Cris (Skezier)

frogmorton

Lynn....

I found a nice little cuddly dragon....



you think he will help fend off the bigguns????

See Cris?

What a great bunch this lot are

Love

Toni xx

barbara12

morning my love
I just hope you managed some sleep, not easy I know
I am thinking about you...think if we all become dragons slayers..it would help some
Sending more hugs to to let you know how much you are loved....((((()))))
I love the thought of the designer hair cuts on the sheepies ...I bet they feel really special... bless um..

stickywicket

Skezier, there is so much here.

1. ‘Respectability’ is a beautiful cloak that can cover massive ugliness. We all get fooled at times but it’s something we need to keep remembering so thanks for reminding us.

2. Being hated as a kid does not make you worthless. It makes you, wrongly, feel worthless. You weren’t worthless then, skezier, no matter how much you felt it. Now you’re worth your weight, and that of all the ark, in gold. You are a self-made woman. And, what a woman!

3. You are not ‘rambling too much’ and have nothing to apologise for. If it helps to ‘ramble’ we are only too pleased to be able to ‘listen’ and give back some of the support you give out to all of us.

4. You wrote ‘When the chips come down you are so good at throwing in the water wings’!!!! Bless, you, I shall cherish that lovely image for a long, long time. (Skezier, flailing around in a sea of chips, while we all helpfully(?) chuck water wings at her.)

Dragons, eh? OK, I’ll get back on the roof with some binoculars and do a ‘dragon watch’. They should be fairly easy to spot apart from Frogmorton’s little mini-dragon who we can hide under a sheep fleece ‘til it grows a bit. Whenever a dragon surfaces, whichever of us spots it first can press the ‘forum alert’ button and we’ll all come armed with our sticks and callipers and crutches and wheelchairs and chuck the lot at it. No contest.

And, finally, (You thought you rambled?) good luck for Thursday.

penny44

Oh Cris what a dreadful time your having, you are an amazing woman and you will get through this. The trouble is once a can of worms is open you cant put them all back again.
All those awful things in your childhood were not your fault at all and you must never believe they were, give yourself time and try to let the past stay in the past easier said than done i know.
We are all here to support you and listen, please dont ever think you dont support us because we all know you do. Take care my lovely Harry sends his luv too Penny x

dachshund

Hi Cris.
how are you today you are going though it.i'm so sorry if my leg was not in plaster i would be there to help you.
good luck for thursday i will be there for you.
((((((((cris)))))))) joan xx

hileena111

Hi Cris
I'm so sorry, I should reply to your posts more often....somehow with being in touch other ways and hearing news I forget to reply to your threads If you cant talk to us or ramble as you put it....who can you talk to?????????....you know we are always here to listen..... Once again I'm sorry

Love
Hileena

suzygirl

Cris, have only just seen this. Am so sorry for you, it seems very unfair that one person has so much going on.


Thinking of you and sending you and the menagerie love and (((hugs))) x

psyart

Hi cris ~ my heart goes out to you ~ not just because you are having bad memories about everything and need to deal with your 'deamons' but also because you had such a bad childhood

but one thing i will say to you now ~ what your parents did to you was NEVER, NEVER your fault ~ do you hear me :?: :?: Children are not asked to be born ~ it is up to the parents to love, nurture, feed, keep warm etc them untill they are able to leave the home and look after themsleves as adults. Things that happen in our childhoods do affect our lives but its up to us as adults to decide if we take the wrong or right paths ~ you have taken the right path and this has made you the amazing woman you are today ~ who has had the strength to cope with the biggest lumps of poo life has decided to drop on you :!:

Remember ~ you have helped so many people on here to cope with a condition that is so mis#understood and effects us in so many different ways No matter what poo is on you ~ you are always there for us, caring and sharing your love :!:

Ok ~ lecture over Please take care of yourself and i am sending loads cotton wool hugs over the hills ~ hope they dont get too wet in this horrid rain and wind

Louise xxxx

PS ~ thank you Toni for lettin us know ~ was getting bit worried about Cris :!: xx

minky67

Hi Cris, As you know im on the rollercoaster with my dads illness so i know some of the emotions you have been going through. I didnt have a great childhood either but nowhere near as bad as yours :sad:

You have been a great friend to me & others here. You have a beautiful soul so dont be too hard on yourself.
You listen & give advice even when your poorly yourself. Im not good with words but you know where im coming from.

Take some time out for yourself & grieve in your own way.

Sending huge buckets of hugs & feel better drafts.
luv debs

valval

that so right. you need time to grieve and get your head around it all, never mind how old you are or what went before every change takes time to get used to. but as we have all told you we are here for you with hugs and chocolate val

roses1

Hi Cris,

As everyone has said take it easy on yourself and as a child you are NOT responsible for an adults actions. Any one can be a parent it takes someone special to be a MOM , DAD! It may help you to write it all down in a book at home from earliest memories to present day. Then close the book!

