Tony's Dad.

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  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Glad the pred is helping. It is difficult not to overdo things in the circumstances but please do try. There is plenty of time to do something for your anniversary later. It's good to hear of someone who has spent so many happy years together.
    Christine
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Oooh, jammy dodgers.. Thank you hun.

    Me and Janet are without doubt soulmates... She is everything to me. Dunno how I would cope without her.

    We have just pulled up to our favorite cafe in Skeggy.. Nice pot if tea n summat to eat.

    I had a bad night the night before last.. Horrible dreams about mi Dad. Poor bugger suffered so much with pain that morning.
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hope the sun comes out in Skeggy today ,it's pretty dull in nottm.
    You probally wont believe me at the moment but the bad dreams will fade with time and it does take a while,then you can remember the happier times.Your Janet seems like a lovely lady you are indeed a lucky man.Hugs to all Mig
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I apologise for being AWOL this week, we've had a lot going on in the DD household. I hope the pred is helping to give an over-all boost (it won't touch the OA, let's face it not much does) and I am sorry that your anniversary hasn't happened as such but I am sure that you will be able to do something special in the future when this current situation has drawn to a close. Rest as much as you can when you can, OK? DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Cheers :wink:
    I'm currently sat with mi feet up in the caravan after a mad dash to arg0$ for the last cheap bagless vac... Might actually encourage folks to vac a bit better when they leave. The old I've didn't really do much top be honest but some people dint even try :roll:

    The pred is helping a fair bit DD mi lovely... Elbows have settled, knees are not ballooned at the minute either.. Got a bit more energy but spare spoons are still very welcome.
    Lost £160 with the hotel.. I doubt they would have done much but I couldn't be bothered begging them..

    I truly hope everyone is as good as possible..

    YBH's to all :D
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • julie47
    julie47 Member Posts: 6,041
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Still thinking of you all Tony

    Keep them feet up as long as you can, hopefully with a nice cup o' tetleys :D

    love Juliepf x
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I've had a few cups of tetleys and a decent snooze. The storm has only just started to move on, had thunder and lightening since around noon..
    Didn't get on too well with arthur :roll:

    Thanks Julie hun.
    I hope you're alright? I know you've not been so well lately.
    Xxx
    julie47 wrote:
    Still thinking of you all Tony

    Keep them feet up as long as you can, hopefully with a nice cup o' tetleys :D

    love Juliepf x
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I've had a few cups of tetleys and a decent snooze. The storm has only just started to move on, had thunder and lightening since around noon..
    Didn't get on too well with arthur :roll:

    Thanks Julie hun.
    I hope you're alright? I know you've not been so well lately.
    Xxx
    julie47 wrote:
    Still thinking of you all Tony

    Keep them feet up as long as you can, hopefully with a nice cup o' tetleys :D

    love Juliepf x
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    the storms have been a bit much today hope that life much better soon rest up ((())) val
    val
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    cheers Val.
    I've rested this evening. Sat and watched Pirates of the Caribbean again.. Not much else on tv.
    Early night tonight.
    My cousin (Dad's nephew) who lives in Mablethorpe is coming tomorrow morning..
    He can't make the funeral unfortunately so he's coming to Mum's to see us.
    valval wrote:
    the storms have been a bit much today hope that life much better soon rest up ((())) val
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Storms have cleared in nottm too,hope you have a good sleep.Mig
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    It's so lovely to hear people are with their soulmate. Mig is right when she said the bad dreams will pass. Glad you are managing to rest a bit. I watched Pirates tonight again (and again and again).
    Christine
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    This has a been a long wait for the funeral. This cannot be easy for you.

    The funeral will be your chance to honour and remember your Dad. Its the day you never want to happen and it is so final. I'm feeling very sad for you and Janet and my thoughts will be with you. I'm hoping all that hassle is behind you and you can focus on giving him the send off he deserves.

    It is a shame about the hotel. It is a small possibility they were able to re let it but it was probably too late and I can understand why you couldn't face it.

    Just lost partners uncle (heart attack while driving so crashed his car as well)and because it is bank holiday weekend they can't do a death certificate until Tuesday! and then need to do a post mortem because of the crash). So about to experience all the delays and bureaucracy too. I wonder if that is the case with everybody?

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • bubbles
    bubbles Member Posts: 6,508
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I know what a difficult and strange time this can be. Matron's orders to take lots of care. Count me in for full time pocket duties if needs be. XX Bubbles
    XX Aidan (still known as Bubbles).
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    home again now..
    Bless you all once more.. Im resting up again. Knees started to swell up after the drive but they're settling down again..

    Elizabeth, I'm really sorry to hear about your loss hun. I hope that you and the family don't have a great deal of hassle and delays luv..

    We are expecting a great turn out for Dad. He was a well liked fella...
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    tjt6768 wrote:
    home again now..
    Bless you all once more.. Im resting up again. Knees started to swell up after the drive but they're settling down again..

    Elizabeth, I'm really sorry to hear about your loss hun. I hope that you and the family don't have a great deal of hassle and delays luv..

    We are expecting a great turn out for Dad. He was a well liked fella...


    got a feeling you take after him pal rest those knees val
    val
  • tjt6768
    tjt6768 Member Posts: 12,170
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    thanks Val hun :wink:
    e050.gifMe-Tony
    n035.gifRa-1996 -2013 RIP...
    k040.gif
    Cleo - 1996 to 2011. RIP
  • LignumVitae
    LignumVitae Member Posts: 1,972
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony,

    I really hope your knees settle down and de-swell. Thinking of you and yours, you are doing remarkably well given the trials you have all faced. It seems phenomenal how hard bureaucracy has made the whole thing...as if it wasn't hard enough to face in the first place.
    I keep sending you spoons.
    Lots of love and hugs,

    LV xx
    Hey little fighter, things will get brighter
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Tony I will be thinking about you tomorrow, it will be so very hard, but your dad will help you through it ....I know my parents did....
    Sending loads of hugs ((((((())))) xx
    Love
    Barbara
  • dreamdaisy
    dreamdaisy Member Posts: 31,520
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    [[[]]] DD
    Have you got the despatches? No, I always walk like this. Eddie Braben
  • PatriciaH
    PatriciaH Member Posts: 77
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony,

    Just want to send heartfelt love to you, Janet and your mum. This is such a very, very difficult time for you all. Just stay close all of you. You sound like such a loving family, Tony. You are a brilliant bloke who is thought of very fondly on here - keep that in your heart to help you through...x
  • Numptydumpty
    Numptydumpty Member Posts: 6,417
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Tony,
    I hope your knees are feeling better today. You can always rely on the old Arthritis to kick you when you're down!
    Still thinking of you,
    Numpty ((((()))))
  • fowls48
    fowls48 Member Posts: 1,357
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hey Tony

    Sorry your knees are playing up hope they settle down soon ((()))xxxx


    karen .
  • valval
    valval Member Posts: 14,911
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    hi pal thinking of you all will have my leeds badge on tomorrow you are in my thoughts val
    val
  • 7worlds
    7worlds Member Posts: 302
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hey Tony, Will be thinking of you tomorrow. God bless.

    7worlds