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vonski

Oh! Legs I am so sorry for your loss. It's good that you managed to talk to him and tell him you love him, sure he knew that already.

Love and ((((()))))
Yvonne xx

joanlawson

I'm so sorry to hear of your Dad's death, Linda. He was surrounded by love, so I hope you will be comforted by that thought.



Joan

bertyboy

So sorry Linda my thoughts are with you and your loved one , your dad is now at peace , gentle caring hugs xx

julie47

Linda I am so very sorry for your loss

Love & hugs to you and all your family

Juliepf x

bubbadog

Linda I'm so sorry to hear the news of your father's passing. My thoughts are with you and your family. Amanda. xx

theresa4

Linda, so sorry for your loss theres nothing much anyone can say at this time but we are all here when you are ready to talk.
Sending you love and hugs (((((((((()))))))))) for you and your family

Theresa x

skezier

Legs i am so sorry. thinking of you and your family. Cris xxx

kellerman

Oh Linda,
Just come in from hospital and seen your news.
Even when it's expected it's still a shock.You know I'll be thinking about you.
Take care of yourself hun,your Dad is now at peace.
God bless you.
Love May

fayrose

Oh Legs, I'm so sorry xx

kathbee

So very sorry to hear your sad news Linda.

Thinking of you.
Love Kath xx

dachshund

Linda i'm so sorry to read your sad news.
take care i will be thinking about you at this sad time.
joan xx

liesa

God Bless you all at this sad time xx

lindalegs

Thank you everyone, your words are of great comfort to me.

I'm feeling sad and nostalgic but at least I know he was with my brothers when he died and not alone in hospital as my Mum was.

My sister is very upset because she stayed at my brother's with Dad for three days and two nights and he actually died when she’d popped home for a couple of hours rest. She wanted to physically be with him and hold his hand as he went. I’ve tried to reassure her and told her she could have done no more for him than she did but, sadly, she’s full of ‘if onlys’. Sometimes there's nothing you can say to ease the grief.

Poppyg1rl

Linda, I am so sorry for the loss of your lovely Dad, you are quite right, sometimes nothing you say can help ease the grief or stop the if onlys. You think you'll never get through it at the time, and people tell you all sorts of things, time helps etc, for me, and I only speak for me, I found the more I talked to people who knew my little loved one, and reminisced about all the good times we had, it felt like the loved one hadn't gone, they are there clearly in our hearts and nothing can take that away.
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers Linda (((((()))))) Xxx

lindalegs

Yes, Poppy, talking does help and even writing it down and sharing it, like now, with people we have never met. I am very sorry for the loss of your little one.

I shall miss my Dad but we had a worse time last Christmas when my eldest brother lost his 3-year old granddaughter and my cousin hung himself where his family would find him. I was unable to say on the Forum at the time but that was truly terrible.

To lose my Dad is very sad but it is the right order of things, when a 3-year old child dies who hasn't even had a fair chance of life is so wrong, words cannot articulate the sadness of that loss.

That doesn't mean to say I'm not grateful for everyone's thoughts and kind wishes now for the loss of my dear Dad, I truly am.

frogmorton

Oh Legs

l am so sorry to hear that your Dad has gone :sad:

I am even more sad to hear what you went through last year and we didn't even realise our friend was suffering like that :shock:

Please do accept my genuine genuine love and best wishes for you.



Love and hugs

Toni xx

stickywicket

Like your sister, we all do the 'what ifs' at a time like this. It's sad for her but worse for you and you've dealt with it brilliantly. You did all you possibly could and he had a 'good death'. You're right about the natural order of things. Last year's events must have been horrific. ((( )))

madwestie

Linda, my thoughts are with you. it is good that you are reminiscing and trying to remember the good things and your dad had loved ones with him to the end which was lovely.
I know exactly how your sister felt we missed being with my dad at the end by minutes and if went though the if only (if only we hadn't waited for my brother, if only the hospital had rung sooner) I did work through it and eventually realised that there was nothing i could do to change it but i had to realise that myself and your sister will work her way through it.
I am really glad you got to tell your dad everything you wanted to
you are in my thoughts
Tracey

woodbon

Dear Linda,
May your dear Father Rest in Peace. Its always a shock, no matter how much you're expecting it.
It sounds as if your family have all pulled together, which is a legacy your dear Father left you. You and your family, are in my thoughts and prayers. With all my love, and a hugs xxxx(((())))
Sue xxxx ((((()))))

skezier

Hi Legs,

Flower what you have gone through the last 12 months is so unfair and suicide is never an easy one for any family.

I hope so much that knowing we are all thinking of you helps and leaving a (((((((((( )))))))))) and some fortitude and strength. Love Cris xx

barbara12

Hi Linda
I have only just come back off my hols, and I am so very sorry to read about your Dad, and all that you have gone through in the past year, hopefully like the others have said, talking to us lot will help if only a little.
My thoughts are with you....they really are xx

fayrose

Reading your last post here Legs, my heart aches for you. Have been through similar horrors in the past year, so can almost imagine your pain.
(((Hugs))) lass xxxxx

mp1952

So sorry to hear of your loss, linda, and the awful things thst happened last Christmas.

Marion xx

speedalong

Dear Linda,

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad and also the awful horrors of last Christmas.

I'm sending you cyber support.

Speedy