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  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    My post went AWOL Grr!!! My internet dropped out :roll:

    I w c085.gif as filling up the fridge with vimto for Elizabeth and Karen

    ......it's going to be another scorcher :)

    I hope you get peace and quiet Elizabeth to do your paperwork and read too.

    Karen clearly pacing yourself helps - I hope you take it steady today.

    Must get dressed

    Off out with husband in a mo.

    Love

    Toni xxx
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning all

    Did anyone manage any sleep last night. Boy, it was so hot. And still hot today. Don't get me wrong, I love hot weather, always used to anyway. But, now my body does not appreciate the heat. How about everyone else.

    Toni, thanks for the vimto. I do so love it. And have a lovely day out with hubby.

    I am not doing much today, the final starts at 2pm, and shall be in the bedroom watching it. (Tony wont watch it)

    Have a lovely day everyone else and take it easy.
    Karen xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Karen, glad you are feeling better. I know what you mean about not knowing your limits. I just keep going till I hit a brick wall. No, I didn't get much sleep. Way too hot even with the window open. Still feels too warm tonight again.

    Elizabeth, yes don't we just know about all the hassle it causes. Although, the kids' dad wants residency, I can't see how that can happen if they have hardly seen him in the last 2 years. Hope you got your trouser hems sewn and enjoyed reading your book. I only manage 1 chapter at a time. I recently bought an e-reader and downloaded a book from the library. I'd only read a couple of chapters and it was returned. Can't find it again.

    Hope you had a lovely day Toni. Where did you go? Might try one of your Vimtos. never had one before.

    Went to see the GC today. The pool was up and it was full of kids. They were in there for hours and had such a great time.

    When is Barbara back? Hope she enjoyed herself.

    Hope everyone else has had a good weekend.
    Christine
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    I have a my tax credit info/ bank statements to hand but I am not going to start it until tomorrow, fresh and awake I hope.

    Your ex is probably looking to make life difficult Applerose. Mine couldn't bury me under the patio so this was the next best thing. I wish these blokes woulsd do nice things for the family instead causing hassle and worry and expense.
    I actually went to party yesterday! Albeit a kids party but there were adults there to talk to. I only got told it was a kids party on Thurs and then had to ask OH if any Aunts and Uncles were going because he is happy to assume things. So he took our Son for a walk and I just sat and talked. If I told you I hadn't been to a party since Sept you will understand how nice it was! And also have another BBQ this Sat and OH is babysitting!!!!

    Barbara should be back today. She has her op this week.

    Speak soon
    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hello all Im back and we have had a lovely time ...very hot.. see I told you all when I have my THR we will have an heatwave :roll: I have read back and see that Christine's son didnt get his job, but the same here I believe its for a reason
    And H is getting ready for college...
    sorry my brain has gone but thank you for your kind wishes for my Little holiday.... :D
    While away I got a call off my consultants secretary...Friday just has we had landed...and she say he wants me in earlier than 10 30 for an Xray...she didn't have a clue why...very strange...
    I will now go and get a cuppa and water my garden....
    See you all later xxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hope you are all enjoying this weather.Painted the wooden garden table a rather fetching iris blue ,plenty of paint left so painted the bird table ,there is at least one sparrow that has blue feet. :lol: Mig
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Afternoon all

    Oh Barbara, you're home. But you haven't said about how you enjoyed it, was it good relaxation for you. Good to see you though.

    Maybe the consultant has decided he will choose which hip to do, you never know. As I said, I shall be with you all the way Barbara. And Tony sends his love to you.

    Elizabeth, I do know what you mean, I cant remember the last time we went out, getting rather fed up with it now. And out again on Saturday, good for you, enjoy.

    Mig, a sparrow with blue feet, that I would love to see. You will have to take a picture. I do admire you doing all this painting in this heat though. I a finding it hard going myself.

