Tony's Dad.

julie47

Hi Tony

I am still thinking alot about you and your family

Please take care

Love and hugs (((((()))))))
juliepf x

dibdab

Hi Tony,

Just wanted to say I'm still thinking of you and sending gentle hugs- lost my dad 4 years ago and still miss him hugely, so my heart goes out to you and yours-it's that terrible feeling of helplessness when you can't put things right for them that is so hard to come to terms with. Do take care of yourself- your dad isn't suffering any longer, he will be at peace and at rest and part of him will live on in you.Hope things sort out more today.
Blessings

Deb

Suestpeters

So sorry Tony, thinking of you x

tjt6768

thank you all..

We are now sat having a cuppa halfway home. The un helpful people in skeggy registry office would only give us an out of hours emergency appointment on thursday afternoon but admitted that it would have been sooner if we had been of a different religion.. I am disgusted beyond belief.. And will be complaining later. In the meantime Janet has arranged for am appointment tomorrow morning in Leeds at the registry office near us. Bit of bloody difference.... :x
So, we are heading back home. And hopefully we will be seeing the funeral directors tomorrow afternoon and things can start moving forward.

Please please please don't ever get ill in Lincolnshire...

julie47

Hi Tony and Janet
Rest up as much as poss when you get home it is a long drive and tomorrow looks as though its gonna be another busy one.

Take care
Love Juliepf x

joanlawson

I'm glad that you've returned to Leeds, Tony. The registry office there sounds much more efficient, but then it's run by Yorkshire folk, isn't it?

You will feel better to be back in your own home and you will be able to plan your Dad's funeral now.
Take care
Joanxx

tjt6768

cheers girls
I've been trying to sleep since coming rip bed at around eight o'clock... :roll:
Full dose of meds onboard plus a diazepam... Not much chance yet..
At least I have my furry purry pillow back.. I think he's missed us just a little lol.
He went mad when we walked in and hasn't left my side since bless him.
He was so pleased to see us he started drooling like a boxer dog :shock: Lol
For those of you wondering what the Hell I'm on about, it's our super cat Ra, aka the Great White Dope.

He was laid across my feet a minute ago, now he's in his spot just above my head where my pillow should be... I get relegated further down the bed I've missed the big silly lad..

Oh, I'm sooooooo sooooooo tired and I hurt sooooooo bloody much.. I just wish that things would have gone smoother in skeggy. Mum has been distraught.. Hopefully tomorrow we should be able to get enough documentation to take with us to thee funeral directors in the afternoon. Then we may be able to set a date finally.
Mum wants everyone to wear something nice and bright, no morose clothing etc.. And where possible, Leeds United shirts. I dare say there will be many of those on the day.
I've got mine.. Just need to go have done lettering done.

On the day, would you please lend me any spare spoons that you may have? I've already broken into next months supply and am most of the way through them too. I think once it's all over with I'll collapse for quite a while... Thank God for auto pilot. I have no idea how I've managed to keep going so far. These past few weeks since Dad first became ill have just been a very painful blur..

Right, hopefully the predictive text hasn't made too many mistakes as I can't be bothered checking through it.
Will now attempt to sleep. Thank you for reading my late night mumblings. I blame the drugs lol

G'night one and all.

mig

Hi Tony,Going to lend you my posh spoons from my best set,they have special powers,predictive text is great it's quick and makes me look like I can spell.Chin up mate.Mig

julie47

oooh Tony you were up late.
I hope you are still sleeping at this moment in time on that lovely furry purry pillow.

I will start polishing my spoons and putting a couple away each day so that you have plenty to keep you going.

