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  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I am thinking about you Tony ((((()))) xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • joanlawson
    joanlawson Member Posts: 8,681
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Big hugs from me too,Tony ((((((( ))))))) I'm thinking about you, and hope you are coping.

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  • deedeeitsme
    deedeeitsme Member Posts: 321
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My thoughts and prayers are with you and yours this very sad time.

    ((((((((hugs)))))))) to you all x Dee x
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Dear Tony and Family


    Please accept my deepest Sympathies obn the loss of your dad .


    fowls (((((((((((((((())))))))))))))))xxxxx
  • georgie66
    georgie66 Member Posts: 403
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    tony,
    my sympathies go out to you and your family
    our prayers are with you at this sad time.
    take care
    georgie
  • bubbadog
    bubbadog Member Posts: 5,544
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony, what can I say but I send my love to you, Janet and your family. My thoughts are with you at this terribly sad time. xxx
  • ruby2
    ruby2 Member Posts: 423
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to read this..my sincere condolences Tony.
    x
    Ruby
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thank you once again for the wonderful messages and support.
    We are in Leeds at the minute, brought mum back to see mi grandma in the hospital. Mum was very relieved to see that grandma is doing great.
    We are off back to skeggy this afternoon.

    I'm broken beyond belief but still living on adrenaline (I know DD hun.. But I don't care about me right now xx) and will rest when I can.

    Xxx to you all
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    You have to do what you feel is right Tony.
    Thinking of you,
    Numpty
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I remembered you were going back today - I won't nag, mate, but I am very concerned about you. Don't drain yourself too soon or too quickly, there is still much to be done and organised. [[[]]] DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    xxxxxx :wink: thanks hun
    dreamdaisy wrote:
    I remembered you were going back today - I won't nag, mate, but I am very concerned about you. Don't drain yourself too soon or too quickly, there is still much to be done and organised. [[[]]] DD
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Please take care,I'm missing you and thinking of you and your family.Mega hugs Mig (((((())))))
  • suzygirl
    suzygirl Member Posts: 2,005
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Sorry to hear your news, condolences to you and your family.
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi hon you need to do what you must there is no second chance i know it hard but you know best what you can manage and will cope i know there will be pay back but hope it stays away till things settled.stay strong sending positive energy your way and all the spare spoons i can find val
    val
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony I know it will be hard, but please try and rest in between all that needs doing.....you are in my thoughts (((((())))xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • bounce
    bounce Member Posts: 106
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony and all your family,

    Im so sorry to hear this awful news, I know what you will be feeling like, as I have lost both parents, all I can say is that I am sending all my sympathy, hugs and very warm wishes to you all.

    As a family you will all knit together so firmly, and this is good for you all, just remember all the good times, they will help you bear the heavy burden of loss, its the main thing that keeps you going.

    Once again im so sorry to hear your news and you all will be in my prayers and thoughts,

    Stay Strong, and please look after yourself in particular, and dont forget to eat either !!!

    Julie a.k.a. Mother Hen.
  • queenfan
    queenfan Member Posts: 563
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony so sorry to hear about your sad news, just wanted to let you know my thoughts are with you (())
    Sue xx
  • lindalegs
    lindalegs Member Posts: 5,398
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'm ashamed to say I missed this thread Tony.

    I am so very, very sorry.

    Lots of love, Linda XX
    Love, Legs x
    'Make a life out of what you have, not what you're missing'
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just to say that my thoughts and prayers are still winging their way to you and your family. XX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony,

    I am so sorry to hear the sad news, my heartfelt sympathy to you , Janet and all the family.

    Take care ((((((hugs))))))
    Rose x
  • tillytop
    tillytop Member Posts: 3,460
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Still thinking of you Tony, OGHs (Oxforshire Girly Hugs) coming your way.

    Tilly xxx
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I'll re-inforce those with SGHs. [[[]]] DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    What else can I say but thank you?

    This is a wonderful thread.. I keep reading through it again and again..

    We are now back in skegness.. Came back over yesterday. There is so much to sort out. Most of which cannot be sorted out until we get the death certificate..
    It us ridiculous how much they want to charge to bury him. The cemetery in Leeds wanted to charge double for the plot and the internment because he wasn't living in Leeds.. He had spent almost sixty years there.. His mother and step father, also brother are all buried there.. We had to compile a letter to them explaining all this so that they would not charge the double fee.


    I've spent the day in bed today, and had a rest. I think the last month has been auto pilot led..
    The joints are totally flaring.. As expected..

    I hope that you are all as well as can be...
    And the hugs are gratefully received
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
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    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • stickywicket
    stickywicket Member Posts: 27,764
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    tjt6768 wrote:
    The cemetery in Leeds wanted to charge double for the plot and the internment because he wasn't living in Leeds.

    I think this is standard practice, Tony. We had it from Blackpool when Mr SW's Mum died over here, despite the fact that she had lived there for years and would be going in the same grave as her husband and it was all bought and paid for.

    The rule is, one charge for local ratepayers and another for anyone else. I guess it makes a kind of sense as the ongoing upkeep will be paid for by local ratepayers.

    I'm glad you're resting. Long may it continue. ((()))
    If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you.
    Steven Wright
  • Christimay
    Christimay Member Posts: 112
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi tony the rest is essential as grief affects us mentally as well as physical you have had so much to do and with all the driving you have had to do this would wear anyone down but with an adding of RA as you know it will floor you! Just make sure that you have a rest when you can, sending you and yours much love and sympathy from a small NE corner in Scotland xxxxxxxxx

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