    Hope you all have had a good day and not to suffering with the heat.
    Karen xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    afternoon Karen and Mig
    Karen we had a lovely time...the B&B is across from the sea and we can watched the punch and Judy from the window... :lol: its still in the family after a couple of hundred years...
    I didnt want to come home...especially with this op looming.... but I have to have it done...
    I hope you have all enjoyed the good weather...and will see you later xxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    By the time I got the camera it had flown away.wasn't too hot in our garden this afternoon,hubby moved the bird table into the shade where there was a bit of a breeze so it was ok,he was on tea making duties.
    Hope the breeze lasts ,last night was horrid.
    Glad you had a good time,op will be fine ,are you packed yet ,got plenty of nibbles for pocket duties will try not to make too much noise.Mig
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Elizabeth. It's not my ex that's the problem. (Well he is just one big problem but not with this :lol: ) It's my daughter-in-law's ex and it's her children who don't want to see their dad. You're right. All he needs to do is be nice to the kids and the problem's solved. I know what you mean about the party. I found myself on my own yesterday and really wanted to have someone to chat to. Eventually got a reply from my son that they were at home so went up there to find hundreds of kids throwing themselves about in the pool. :D Enjoy your bbq on Saturday.

    Hi Barbara. Glad you had such a good time and hope you were able to forget the op for a while. Would they not normally take an xray before this sort of op so they can see how things are? Would you like to come and water my garden please? Can't use my hose at the moment so have to keep wandering in and out with the watering can.

    Mig, you have been busy. I'm just picturing all the twitchers with their cameras taking pictures of the rare blue-footed sparrow. :lol:

    Hope you aren't suffering with the heat Karen.
    Christine
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Welcome home Barbara - sure the piccie is so it's up to date probably then you will have a 'before and after' on ;)

    A heatwave will be fine - we had one for my back surgery 2003?? got to 100 deg?? It's fine because you are resting and sleeping a lot anyway.

    I rather like Eilzabeth's phrase that your ex couldn't bury you under the patio :lol: very witty!! Not legally anyway. You got the last laugh and Applerose so will your daughter in law - the love of the kids :)

    I have it now too.....after years of stress and anxiety.

    mig we have a breeze too and have had windows open all day and the fan is on cold flannel at the ready so fingers crossed for a better night tonight eh ;) Shame you missed the birdie - better luck next time eh? :) I bet he wont go out till his feet are 'normal again' :lol:

    Karen I am glad you like your vimto - hey I remember going through a phase of drinking it will of all things, GIN in it in my youth :oops:

    Christine we went to a place called Colwich and Great and Little Haywood in staffs. It was lovely. Glad you had such a lovely time with the GCs in the pool. Kids are great aren't they?

    Love

    Toni xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Afternoon all
    Just had my hair cut...and boy did it need it... :shock: so my bag is packed...they have rang this morning from the hossie to see if any thing has changed...so I am ready has I ever will be.... :shock:
    hubby is fitting my toilet and frame...and I am cleaning the house not that it wont want doing when I get home.....but he can do it then ...any excuse.. :lol:
    Sorry I am not with it even though I have read back.... :? I hope you are all okish and enjoy the weather...might see you later xxxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Lovely to have you back Barbara and so glad you had such a lovely time. You were right about the heatwave. I had my THR in July but actually it is nice for recovery. Who wants to be shivering with all that going on?

    Whoops sorry Applerose. I'm glad its not you as you have a lot of worry as it is.

    Yep Toni I got the last laugh all round. He had lots of money but I don't miss it at all. I'm glad you are happy now after years of stress and anxieties.

    I have had a welcome sleep this morning but had to get up and order some birthday presents for my Niece and Lucy needs new trousers as she has outgrown them all so been looking in the online sales.

    Sounds a lovely colour Mig but hope the poor Sparrows haven't got it on their feet!

    Karen I'm finding the heat a bit much too.

    Elizabeth x
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening all

    Barbara, I shall be thinking of you tomorrow. Everything will be fine. Honest, you will be so glad you had it done. I hear there's going to be plenty of nibbles, that's good. Keep our strength up for you. Sending you mine and Tonies love, and shall be with you tomorrow all the way.

    Hope everyone has had a goodish day. They now reckon the heat wave is going to stay with us for while now. Phew.

    Think we have now sorted out H's funding for college so that's a load of our minds.

    Have a good night all of you and hope you manage some sleep on this heat.
    Karen xx
  • barbara12
    barbara12 Member Posts: 21,281
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    A quick one I am sat here with a cup of tea and had toast...I rang the ward last night and they said tea and toast before 6.30....I dont eat in a morning but I have got it down has its an afternoon op...I wont get anything till tonight or tomorrow...mind you sure I wont feel like eating... :roll:
    Love to all of you and thanks so much for your support...and enjoy this weather...I did warn you we would have an heatwave when I went in.... :o
    xxxxxxx
    Love
    Barbara
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Morning

    Barbara, I shall be thinking of you. We shall really miss you so hurry up and recover wont you. :) I shall join you for a cuppa, and give you a big hug. By the way have lost your mobile no. Can you send it to me again.

