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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) Do you think you will have a new neighbour soon. I hope doesn’t have a cat. We have a nice sunny week. Sorry you had rain. Have a good day
Toni (()) I’m sorry your arm is still giving you pain (()) sorry you had rain we have had warm weather since last week. Friday will be colder. Barbara said she’s been waiting since January for a white stick. Have a good day. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) that’s good you and your mum (()) don’t need your Dad’s cold. Have a good day.
take care
joan xx1 -
hi Toni
How are you this afternoon?
My morning started off a bit ookey
As it’s totm time again 🤢🤢
Had some gluco - zade
Which helped my energy levels but not my mood
Don’t worry no peri menopausal type excitement
But just feeling a bit of low mood
Not so bad now thanks
But I think today it’s vital I keep busy and use the energy before it’s gone
Mums ok now👍
L’ s party went well
Full message to follow hopefully
👋 Joan and toady
Well ovedue ablutions time
Bye tc xx
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sorry pressed wrong button lol
But Toni did you see LA’s artwork from yesterday?
Xx
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Hi all 😊 what a very very nice day.
Yes how right you were frog, spot on, Sleek & I have made the bed up this very day 😺 she has pronounced herself more than 'catisfied' - I will see if I can take a couple of tiny moodboard-esque pics, seeing as it will never be this new & tidy again 😄. All her hard work was much appreciated 👍️ if needs be we can now bolt into the micro-hideyhole. The unsettling things, were that not only was someone next door which is bad enough, it was all very odd 🤔. Chap turned up Sat (never seen him before), opened a couple of windows, and went again. Then came back later to close them I assumed but no, creaked around indoors for a bit and then as far as I could tell slept over 😮 in what is an unfurnished house as far as I know. And not in the biggest room, which is further away, or the littlest one like mine, no, the one on the other side of the wall to me 😬 thank you Goldilocks 🙄. Yesterday, moved on to sitting in the garden smoking, facing my fence 🤷♀️ go figure. Went out for most of day, came back quite late and I presume stopped over again. Here today on & off. Current theories; airing house for owners; owner is letting random friends stay there if they've rowed with their wives; try before you buy (hope not!!). Updates as I get them! Hope your day has been good but v. sorry to hear the arm is playing up 😕 blah. Glad you got a walk in yesterday without rain. Love to all and hope things ok with everyone, take care 😘 xx
Hello Joan, yes the mattress men should have tapped, especially as such a big deal was made of explaining on the website how it worked, and how you would be kept closely informed, and all that, I expected this marvellous careful delivery system 🙄. Sorry about your tv too, not good it might be in the way as well. Or they should at least have told you what to expect. Lovely and sunny here today too 😊 have put washing out and done some bits & pieces. I can't see how the person next door can be the new owner but who knows 🤷♀️ if I had got pally with the current owners I'd get all the inside information, so that's my lookout I suppose 😄. Definitely didn't look like a cat person anyway! Have a good evening :) xx
Hi bosh, love the fairy rings 😊 so so pretty. I don't suppose I have fairies at the bottom of the garden but then again it's quite dense and overgrown there, so who knows, I just may never catch sight of them. I am just catching up with things like the arthritic ode 👍️ excellent, as is LAs artwork, what a good idea using Rubik's for drawing hints & tips 👍️ didn't think about that for some reason. I remember drawing books I used to have where you copied a pic onto the opposite page. Hope things not too bad with you today aside from asstd 'factors', and your mum's bs is steady. No new handbag yet but when I do I will be sure it has a suitable inside fork pocket as well as a cabbage section 😄 good idea. The odd person is still next door at the moment, opening & closing doors and whatnot, so here's a question, I've never shut a room door in my life - I mean yes bathroom doors or if there's a draught and I think something will bang, but not just every room every time I go in or out all day, is that strange? 🤔 Hmm. Have a good evening and I will take some knitted cake with my next cup of tea, there are things on al fresco with worse reviews than just 'a bit woolly' to be honest 😄. Bye for now 👋 :) xx
Love to all 😘 xx
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hi everyone
Sorry just pretty shattered today
Even gluco - zade didn’t help as much as it should’ve done
Normal service will hopefully be resumed tomorrow lol
Goodnight everyone tc xx
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Morning Everyone ❤️
Joan how are you today?
I am doing my arm exercises properly again will do gof a couple of weeks then go back to physio.
poor Barbara that's so bad waiting since January 😢
Morning Reshmi oh dear me o am sorry you will be feeling rubbish atm😕 glucozade good idea. Hope at least your Mum is OK.