We are all here for you whenever you need us and even if you dont Life can be cruel at times with cruel people in it! But then you can find the wonderful support of others. It restores a little faith in knowing that all people are not bad! You forgave your father which must of been such a very hard thing to do. He has past on, do not let it spoil the rest of your life, you have enough to contend with! Even though you will grieve, please dont punish yourself , you are in no way to blame for any of your past!


I shall be on dragon duty with sticky! crutch missiles at the ready as they not much use to me!

sending buckets of anti cold tea (that is tea that always stays hot not really it tea to keep the colds away!)
Lots of cake , hugs and strength xx

dachshund

Hi Cris.
i'm so sorry who seem to have all the problems going and you are so brave with it all.
i send you ((((((((cris)))))))) to help you through the day.
take care. joan xx

ironic

Hi Cris,
I wish the sun would come out for you flower in more ways than one. It is so difficult to keep things in the box at these times. I hope you are still being allowed to stay one step back from it all. People have a public persona which is hard to see through and very carefully guarded. Don’t let it get to you Cris you are who you are despite everything and we are all sending you lots of support and love at this awful time.
I hope your appointment on Thursday gives you some good results with the never ending cold. And yes those rocks are a bit on the slippy side. Where was Sid when you needed him??
Hugs as always,
Lv, I x

hileena111

Hi Cris,
I'll be thinking of you on Thursday and hoping that they can sort out this cold/mtx thingey please please!!!!!!
As for your dragons ....my crutches will come in handy for them wont they???? I dont need both of them at one time now so I can balance on one and use the other one to swipe them away :lol Sending love petal....and tea as well and lots of hugs (((())))))): Love
Hileena

tillytop

Evening Cris

Just saying "hello" and that I am thinking of you. As the others have said, I really do hope that you have a good appt on Thursday - and it does sound as if the chest x-ray would be a wise idea. You never cease to amaze me Cris, by how you continue to support others when things are so difficult for you and how you manage to maintain your sense of humour. I have this mental picure of you fighting off the cats and the half sheared (shorn?) sheep! Sending love and ((()))s and the deer is on his way with tea and CDM (and strict instructions not to eat half of it on the way )

Loads of love Tilly xxx

bertyboy

early morning hugs Cris , i hope you are getting rest and your mind is relaxing also , i hope they can sort your chest out and make things easier , sorry i have not been about as much but i do think about you , just you be proud of who you are , your love for life knows no bounds as you have shown so many time with your beloved animals , my thoughts are with you xx

whalewatcher

Hi Cris

Despite of your childhood you have grown into a beautiful, loving, strong woman. Be proud of yourself and what you have achieved. Take all the love people are sending you & let it lift the pain & sadness you are carrying. Let the dragons get smaller until they vanish in a puff of smoke.

Thinking of you lots & sending you some sunshine.

Love

Val

frogmorton

Hi All

Checked in on Cris because she hasn't been on yet today.

She IS ok, but not so well........quite rough to be honest (good job she is going to the docs thursday eh?!).

She has promised to do her best to 'buck up' as she puts it and get in later, but would l please THANK you all

So THANK YOU everyone The messages have been sooo touching - you lot - well us lot really are wonderful

Love and hugs

Toni xx

barbara12

Cris
I do hope the doc can help on Thursday, you are certainly getting your share of shift....I will be with you, sending my very best vibes...and buckets full of tonic...
You take care my love..x

hileena111

Thanks Toni,
I was just about to pm her because I hadnt heard from her when I read your message
Hope she does get THIS COLD :???: :???: as she calls it sorted out on Thurs

Love
Hileena

mp1952

Hi CRis

I can only reiterate what other peeps have said to you..

you were IN NO WAY to blame for what went on when you were a child..Thank goodness for your wonderful Nan.. You clearly 'take after her'.

I do hope things settle down for you over the next few weeks..


Marion xx

valval

hi cris just popped in to let you know am thinking of you and do hope you are resting a bit val

frogmorton

[Thank goodness for your wonderful Nan.. You clearly 'take after her'.


Marion xx[/quote]


Marion you are RIGHT!

I have met Cris many times and she HAS to take after her because she is lovely

Will keep an eye today if she doesn't get on.

Love

toni xx

stickywicket

Morning skezier. I seem to have a bit of cope and energy going spare so I've parcelled it up and am sending it first class pigeon your way. Hope it arrives intact.

dachshund

Hi Cris.
i hope things are getting a bit easer for you.good luck for tomorrow i will be thinking of you and i hope you get some help
with your pain.
please take care((((((((cris))))))))
joan xx