    Good luck Barbara.xxxxx
    Karen xx
  • tkachev
    tkachev Member Posts: 8,332
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Good luck Barbara. I know it feels scary but you will be so pleased once it is over. I hope Hubby will bw okay without you although I'm sure he'll be spending many hours by your bedside.

    Not being able to eat or drink was THE WORST PART!!!!!

    Hugs to those that need them, have left a sleeping potion by the kettle :D

    Elizabeth
    Never be bullied into silence.
    Never allow yourself to be made a victim.
    Accept no ones definition of your life

    Define yourself........

    Harvey Fierstein
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    :? :? :?

    am worrying about our Barbara.

    She needs the op though and it WILL be worth it.

    Hi Elizabeth - thanks for the sleeping potion I will have a sip :wink: Take care yourself.

    Hi Karen - we will miss her won't we? Ah well it needed doing.

    Love to all

    Toni xxx
  • mig
    mig Member Posts: 7,154
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hopefully our Barb is back in her ward bed.
    Pretty cool here today had to out a cardi on. Mig
  • constable
    constable Member Posts: 2,115
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening all

    I am the same, wondering how the op went and that Barbara is back on the ward. Hopefully she will now start on her recovery and in time feel lots better with a new hip. Mig, it is boiling down here. Come and take some of the heat away, please.

    Hope you all have a good evening.
    Karen xx
  • applerose
    applerose Member Posts: 3,621
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Looks like my last night's post has disappeared. Hope Barbara is doing ok.

    Elizabeth, hope you got the things you wanted in the sales. I'm finding it difficult in this heat too. Thank goodness it was cooler today.

    Karen, glad you've sorted out H's funding for college. bet she's really looking forward to it now.

    Toni, I'm wondering how Barbara is too. Guess there's no point worrying though. I'm sure she's doing ok. As you say, it will be worth it for her.

    Mig, I wore a cardi to walk to work this morning but didn't need it afterwards. It's quite a nice temperature here now.

    Hope you all have a better night's sleep tonight and that it's cooler where you are.
    Christine
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Christine I think we will all sleep better tonight.

    Hoping our Barbara is all done and dusted and she sleeps REALLY well tonight :?

    The only way is UP for her now. I bet she will be a star and do really well :)

    Night everyone

    Love

    Toni xxx
  • roses1
    roses1 Member Posts: 1,850
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Evening All,

    Wow Barbara your hair looks fab! Hope you are doing well after the op,i am sure you are! ((((( hugs))))

    Some bottles of Evian in the fridge so its nice and cold for these hot nights help yourselves and i hope everyone sleeps well tonight it is still hot!

    take care
    Rose x
  • frogmorton
    frogmorton Member Posts: 29,915
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi Rose

    Just popped by to see if Barbara has been in touch yet.... :?

    Hope she is doing well.

    Love to everyone else

    Toni xxx
  • RosieGlow
    RosieGlow Member Posts: 175
    edited 30. Nov -1, 00:00
    Hi everyone,

    Hope you are all as well as can be expected.

    Sorry I have been awol, but I am in hospital, have been for the last four weeks, and likely to be for another couple of weeks.

    I developed an infection of the blood, and an infection of the discs around the base of my spine. I already have Arthur there, so a double whammy. As a result, I couldn`t walk. Pain was absolutely awful, although now mostly under control with uber strength drugs.

    I have had every scan/test/ultra sound etc in an effort to find out how this all happened, but everything is clear. The doctors are calling me Mrs Mystery. Good to have a very thorough, successful MOT though. I think there`s only me feet they haven`t scanned!!

    The blood infection has now cleared, so it`s all about hammering the disc infection with the AB`s, and then I`m hoping to attend a new Rehabilitation Centre to help with getting my walking sorted.

    I`m lucky to have a private room, with en suite - on the NHS!! - and my son has fixed me up with all manner of technology, so that I can at least keep in touch with the outside world.

    Sorry for the long post, I hope I haven`t bored you all. Hoping to be able to keep up with everyone, but I do get tired very easily.......Rosie.x.