Low mood I knowis understandable but not fair at all I do sympathise. Just get through it. As Dreamdaisy used to say 'it will pass'. That's all you can do. Rest more and if you can try to get out for your walk.
My goodness me LA'S artwork gets better and better. Kari would be impressed!
Take care Reshmi today should be better ((())) xxx
Morning Toady
Yes please a small pic of yours and Sleeks hard work would be lovely. I am sure it sounds more than catisfactory👍
What very very strange goings on next door though!
Surely not try before you buy....what age was the man? Their age? Maybe he has had relationship issues and is having respite🤔 All very odd. If it was his house though he could smoke inside so at least sounds temporary. Phew!!
Weather not so bad is it? Oootside again today at least for a while all being well.
Sleek said her glass against the wall did nothing he didn't talk to himself.....
Well take care Toad get sleuthing!
Kettle's on😊
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) I hope your new neighbour is not one of those who comes and asks for a bowl of sugar. Have a good day. It is fine all week so they say just colder after Thursday.
Toni (()) Barbara said her husband is fitter than she is and he doesn’t have any vegetables. Have a good day. How is everyone. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) have a good day and your mum (())
take care
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hi Toni Joan and toady
How are you all?
mums bs is okBut dad isn’t well
V high blood pressure etc
Taxi is coming soon to take mum and dad to the hospital
Mum wants me to stay here
Bye for now tc xx
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Oh dear, bosh 😧 sorry to hear, all the best, keep us posted will be popping in & out 😘🤞☕️ xx
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hi Joan Toni and toady
how are you all?
Dad is back home now thankfully
He had stomach issues and very high blood pressure
At the hospital the doctor said the stomach problem wasn’t serious and he needs to see GP about the blood pressure medicine
Mum said his pains started feel less when he was in the taxi on the way to hospital
I’m very tired - bad totm on top of everything else- but otherwise ok thanks so much
Have an ok night everyone bye for now tc xx
Ps fairy portal or something- that toady got inside my brain again lol xx
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Hi all, just a quick hello - glad to hear things are more settled with you & family bosh.
Bit of a difficult day, didn't sleep well, and am now 99% certain next door has sold presumably to this person and (who knows how large) family. Worst case scenario for me tbh for various reasons so am feeling v stressed this evening 😔 yes I have one private boxroom but joking aside it's no way to live, will feel really inhibited in every other room and of course the garden. Sigh.
Hope everyone else ok today, back in due course if I haven't packed my red spotted hanky & set off for the wild blue yonder 👋 xx
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Morning Joan. How are you today? I hope feeling OK and the dogs are well too.
Typical that Barbara does all the right things and her husband eats no veg but is the healthiest 🙄
His hips all recovered now then? That's good then he can help Barbara 😊 Take care Joan ((())) xxx
Morning Reshmi
I hope you are OK and totm is not too bad? What a horrible day for you yesterday.
Better really to have stayed at home but more worrying. I'm so glad it all turned out to be much less serious than it sounded. Although your Dad had better get to the Drs and sort out his high BP this week.
Poor man wouldn't wish thst on anyone.
I do hope you get to the group today you need some time just for yourself now Reshmi. Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Toady
I hope you're OK and sleeping alright with this stress.
Let's have everything crossed the man has no children and you don't have a trampoline next door.
Interesting he is alone so far. Makes me think it is a divorce situation possibly 🤔 especially no furniture or other family to be seen so far. What age roughly is he?
Sleek is looking for empty properties in our village. Shame you can't move next door here kill 2 birds with one stone.
Thinking of you very much and hoping he is a good quiet neighbour. You need to show your presence more stake your territory especially outside.
Take care Toad huge ((()))
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good morning Toni
Wppl xx
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) Having one man next door is better than a noisy family. Unless the others are moving in later. Have a good day. There is a spare bedroom here.
Toni (()) how are you. Have a good day. Love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) sorry you had the worry of your Dad going up the hospital. That’s good he’s back home (()) love to your mum (())
take care
joan xx1 -
Toni (())
Sorry to mention it but I’m worried because you haven’t mentioned Annie Charley and the baby (()) I’m sorry to say.
take care
joan xx0 -
hi Toni Joan and toady
How are you all?
