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  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    trisher wrote:
    Julie

    I just feel so down tonight. Really deflated. Every drug they try I react against.
    The drug I'm on Cyclosporin, well it is supposed to be good to the liver but attacks the kidneys.

    The worst part of all is my hubby is with me and he hears all this. Years ago I used to be able to go by myself so when I got home I would just say I'm ok.

    I know this hurts him so much. I wish I could still go on my own.

    Last week, he was worried sick when I was rushed into the hossy.

    This week well, you know what I mean.

    he is no fool and knows what you are going through you know your self that when you do not know what going on you imagine all sorts it the same for him so i am sure he is glad to know even if it is hard for him to cope with does he want to come on here and talk to us we will be there for him as well if he needs us
    val
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Girls, sorry I missed you last night Trish, yep it was a bad one but I;m getting used to them now, got some stronger painkillers from doc, but guess what...the pharmacy have to order them and they won't be here till tomorrow, so I might see you either in the cafe or at night owls later on. I have been to work today, been to a research seminar at York University, it was very interesting.

    Well Trish, You have certainly helped me lots, you have given me so much encouragement and helped me to put the dreaded arthur into perspective, not to menion the pm's when things were bad and then those late night chats in nightowls or in the cafe. don't know how I would have coped without all your support and that of all the other peeps on here, so I have a lot to be grateful to you for, thank you so much. I hope you'll be able to keep your spirits up and allow us to to be here for you. Best wishes, Brenda xx
  • annie_mial
    annie_mial Member Posts: 5,614
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Trish, agree with Val - I hate it too when I can't tell hubby little white lies, but he really is entitled to know the truth. He keeps telling me I'm too independent and keep trying to 'go it alone' but old habits die hard.

    Hope you get some sleep tonight, petal. Wish I could share mine with you - I'm sleeping for England at the moment. So tired right now that eyes are giving up, brain went some time ago.........I can see what's left of it snuggled into the pillow.

    Annie
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    annie_mial wrote:
    Trish, agree with Val - I hate it too when I can't tell hubby little white lies, but he really is entitled to know the truth. He keeps telling me I'm too independent and keep trying to 'go it alone' but old habits die hard.

    Hope you get some sleep tonight, petal. Wish I could share mine with you - I'm sleeping for England at the moment. So tired right now that eyes are giving up, brain went some time ago.........I can see what's left of it snuggled into the pillow.

    Annie

    yes annie they deserve to know it harder if you keep it from them but i understand where trisher coming from we all like to be independant and keep the worrie away from loved ones i sleeping to much as well annie it arther he pinches energy val
    val
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    annie_mial wrote:
    Trish, agree with Val - I hate it too when I can't tell hubby little white lies, but he really is entitled to know the truth. He keeps telling me I'm too independent and keep trying to 'go it alone' but old habits die hard.

    Hope you get some sleep tonight, petal. Wish I could share mine with you - I'm sleeping for England at the moment. So tired right now that eyes are giving up, brain went some time ago.........I can see what's left of it snuggled into the pillow.

    Annie

    Annie

    I'm so pleased that you are able to sleep for England, you deserve it my friend. I can still remember all the late night chats we used to have. With Chris as well.

    So it is nice that someone feels a lot better and I'm glad it is you so you can enjoy that garden.

    You have been through some bad years, I know that. So good luck to you.

    Stanley the snail.....hmmm
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tea anyone?

    I will have a coffee, who wants what?
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    better go to bed eyes do not want to stay open lol well till they get in bed sleep well all trisher can you turn light on in night owls and pop this hot chocolate in for me leaving a bucket of (((hugs))) just incase will catch you all tomorrow val
    val
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hot choccy please!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    night night val, sweet dreams xx
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    mummyb wrote:
    night night val, sweet dreams xx

    thanks will try
    val
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    One hot chocci for Brenda there you go

    Nite nite Val pleasant dreams xxxxx

    Trish xx
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Ta Trish chuck, its lovely as usual, shall we sit in the garden or is it still raining. Shll we have a fireworks display
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sit in the garden in the rain?? Ok then come on.