Take care
(((((((()))))))
Love Juliepf x

valval

will empty the cafe draws of spoons for you we do not use them these days and a bucket of marigolds best for aches.
thinking of you and yours i hope all gets sorted soon and there are loads of leeds shirts and lovely bright colours.
have you got a memories book for people to write there happy moments with your dad in your mum can read it later when she feels strong enough as the day will prob. pass in a blur

fowls48

Hi Tony

You can have all my spoons for the next 2 weeks and untill the end of the year , Chintz is sending hers too and some lovely loud purrring .


karen xx

barbara12

Oh Tony I am so sorry you are being treated like this, I am glad you had your say on other religions, like you say this is discrimination...I do hope you can get some rest before the funeral....and you can have all my spoons..you need them more...love to all of you xx

kellerman

Spoons on there way...to a yorkshire bloke who needs them much more than I do.
I can't believe the rubbish you've had to go through and hope and pray that things are sorted soon.
Please let us know as I have old Leeds shirts that belonged to my brothers I'd be happy to wear one for your Dad.Elland road is the only stadium I've ever been to....way way back and that wasn't for the football it was just to keep an eye on the lads.
Tony...you need to rest. Auto pilot aside once things are sorted there is nothing more you can do and you have a gruelling day ahead.
My thoughts are with you all. May ((((()))))

tkachev

I'm really sorry you have had to put up with such unfair treatment and it does make the blood boil doesn't it? glad you made your feelings felt.

You will find an inner strength to get through all this I know you will.

Take care
Elizabeth x

tjt6768

I'm sorry to keep repeating myself but THANK YOU!

The spoons will be treasured and gratefully accepted...

We had an appointment with the registrar in Leeds this morning, talk about worlds apart with the way they were. It was a young lass and she was great. Very very helpful. We were then able to go to an appointment with the funeral directors... We actually have a date
So, if I may be so bold, could I ask anyone with a Leeds United top if they would wear them on the 28th of this month for my Dad.. Mid afternoon funeral.
I cannot express the relief we are beginning to feel. I know there are still hard times ahead but at least now we know we are moving forward.

The support on here has been incredible.. You are a wonderful bunch of folks and I truly hope I can repay each one of you in some way...

suzygirl

Tony, I have only just caught up with this. You have had such a nightmare, at a time when you need everything to go smoothly. I can't believe that man laughed :shock: it is outrageous

I hope from here on everything runs like clockwork for you.

Try and get some rest when you can. ( I used to work with a lad who was a leeds united supporter )

JuliaHod12

Hi Tony
I'll be in your pocket on 28th, complete with Leeds Utd top (borrowed), hope all goes well.
We are having my FIL's funeral on 20th August at 12.15,having had none of the devastating problems you have encountered, just a blimmin long wait for a crem slot! :-(

Hugs & Spoons coming your way mate xxx

valval

not got leeds shirt but have scarf so will wear that and be thinking of you all glad things are settled val

diamond

Sorry to hear about the disgusting treatment you received Tony.Playing the waiting game is horrible it is almost a relief when the funeral is over and our loved one is laid to rest.I will be thinking of you and your family on the 28th.Try to rest up not easy i know as you are on a emotional rollercoaster at this difficult time.Sending Hugs to all who are grieving((( )))

Numptydumpty

Tony, I will be thinking of you on the 28th.
Please take care of you.
((((()))))
Numpty

joanlawson

Even more spoons from me, Tony :!: I hope they will help.



It's really good to hear that things are going more smoothly for you at last. You have had a dreadful few weeks, so thank goodness you found someone helpful in Leeds registry office.

Ra will be so happy to have you home again. He must have been missing you so much.
Love from me, and big purrs from Tommy......wuff from Venus too ( did you know that we now have my son's dog as well ? )

julie47

Morning Tony

I am pleased to read that the registrar was so kind and helpful and that now you have an actual date. I haven't got a Leeds shirt but I will be thinking about you all on the 28th

Take care
Love and another spoon (hey them of joans are cool eh? )
Juliepf xx

kellerman

Oh Tony.....At least some relief now you can relax a little.....you have to relax a little otherwise you'll be no good to anyone on the day.
What more can you do?
Its going to be a hard dreadful day for you all. Give yourself a little me time now. You deserve it.
Leeds shirt at the ready......not this seasons,in fact from way back but I'll wear it anyway.
Take care May ((((()))))

tjt6768

that's wonderful folks..
May, my t-shirt is a retro one

barbara12

Tony I am so glad you have come across someone that has treated you right and respectfully.
I dont have a Leeds shirt, but I will be thinking about you and your family on the day...dont forget you have one another and all of us...love to all of you xxx