Thanks about dad
Mums ok
But she has kidney check up today
Went to group
But totm is still raging
Still so tired sorry
Need to shower
Bfn tc xx
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Hi all, nice day, or it would be in other circs 🙄
I'm sure Joan is exactly right frog, this is the advance party for a family. I never had hopes of a single person they aren't single person houses, but there was still a decent chance of getting quiet people and/or no kids, think I'm going to get neither (excitable & loud on his mobile and slams doors for a startoff 😕). Age I don't know, 40s maybe. Unless he is divorced + kids I'm braced for the whole works. There will be no territory staking I'm afraid sorry 😳, (well unless he wants to start chopping boundary trees down & even then I don't put my money on me); I don't want to see or hear them and I don't want to be seen or heard, simple as. Gardening will be when they are out. Call it giving others the dominant hand but all I want is quiet having had my share of noise & annoyances & funny neighbours round here, nothing drastic in comparison to some ofc, but scaled down for one small sensitive poorly person it's been enough. Yes a quick flit next to you please, now is the time 😄 just have to wait and see now. I would certainly move given the chance but not practical unfortunately certainly not at short notice. Hope everything ok as poss with you and you have this nice weather today & tomorrow, bit nasty after that - buckets of rain over the weekend, I was hoping to see a friend I haven't met up with for 4 years 🙄. Enough moaning already? 😬 Take care love to all, sorry I'm a bit too strung out for proper chat atm; thanks for the hugs & good wishes maybe fate will still come up with a twist 🤷♀️ xx
Hello Joan bless you I will be ok here I expect, things could be so much worse I'm sure they won't be actually nasty neighbours like some have, and I'm not stuck in a mouldy flat or something, I do have options (sort of 😬) compared to some so ought not complain. I do think there will be family to follow though like you say you are spot on I think. Hope you have some sun tomorrow looks very nice 👍️ but then colder like you said and wet with it 😕. I tried to book my boilerman in to get it over with he is away all this week and part of next 🤷♀️ lucky I don't have a problem with it or anything. Thanks for the kind wishes love to you & the dogs 🐾 :) xx
Hi bosh glad things aren't too bad hope your mum's check up is/was ok and then your dad's GP sorts him out with suitable meds. Well done making it to group when it's not the bext time for you 👍️ hope you get a quiet couple of days now. Will pop in later for tea maybe if not I've gone through the fairy portal (I wish!) and far far away from anywhere peopley. Take care bye for now 👋 xx
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hi Toni Joan and toady
How are you all tonight?
Totm is still going strong
My back is aching a lot - due to totm
So I’ll resist the temptation to wax lyrical etc
Have a good night everyone and take care xx
Ps vampire nurses’ convention or something lol xx
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Hope you have a good night bosh less back-achy tomorrow. Tea anytime I will probably be having one myself - I've just noticed I have the same tea tray as in your pic 😊 so I can serve up in matching style. xx
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Morning Everyone ❤️
Joan how are you and the dogs doing
Sorry i haven't updated lately,but all is going well as far as we know with the baby. Set to be induced on 12th next month so very soon!
I have got so much stuff!
Take care ((()))
Morning Reshmi
How are you this morning? Hope totm is easing off?
Did you say how your Mum got on at her check up? I'm sure they were pleased with her she looks after herself so well👍
No need to post lots when you feel rough😒
Has your Dad made an appt at the Drs yet about his BP? I hope so.
Loved the scary nurses convention photo 😮😮😮
Take care ((())) xxx
Morning Toady.
I do hope you are OK and get to see your friend that would do you ( does all of us) a lot of good.
I think your new neighbour is a divorced man . May have weekend children but given his probable age likely they won't be tiny so paws crossed no trampolines. I genuinely think this. No woman would let her bloke chose a house on his own or stay the nights without her. Also our old decorator did much the same when he and his wife split.
You certainly do deserve peace you really do I am so sorry thos has happened its not right that you've had to prepare the smallest roon as a bolt hole. I feel very cross too 😒
Sleek is livid as you can imagine sge saw that garden as part of yours therefore hers. She intends to gather up her cat possy to go and poo over that side🤭🤭🤭
I was hoping for just one more dry day before the rain comes....
Take care extra ((()))
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Good morning everyone
Toady (()) perhaps the man who’s moved in next door needs peace and quiet. He must have thought you were a quiet neighbour. Have a good day.
Toni (()) I was worried something was wrong with the baby and you were mad with me for mentioning it. My friend his taking her cat to have her claws cut tomorrow morning Sadie won’t use the scratching post she an in door cat. Have a good day love to Paul (()) and Charley (()) and Annie (()) and Lucy (()) and Tia (()) and Kari (()) and your friend (()) and your lovely neighbours (())
Reshmi (()) how is your mum (()) and Dad (()) you take care (())
take care
joan xx1 -
hi everyone
Mum is ok
And dad
I had a bad night
Blocked nose sore throat etc
Still not feeling too good
Doc has changed dosage for mum
Bye for now tc xx
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Hi all 😊 was up earlyish putting out 2 charity bags 👍️😀 so have got on with a few things and thought I'd pop in for elevenses.