    Where is Bubbles tonight, I hope she is ok.

    Trish xx
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
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  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Don't worry about the rain, its the sort that doesn't get you wet??????
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Here Come under my unbrella be careful of the end of it though poor Val had a terrible mishap with it. her eyes still water when she thinks of it.
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hm not seen Bubbles tonight, do you think she's ok??? Sending her hugs ((((((((((())))))))))) just incase she needs them. Also more hugs ((((((((((((((((((()))))))))))))))))) for Cris and Jan and anyone else who needs them xxxx
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Aw thanks Trish, got my eyes tight shut to avoid mishaps ha ha
  • mummyb
    mummyb Member Posts: 1,231
    edited 8. Jun 2010, 18:07
    Right Trish, its time to go in now cos its ffffffffreeeeezing. Hubby coming in from work now so better go make him a cuppa. Hope you manage to get some sleep chuck, sweet dreams..... if not prob see you later. Night night, Brenda xx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Wonkylegs wrote:
    HI Trisher I am glad you were not hossie-knapped, but am really sorry to read about your liver test.

    I can hazard a guess it is the ALT test that is part of the full blood count that they usually do for me - that has a top of about 45 - 50 and I know mine was up a bit last time but nothing like yours :shock: golly I bet next week feels a long way off right now.

    Try to be kind to yourself and not to worry too much.
    we're here for you whenever you need us, and please rant away because you need to let it out and Bill can't hear it all the time can he? :wink:

    loads of wonky hugs & a few slurps from littlelegs too
    WOnky xxx

    Wonky

    Thank you. I wish I had not got ill with that infection as I would have seen them by now.

    I will try and Google this. When I know what is wrong I can cope it is not knowing that is worse for me. Right I will have a read later and then I know where I'm going.

    Thanks Wonky xxx


    Ange Thank you for pointing me to here.xxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Goodnight Brenda, try and have a good sleep tonight. If I'm up I will post either here or Night Owls.

    love Trish xxx
  • trisher
    trisher Member Posts: 9,263
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Wonky

    I never moan to Bill, never. He is the one that tells people what a tough nut I am. :shock:

    Thanks again Wonky for that.


    Ange

    Thank you too. I will let you know, promise

    Trish xxxxx
  • snowball
    snowball Member Posts: 3,465
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Is there anybody here or are you all asleep :?: if so sleep well, if anyone is in avert your eyes :shock: I'm about to leap over the counter :shock: lift your skirt up julie :oops: :shock: ouch :shock: its okay I'm fine :lol: :shock: needed that drink.

    Julie xx
    ((((hugs)))) n xxxxx to ya all
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    trisher wrote:
    Wonky

    I never moan to Bill, never. He is the one that tells people what a tough nut I am. :shock:

    Thanks again Wonky for that.


    Ange

    Thank you too. I will let you know, promise

    Trish xxxxx

    I think sometimes that we do our other halves a disservice by thinking they can't cope with what we have to tell them, when in fact they are just itching for a chance to support us in whatever small way they can.

    My hubby hates to feel useless and unable to help me, and I suspect that is why I am tempted to keep things from him .... to spare him this worry, when in reality if all he can do for me is worry about me, who am I to stop him?!

    I do understand though why you feel like you do ....... you have both been through a lot, and sadly not much of it has been through choice.

    sending you very grateful and heartfelt hugs for all the times you have helped me.

    please keep posting and let us share some of the strain.

    love and hugs
    WOnky xxxx

    PS - in my book it says the ALT test is sometimes called AST :roll:
  • Wonkylegs
    Wonkylegs Member Posts: 3,504
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    snowball wrote:
    Is there anybody here or are you all asleep :?: if so sleep well, if anyone is in avert your eyes :shock: I'm about to leap over the counter :shock: lift your skirt up julie :oops: :shock: ouch :shock: its okay I'm fine :lol: :shock: needed that drink.

    Julie xx

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