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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello everyone

    We're back and succeeded :) Hips are killing me, but we did it (close on last at 1 hour 30) and got a special cheer as we were the only ones who were pushing someone in a wheelchair. You'll be glad to know I managed my share.

    Barbara I will text you my number too - thanks I will let you know if we are lucky in France. We have had sunshine here - Lucy has caught the sun!!

    Hope you did your ironing Karen??? ;) I am doing nowt going to have a hot shower and get hubby to get a takeaway ;)

    Hi mig - the day has been lovely thanks I loved it :) Hope you did too.

    Can I just say I sincerely hope I have never offended anyone by accidental omission??? Apologies if I have. Oh and unless anyone is actively nasty to me I don't think I will be offended either so don't worry about me :)

    Love to everyone here I love the café and all the folks who use it.

    Toni xxxx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I don't expect people to notice if I'm not posting because it is such a busy forum the trick is not to take it personally. Also we had all those threads previously that went on and on about some who went missing last year( just before the warning thread went up). Quite frankly I can find it distasteful.

    But the 2 people who posted after my post-well they may not have read what I posted.

    Mr O indeed you didn't say Catie said she was upset but its pretty clear you were upset. I was addressing you when I said 'the only time I have been upset'.
    I hope Catie will be well enough to return to AC.

    As usual I am in a rush at weekends but will post more fully later.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I will also be sad to see you go Mr.O. You are quite new and never told us much about your health issues but have enjoyed your presence in the cafe.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Yes Elizabeth MrO was a nice chap - let's hope that's not the last we see of him.

    Hope your weekend has been ok?

    Love

    Toni xxx
  • Catie
    Catie Member Posts: 362
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Everyone,

    I'm afraid MrO has got his wires crossed. It isn't me that's ill, but my hubby's aunt. Sadly, she's had a stroke and things aren't looking good. However, she is 88 and up 'til now has led a very healthy and active life.

    I was surprised at MrO's comments. Personally, I've always felt welcome on the forum and never felt ignored.

    Like Elizabeth, I will miss MrO's presence. Having spoken with him, he is a very nice person and helpful too.

    Anyway, hope everyone is well. We are back and forth between Norfolk and West Sussex at the moment, so I probably won't be posting for a while...So take care :)

    Catie
  • MrOptimist
    MrOptimist Member Posts: 175
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My sincere apologies to Catie for posting information which was not accurate. However, she does understand why the mix-up has happened.

    I will not be posting again because I do feel that my comments were justified. However, I do wish each and every one of you, good health and happiness for the future.
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    MrO

    Please don't disappear it's nice for us to have a male presence here....I think you are a genuinely good person.

    Catie I am so very very very relieved YOU are ok :? a big phew there! I wish your husband's Aunt the very best and hope she makes a good recovery.

    That's a fair journey you are having to make - do try to rest when you can.

    Love to you both

    Toni xxx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Lovely to have you back Catie but so sorry to read about your Aunt.

    Mr O as I understand it you are leaving because you felt Catie was not missed but I have tried to explain why this can and does happen. I'm glad you are not upset Catie and you will be missed in the coming weeks ahead as you look after your Aunt.

    We will look out for you

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    On the brighter side I excelled myself today ,I made ratatouille and we had it with roasted sweet potatoes and venison,think it was the splash of red wine added the finishing touch. Mig
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good morning all, hope there are some leftovers Mig.

    It looks like another sunny day but might need to catch up sleep.
    Have we got any cold drinks in the fridge?
    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Catie I am so very relived you are ok... :) but sorry to hear of your hubby aunt...I was imagining all sorts that could be wrong with you... phew
    But MrO these things happen and I for one am not upset with you...honest. :) I was still in the wrong mentioning people and forgetting Catie's name.. :oops: so please dont go...I do hope you rethink this and come back for a coffee and a chat...
    Mig I am glad you have excelled in the ratatouille , Venison, sweet potatoes...blimey you could open a restaurant.. :D do you want a job in the cafe
    Elizabeth hope the tiredness is staying away and the nits come to that
    Toni your stepdaughter is getting some good training with Cris.. :D
    Karen it good to see you...but dont feel you have to post ...its me that worry's when people go missing..you know what I'm like...
    One GD just gone to school the eldest on is in a children's nursery for two week ..job creation or whatever they call it sorry my brain has gone.
    Today not a clue what Im doing but I have my therapy session on Wednesday at the hospital...were you take all the measurements of your bed toilet chair and whatever...and they go through how to do things when you come home...so that has put my mind at rest..see you all later xxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good luck Barbara. When I had my THR I never had anything sorted before hand and had to be given it all when I was discharged after the op. Just as well they remembered to do the pre-op.

    Hope GD enjoys her work experience.

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Thanks Elizabeth
    I was worried about getting things in place before the op...so I am pleased they do this...NB tells me it is around an hour and half long...and very detailed...x
    Thats the word work experience :lol: thanks for that...
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all,Barbara when you are all done and dusted I will make you a special meal,just let me know what you would like.
    Catie hope your aunt is doing well.
    Just ham salad today with chips on the side,oven chips at that yuk don't like em much but they are healthier .
    Hope you all have a good day.Mig
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all

    It's lovely here again. We have to go and get Tonies bloods done again today. Then do a bit of shopping. I don't know, the girls seem to go through so much food, even before the end of the week we are coming on for empty on food.

    Barbara, I remember having my pre-hip lesson or what ever they call it. And they ended up sending out some bits I needed. In fact, the heightened couch is still with us for Tony.

    Elizabeth, if you need sleep, why don't you have a kip in the garden, in the shade of course. Don't want you burnt again.