We might get today dry frog? 🤔 Sat looks slightly not as bad as when I last checked but Sun still a horror 😱 Sleek will need her waterproofs. Thank you & she for the moral support and um plans for 'direct action' 💩😹. I am trying to calm down a little, having got things out of my system; look on the black side first is my motto, then anything less than my worst fears is a bonus 😬. After all someone is as entitled to be next door as I am here and quite likely more so, they may be salt of the earth & actual useful human beings 😉 they might also be hoping for someone nicer & more welcoming as neighbours than a vinegary recluse 😄. Have had a long time with no-one there at all, and was v glad of it, couldn't go on forever 😔. I know what you mean about the divorced theory but also family may well not be in the country for example so it could be a 'go on ahead get house & a job' situation (he does seem to be keeping work hours now more or less). That's my working theory for now anyway. My 'difficult' other neighbour is due new people sometime too, what's the betting they don't get the short straw 🤨. Anyway onward & upward, empty up & pack more charity bags, and plot my escape 😉😂. Hope things not too bad with you and pleased to hear all's well with mother & froglet 👍️. Anything much going on in the village at the moment? & in garden? Not that many birds around but I did hear an owl last night 🦉. Just tidying up for me mainly, my toms are still 'turning' so I may get some at least. And the lime petunias have gone on & on & on, have been so pleased with them 😊. Have a good day take care 👋 :) xx
Hello Joan, yes they won't get a quieter neighbour than me; so just my luck they will want someone friendly and chatty, that's life 😬. We'll see. I was really hoping nothing would happen til after Christmas but it's been on the market a long time so that was rather a faint hope. Sun is shining here will have to make the most of it and get outdoors. Hope all's well will you go to town tomorrow - I had a delivery yesterday nearly everything there but no white bread, never mind I have brown to go on with. Take care :) xx
Wave to bosh, see you later on I daresay 👋 :) xx
Love to everyone 😘 xx
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hi Toni
How are you this evening?
I’m finally feeling a bit human, not 100% human, but definitely getting there
A very horrible night indeed however
I also didn’t sleep well at all, but did manage eventually to make up the sleep
Mums doc said that she needs a blood test in three weeks to check that the med dosage change is working effectively, so I think that’s good news but mum is a bit apprehensive about the blood test
Dad isn’t too bad at all thanks
But he’s started eating the wrong things again
He had Turkish delight, so I hope he doesn’t hurt his own stomach again
Lorenzo’s party was very boring apparently, everyone behaved well, how disappointing is that lol?
So I’ll have to improvise in true Bosh - manner lol, let’s say that Riley the professional cake and lasagne - licker “did his stuff”, so it was a case of spinach and ricotta sandwiches all round,
ELTB did indeed pop by to say, “ you call this food? Where’s the dosa? Also I’ve been a long haul flight, I’m exhausted, what do you mean LA has drunk all the squash? He’s addicted! He needs to join Squash - a - holics Anonymous, no doubt there” 😱
Yes mum takes very good care of herself - bless her.
Thanks
I think mum has made the appointment for dadBut it’s being taken care of anyway thanks
Yes the plague doctors / nurses / vampire nurses convention lol,
A series that even Digital Pic’n’ Mix hasn’t thought of yet haha
LA and Lorenzo did get told off in real life though, as they were hitting each other in football
The PE teacher said that LA shouldn’t hit people when he’s angry, so he hit his own hand - oh dear 😱
BR is enjoying life, he sometimes has one breakfast at home and one in the nursery!
He also manages to consume two hot chocolates in the morning too - oh the charmed life of a three - year old lol,
No dentist banging down the door, GI Joe not operating outside his jurisdiction haha
That’s great about Annie and Charley’s baby 👍
I have a blood test tomorrow morning by the way, lithium and I’ll sneak a rheumo one in there too I think, a 2 for 1, I call it, not on vegan sausage rolls though Toni, just blood tests lol
I hope you have a good rest of the day too Toni tc xx
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hi Joan
How are you today?
Mum and dad are ok 👍
My cold is better than in the morning thanks
Have a good night tc xx
👋 toady
How are you?
I’m afraid normal service hasn’t quite been resumed lol
But I’m definitely feeling comparatively better
Have a good night and don’t go around licking any veggie lasagne please, you are not Riley
Good night toady tc xx
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