel1 Bots Posts: 1,464
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Good afternoon everyone. Six black coffees, one after the other please.

    I really can`t do any more for the time being. I am in so much pain, and very tired. They really did leave a bloody awful mess. I can`t say anything to the lads, because they wanted to get a cleaning firm in, and I refused. I will get there eventually, although there will have to be quite a bit of decorating, and new carpets. Mind you, if the sun comes out, I`m in my little arbour that gets the sun all day long, and **** it all!.....Ange.
  • skezier
    skezier Member Posts: 11,333
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hey Julie dimes are really nice..... is it butterscotch? The dogs like them as well so be careful cus He k050.gif of them........ :wink:

    Jelly, ice cream and clotted cream :D:D:D xx

    Hey Ange a couple of buckets of energy for you and well if you d get the sun please share :wink: xx
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi Ange you sit down and I will get you your black coffee's
    Cris it says butter almond centre :) very nice.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    I'm just going for a bit, my grandma has sent me several blank text messages :roll: she must be practiceing again :roll: going to phone her and make sure she is okay.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    Hi to bubbles trish toni val tilli julie joan cris and ange
    Well everyone I was wined and dined, well diet coke and a nice meal at a nearby pub.
    I gots lots of flowers and my OH took me to the garden centre to pick something for the garden, I have brought you all some birthday cake, and some more bubbly.....I will be back to join you when I have had a little nap...well I am 60 :shock: :):):) see you later and thankyou for making it an extra special day :)
    Love
    Barbara xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -0001, 00:00
    birthday cake now we are talking is it plain sponge with jam and butter cream like when we were kids love them . my lads always wanted chocolate cake not the same lol.
    right need cup of tea never the same abroad is it do not think the water hot enough. could do with something to dip into it.
    val
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