    Mig, do you know...I have never tried venison. I am rather boring like that. Only the old usual ones for me.

    To everyone I have forgotten, sorry but you know what my brains like. That's even if I have one any more.

    Have a lovely day everyone in what ever you are going to do.
    Karen xx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I still have my heightened couch Karen but found the toilet seat got in the way for the others so It had to keep being moved which meant I had to keep trying to pick it up before using the loo (and as you know bending is a no no after a THR).
    I also find my cupboards empty fast Karen! and bread and milk is always needing to be topped up.
    The Suns not shining here but I have dropped off to sleep under the apple tree on many occasions. I spent at least 6 hours sitting in the garden yesterday and it was lovely.
    Have had a shock today. I have put on another 7 lbs (strawberries and double cream haven't helped). It doesn't seeem to notice but the scales do not lie so need to start dieting again :oops:

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi everyone :)

    I hope your Granddaughter enjoys her work experience Lucy is doing hers too :? Bless her - far too early after our early start yesterday :roll:

    How nice Barbara mig is going to make you a meal when you get home :D Good that everything will be sorted in your area before you go in. VERY reassuring :) I had nothing like Elizabeth, which really adds to the anxiety :shock:

    No sun here either Elizabeth - wondering if any of it is due to the fire in Smethwick?? It's about 20m away. Oh dear - shame about the extra weight - you are wise to tackle it before it shows.

    Karen I hope Tony gets on ok with his bloods. We always run out of food here too ::) Heaven knows how much I spend on it. Hope YOU are well?

    mig I hope you have a good day today as well :) your ratatouille sounded lovely.....sigh :)

    love

    Toni xxx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening all
    Mig that is very nice of you to make me a meal....I love listening about the meals you are having...
    Karen the sun came out here ...cant believe it.. :D and yes they will be bring all the lifters and frames ...and goodness knows what..brick for under the bed... :lol: How has Tony got on with the bloods...think I have that right :?
    Elizabeth...sitting under the apple tree sound lovely..glad you are enjoying the weather...
    Toni my GD has come to the conclusion she doesn't like kids after working at the nursery...I said to her you used to be one :lol:
    Like I said the sun came out and is still out..and the little birdie are singing away...xxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Just had a look and it seems I wasn't here yesterday. Don't know how that happened. And I kept thinking it was Sunday today. Hope I haven't slept for a whole day. :shock:

    I've had a look through all the posts but can't remember most of what was said.

    I'm glad Catie is ok. Hope you oh's aunt is improving.

    I'm sorry you feel like that Mr O. I hope you can understand what the others have explained.

    Elizabeth, I've been putting weight on too. Icecream is my downfall. I keep telling my self I won't buy it then I do buy some with the intention of only having a little but I eat all of it.

    Hope all is well with Tony's bloods Karen.

    I'm used to oven chips Mig so I enjoy them. Haven't had fried chips in years.

    Sounds as if you are all ready for Wednesday Barbara. Hope it goes well.

    Toni, is that fire you mentioned the one which was started by a Chinese lantern where some of the firemen were hurt? It's awful, isn't it?

    Well the GCs sports day went ahead today. It was really good. All the kids did well. At the end, the teachers did a race and so did all the dads. And to fill in some time, they asked if anyone else wanted to race so groups of the children got up and raced for the fun of it.
    Hope everyone sleeps well tonight.
    Christine
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all
    Christine dont worry I lase many a day... :shock: its getting worse by the min...
    I do love the school sports days...kids are so competitive but the parents are the worse ..I remember all the pushing and shoving... :lol:
    Has anyone seen the weather forecast..I knew it...it say it will be in the high 20s when I have my op and there will be me in the teddie stockings... :roll:
    I am getting some jobs done today,,,we still have half a walls painted up to were I could reach...
    Hope you all have a goodish day...xxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good luck Barbara ,gonna be crowded in your hospital bed with all us lot in with you.
    Belly pork today slow roasted with new potatoes and peas for him and asparagus for me. Mig
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    No rush Mig..Its a week tomorrow... have ordered some extra beds for you all....I have said all along the weather would be hot when I go in... :roll: oh well at least you lot can enjoy... :D
    I'm off again to get something done...honest... :lol:
    Love
    Barbara
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My problem seems to be Ice cream and crisps Applerose but honestly half a stone is a lot for me to put on so quickly as I've been hovering around 13 stone for several years now. Usually I put 2-3 lbs on and lose it same week.

    I wonder how Coco is? and hope Catie is coping with the long journey.

    Did you run in the parents race then Applerose?

    We had some rain earlier but good for the flowers so don't mind too much.

    Toni, will Skezier ever get back on AC. I do miss her,

    Hope everyone has a good day
    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening all

    I am late today. Been to meetings and taken H to physio. It was her last one today.

    Tony did not have his bloods done on Monday. He has been feeling really ill, so I had to cancel.

    Barbara, tomorrow you have your session don't you. Also, you should meet some of the others who are having it done. I shall be with you as well.

    Elizabeth, I have come to a stand still on my weight. But, I do have problems with my tum, so quite often have to take laxatives. When they are needed I know because my weight goes up. And quickly.

    Anyway, I hope everyone is doing okish today including all who are not in the café at the mo. Sending my thoughts and love to all of you.
    Karen xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening all
    Just popping in to say goodnight will have to be off for 8 in the morning to get through the traffic ....Thanks Karen...I am glad they do this sought of a thing...makes things easier.. :D I do hope that Tony feels a little better soon...wish I could help more..
    Elizabeth...I love ice cream...good quality vanilla...so I have had to stop buying it for the min :roll:
    I hope Coco is doing okish...and everyone else...
    Sleep wellish all night xxxxx
    Love
    Barbara

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